Tom Cruise’s Girlfriend History: From Nicole Kidman to Katie Holmes to Today

Tom Cruise has had a high-profile love life ever since launching his acting career in the '80s. Here's a complete breakdown of the 'Mission: Impossible' star's romantic history.

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  • Tom Cruise is an actor, famous for films like Top Gun , Jerry Maguire , and Mission: Impossible .
  • He’s been married to Mimi Rogers, Nicole Kidman and Katie Holmes.

Tom Cruise ‘s love life has been closely followed for decades, ever since making his breakthrough in the 1983 classic  Risky Business . His romantic history consists of three famous marriages (all of which ended, coincidentally, when his wives were 33 years old) and a string of other high-profile romances. But between 2012-2020, Tom seemingly pumped the brakes on public romances.

However, there was renewed interest in the love life of one of Hollywood’s most famous bachelors after a new report surfaced in December 2020. It claimed that Tom was dating his co-star   Hayley Atwell  from Mission: Impossible 7 . In June 2022, another report came out that the pair broke up . In 2023, Tom reportedly moved on with model Elsina Khayrova . We have more information on that below — including Tom’s many other romances since the ’80s.

Melissa Gilbert

Tom Cruise, Melissa Gilbert

Melissa Gilbert , 59, who played Laura Ingalls on the NBC series Little House on the Prairie , claimed that she dated Tom in the early 1980’s. This was at the very beginning of his career! “Actually, when I dated him he was Tom Mapother still. It was when he first moved to Los Angeles and I think I was 16, maybe, or 17?,” Melissa said on Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen   in 2017.

“I did not have sex with him,” Laura added. “We made out, but, honestly, there was no sex. He was a good kisser. But, you know, he was, like, a struggling, starving actor. I actually bought him his first set of dishes.” Melissa even reminisced on her friendship/past relationship with her fellow “Brat Pack” pal, Tom, in a throwback Instagram post shared in Oct. 2019.

Heather Locklear

Tom Cruise With Heather Locklear 1981. Credit: 1838378Globe Photos/MediaPunch /IPX

Heather Locklear , 61, was never Tom’s girlfriend, but she did go on one (sort of) date with him. It didn’t go well, according to her recollection. The Melrose Place  star explained in a 2013 interview on Chelsea Lately  that they had both “auditioned for something” together, back when Tom “didn’t have friends” in Hollywood in the early ’80s. So, they went dancing.

“You know in ‘Risky Business’ where he does that dance in his underwear and does the splits? We were dancing at a club and he went into that. He starting doing the splits,” Heather said. “You just kind of stand there and don’t know what to do. Do you dance around him? So, I was like, ‘I’ll just sit down and you can.'”

“And that was the only date you had?,” Chelsea Handler then asked Heather, to which the actress said, “I think so.” Tom and Heather are pictured above together in 1981.

Rebecca De Mornay

Rebecca de Mornay, Tom Cruise

Rebecca de Mornay and Tom played lovers in Tom’s breakthrough film, Risky Business , which came out in 1983. Their on-screen chemistry turned out to be real! Although Rebecca joked that Tom was “extremely annoying” at first, she admitted, “He came to grow on me because we wound up together for two and a half years after that film” in a 2018 interview with Celebrity Page .

Tom Cruise, Cher

Tom Cruise famously made Cher ‘s “Top 5” lovers list, which she revealed on  Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen  in 2013. “I had just the greatest lovers ever. Not a long list. It’s just a good list,” the 77-year-old singer had said.

Cher explained how she and Tom connected in a separate interview. “A bunch of people who were dyslexic were invited to the White House, and Tom and I are both dyslexic. We didn’t go out till way later, but there definitely was a connection there,” Cher told the  Mail on Sunday   in 2018. She added, “Though I don’t get what he does, that whole Scientology thing. I can’t understand it so I just… don’t.”

Mimi Rogers

Tom Cruise, Mimi Rogers

It was during this relationship that Tom infamously joined the Church of Scientology, which he is a prominent figure in to this day. When Tom met actress Mimi Rogers , 67, she had been a few years divorced from Scientologist Jim Rogers . “I met her at a dinner party about a year ago, when I was developing Top Gun. She was dating a friend, and, uh, I thought she was extremely bright,” Tom recalled in a 1986 interview with Rolling Stone .

However, Mimi had a conflicting story. “I wasn’t seeing anybody, he wasn’t seeing anybody, and they thought, ‘These people should be going out with somebody — let’s see if they want to go out with each other.’ And we said, ‘Aw, what the heck. OK’,” Mimi told the Sun Sentinel  in 1987.

Tom sounded smitten in another Rolling Stone interview, which was published mere days before his split from Mimi was announced in 1990. “I’d never been in love before. Since I’ve been with her, it’s opened me up a lot. I think it’s helped me be a better actor. We live a lot of life together. We share everything,” he gushed, later adding, “I care about my wife more than anything in the world. She’s my best friend. I just really like being with her, you know? I love her.” The divorce was finalized in February 1990, three years after they got married.

Nicole Kidman

Tom Cruise, Nicole Kidman

Tom Cruise moved on to his next marriage, which was with Moulin Rouge!  star Nicole Kidman , 55. They met on the set of their movie Days of Thunder , in which they played lovers, in 1990. By the end of the year, they were husband and wife. Tom and Nicole adopted two children amid their 11-year marriage : Isabella in 1992, and Connor in 1994.

During the marriage, Tom and Nicole also filmed another movie together, Eyes Wide Shut , in 1999. Nicole even looked back at their time filming together in a rare interview in Oct. 2020, telling the  New York Times , “We were happily married through that. We would go go-kart racing after those scenes. We’d rent out a place and go racing at three in the morning. I don’t know what else to say. Maybe I don’t have the ability to look back and dissect it. Or I’m not willing to.”

Nicole famously never joined Tom’s Church of Scientology, which even their children went on to be active members in. Tom and Nicole’s split was announced in Feb. 2001, and Tom filed for divorce two days later. To this day, the exes have minimal interactions with one another. “Tom has had little to no contact with Nicole in the 18 years since being married and that is fine by him,” a source close to Tom EXCLUSIVELY told HollywoodLife . “He really does not miss her much at all.”

Penélope Cruz

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Tom took a break from the married life and started dating Penélope Cruz , 49, whom he met on the set of the movie Vanilla Sky  in 2000. They enjoyed a three-year relationship, which the former couple’s reps confirmed ended in 2004. “They remain good friends and still talk often. There is no other person involved,” Penelope’s spokesperson told PEOPLE at the time.

Katie Holmes

Tom Cruise, Katie Holmes

Enter Katie Holmes , who to date remains one of Tom’s most famous exes. Ironically, Katie , 44, she once told Seventeen Magazine   in 2004 that she “used to think that [she] was going to marry Tom Cruise,” which didn’t turn out to just be wishful thinking. The two came together the very next year.

Katie and Tom’s first public appearance as lovers happened in April of 2005. Tom was with the Dawson’s Creek star in Rome, where he was visiting to collect his David di Donatello Award for lifetime achievement. The very next month, Tom was jumping on Oprah Winfrey ‘s couch and proclaiming that he’s “in love” (to which Oprah said, “The boy is gone”).

The relationship quickly advanced. When Katie stepped onto the  Batman Begins  premiere in June of 2005, the actress revealed that she’s converting to Scientology (Tom’s religion) and her engagement to Tom was announced that very same month. By October, the couple was expecting, and in April of 2006 they welcomed their first child together, a daughter named Suri .

Katie and Tom tied the knot in Italy in Nov. 2006, and all seemed happy until June of 2012, when Katie filed for divorce. A settlement for custody of Suri was decided on a month later. A year afterwards, Tom admitted that he “didn’t expect” that divorce in an interview with German television network ProSieben.

Katie reflected on the time after the divorce in an April 2020 interview with   InStyle . “That time was intense. It was a lot of attention, and I had a little child on top of it. We had some funny moments out and about in public. So many people I didn’t know became my friends and helped us out, and that’s what I love about the city,” she said.

Hayley Atwell

Tom Cruise, Hayley Atwell

Tom reportedly started dating Hayley Atwell  — whom you may have seen playing Peggy Carter in the Captain America  movies — in 2020, according to a report from The Sun that surfaced in Dec. of that year. Hayley and Tom filmed Mission 7: Impossible  together amid the pandemic.

“Tom and Hayley hit it off from day one,” a source told The Sun , who added, “Lockdown, and all the difficulties that came with it, brought them even closer and they’ve become fairly inseparable.” Tom and Hayley did not confirm this report, but he hasn’t confirmed any romances since his marriage to Katie, and on June 12, 2022, it was reported he and Hayley had split . It was the second reported split since back in Sept. 2021, they reportedly also called it quits but reconciled a short time later.

“Tom and Hayley’s relationship was genuine,” a source told The Sun . “In spite of some rumours to the contrary, it was never just for the cameras. Unfortunately it hasn’t worked out for them. They get on really well, and have fantastic chemistry, which is why they decided to quietly give the relationship another try earlier this year.”

Elsina Khayrova

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In mid-2023, multiple outlets reported that Tom had quietly started dating the model and socialite.

“They’re very happy,” a source told Us Weekly in December 2023. “And Tom’s extremely confident about it working out for the long term. Tom is going into 2024 totally energized, excited and feeling healthier and happier than he has in years. This is a very special time for him, and having a serious relationship in his life that he can build on is the icing on the cake.”

A Look At Tom Cruise's Lengthy Dating And Relationship History

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Tom Cruise is the epitome of the modern movie star. As he embarks on his fifth decade as one of the world's most famous actors, Cruise's undeniable star power still draws audiences into movie theaters, a stupendous feat in the era of streaming and social media. But it's not just his dedication to his craft — like jumping off a cliff while riding a motorcycle for 2023's "Mission: Impossible – Dead Reckoning" — or the billions of dollars his films have raked in at the global box office that keep Cruise in the pop culture conversation. Since he arrived on the scene, Cruise's personal life has grabbed plenty of headlines, and decades after making it in Tinseltown, it still does.

For someone who allegedly once considered becoming a monk, Cruise's love life has been anything but cloistered. He's been linked to everyone from television sweethearts to cinematic ingenues and even a pop icon. Cruise's relationships and marriages have long been the subject of tabloid speculation ... and not all the attention has been good. Do you think you can handle the truth (as well as gossip rag chatter and media reports) about his love life? If so, read on and take a look at Tom Cruise's lengthy dating and relationship history.

Tom Cruise's first Hollywood tryst was with Melissa Gilbert

In the early 1980s, young Thomas Cruise Mapother IV was an eager, fresh-faced young actor ready to take on Hollywood, and his first Tinseltown romance happened so early in his career that he had still yet to change his name . When Tom Cruise dated "Little House on the Prairie" actor Melissa Gilbert, she was the recognizable star. An Emmy-nominated showbiz veteran with years of acting experience under her belt by the time she was a teen, Gilbert later shared on " Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen " that she and Cruise went out when she was 16 or 17 years old. While there was no sex during their time together, Gilbert admitted that she and Cruise made out.

Gilbert and Cruise's relationship was short-lived, but it wasn't the last time the young stars would cross paths. Gilbert moved on to a relationship with Rob Lowe, Cruise's co-star in the 1983 teen drama "The Outsiders." Allegedly, Gilbert and Cruise still hooked up while she was with Lowe, but any possible clandestine love triangles didn't stop the trio from hanging out together publicly. 

In 2021, Lowe shared a throwback photo of himself, Gilbert, Cruise, and fellow actor Michelle Meyrink on an outing together on his Instagram . Lowe captioned the photo in part, "Double date 1980s style!"

Heather Locklear couldn't take his cringe dance moves

Tom Cruise was still a relatively unknown actor when he went on his one and only date with TV star Heather Locklear. She was simultaneously appearing on the hit TV shows "T.J. Hooker" and "Dynasty," and he was grabbing roles in movies like "Endless Love" and "Taps," when the pair hit the town in the early '80s. Clearly, she had the star power, but Cruise was on the brink of fame — and according to Locklear's recollection of their date, he was already making some moves that would make him a movie star.

During a 2013 appearance on "Chelsea Lately" (via the  Daily Mail ), Locklear claimed Cruise busted out some embarrassing dance moves at a club that left her bewildered. She likened them to the ones in his famous 1983 breakout movie "Risky Business," where he slides across a living room in nothing but a button-up shirt, briefs, and white socks. "You just kind of stand there and don't know what to do. Do you dance around him? It was weird. I just sat down," she said.

Locklear didn't pinpoint the exact year of their date, but it was definitely before Cruise was mega famous. Admittedly weirded out by the future movie star, Locklear didn't date Cruise again. And although "Risky Business" writer and director Paul Brickman credits himself for the movie's iconic dance scene, one can't help but wonder if one of Cruise's moves from his Locklear date actually made the final cut.

From friendzone to lovers with Rebecca De Mornay

Tom Cruise and his "Risky Business" co-star, Rebecca De Mornay, had a two-and-a-half-year relationship, but the pair didn't exactly hit it off at first. De Mornay later dished with a laugh to Celebrity Page , "I will say that I thought he was very annoying when we first started [filming]." Clearly, she got over Cruise-induced aggravation as they became more than just colleagues, but when they were doing press for the movie, the pair was publicized as merely being close pals. 

Although they played coy to the media, their co-star Curtis Armstrong's "Revenge of the Nerd" memoir (via The Hollywood Reporter ) later revealed that they were apparently openly and intensely engaging with each other during production. Their budding relationship was interrupted, however, by on-set appearances by De Mornay's then-beau, Harry Dean Stanton, who eventually got miffed enough about their affair that he went to confront Cruise about it, as De Mornay recalled to Vanity Fair . She admittedly left the "Paris, Texas" actor for Cruise, and the couple quickly became media darlings and paparazzi targets. They broke up just before Cruise began work on his 1986 blockbuster film "Top Gun."

She might have dumped him for Cruise, but De Mornay's relationship with Stanton proved to have staying power, while her time with Cruise stayed strictly in the past. Remembering the late Stanton, who died in 2017, De Mornay told Vanity Fair, "Harry Dean and I are best friends, and Tom and I don't talk."

His short-lived but influential marriage to Mimi Rogers

Tom Cruise's first marriage was to actor Mimi Rogers, and while short-lived, it proved to immensely impact Cruise's future. He and Rogers met at a dinner party when Cruise's 1986 blockbuster film "Top Gun" was in development. The couple married in a small, private ceremony in New York state in May 1987, with Cruise's "The Outsiders" co-star, Emilio Estevez, on best man duty. Rogers, a second-generation Scientologist, is credited for introducing Cruise to Scientology, per The Daily Beast , an organization whose influence would reportedly play a big part in his love life.

While they kept their relationship fairly low-key, rumors swirled in the press around their unsuccessful attempts at having children together, sparking years of speculation about Cruise's sexuality. He and Rogers quietly separated in 1989, and their split was officially announced the following year . Publicly, their divorce was partially chalked up Cruise's ascent into superstardom, with his focus on work leaving little time for love. Privately, alleged infidelity — including with his "Days of Thunder" co-star and future wife, Nicole Kidman — and reported meddling from Scientology officials  were apparently factors in their breakup. 

When asked about his first marriage in 1994, Cruise blurted to Vanity Fair, "It was a long time ago. I really don't think about it." Years later, Rogers admitted it took time for the exes to once again be on good terms. In 2001, she told People they were "nice and friendly," but added, "Between his life and mine, it's not like we have a lot of time to see each other."

Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman were the '90s it couple

When Tom Cruise saw Nicole Kidman in the 1989 Australian film "Dead Calm," he wanted to meet her. Shortly thereafter, they co-starred in 1990's "Days of Thunder," and one of the biggest celebrity relationships of that decade was off to a racing start. Cruise and Kidman reportedly hooked up while filming the movie, and after his divorce from Mimi Rogers was finalized, they tied the knot on Christmas Eve 1990. Dubbed "Hollywood's Most Romantic Couple" by People , Cruise shared with Vanity Fair that Kidman was his soul mate, and she told the publication, "He's amazingly romantic. He puts so much work into us." In 1992, they adopted their daughter, Isabella, and would welcome son Connor via adoption three years later.

In true power couple fashion, Cruise and Kidman continued to work together throughout their relationship. In addition to "Days of Thunder," they co-starred in the films "Far and Away" and "Eyes Wide Shut," the latter of which was an intense 15-month movie shoot that Cruise credited with making their marriage stronger. But a year after "Eyes Wide Shut" dropped, their marriage was over. Cruise filed for divorce in December 2000, citing "irreconcilable differences," per Entertainment Weekly . At the time, their rep denied Scientology was a reason for their split, but subsequent reports have alleged otherwise. 

When asked why they divorced by Vanity Fair in 2002, Cruise only said, "She knows why, and I know why. She's the mother of my children, and I wish her well."

He and Penélope Cruz gave tabloids plenty to talk about

Tom Cruise's next relationship was with Spanish actor Penélope Cruz. They met in 2000 on the set of "Vanilla Sky" — and Cruise was technically still legally married to Nicole Kidman when he was first romantically linked to Cruz in the summer of 2001. Cruise and Kidman's divorce was finalized on August 8 of that year, and it's since become a part of pop culture history thanks to an infamous photo of Kidman's alleged celebration. 

Cruise and Cruz soon caused a stir as they made their red-carpet debut at the premiere of her film "Captain Corelli's Mandolin." Cruz embraced Cruise's public support, telling  ABC News , "He came and shared [the spotlight] with me. It was special for me that he wanted to share it with me that way." Cruise didn't spare any romantic gestures, telling Marie Claire (via Entertainment Weekly ) in 2003 that he would surprise Cruz by cooking her favorite foods and drawing baths for whenever she arrived home. 

Despite any notions of domestic bliss, however, the relationship proved to be dramatic fodder for the tabloids. Things actually got so intense in the rumor department that Cruz sued Australian tabloid New Idea for defamation for peddling lies about the couple. Per Variety , the outlet published a retraction and issued an apology. Unfortunately, Cruz's legal victory didn't stop the gossip, and in 2004, she and Cruise amicably broke up after three years together. A source told People , "The relationship just ran its course and they decided not to be girlfriend and boyfriend anymore."

Age was just a number for Cher and Tom Cruise

One of Tom Cruise's more curious romantic trysts was with entertainment superstar Cher. 16 years his senior, Cher was already an established music and TV star and well into the movie star phase of her career when she met Cruise at Sean Penn and Madonna's 1985 Malibu wedding. Apparently, Cher's bright purple hair at the nuptials didn't spark an immediate love connection with the young actor, but she and Cruise reconnected later that year at a White House event that raised awareness around dyslexia, a learning disorder both stars have been diagnosed with. While they didn't hook up at the event, Cher later told the  Daily Mail , "We didn't go out till way later, but there definitely was a connection there."

Soon, however, Cruise was apparently making Cher say "whoa" in more ways than one. Cher previously revealed to Oprah Winfrey  that they'd even lived together in his apartment, saying, "He was so wonderful, and I was so crazy about him." Cher further praised Cruise on " Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen ," sharing that she considers him in the top five of her greatest lovers. 

For his part, Cruise has stayed mum on his romance with Cher , but there seems to be no animosity between them. Calling Cruise a "great, lovable guy," Cher further told Cohen on "WWHL" (via Page Six ), "It was pretty hot and heavy for a little minute."

His blink-and-you-missed-it fling with Sofía Vergara

Among many of Tom Cruise's romantic trysts was a brief interlude with a pre-"Modern Family" Sofía Vergara. When the two got together in the early '00s, Vergara's small roles in Hollywood movies like "Big Trouble," "The 24th Day," and "Soul Plane" weren't creating a path to superstardom. Cruise, who was having trouble finding a girlfriend, allegedly made Scientology honchos a list of potential love interests — and Vergara made the cut. 

According to Andrew Morton's book " Tom Cruise: An Unauthorized Biography ," the relatively unknown Vergara was set up to meet Cruise by Will Smith at a pre-Oscars bash in 2005. Hitting it off, Vergara began hanging out with Cruise, even bringing her son, Manolo, with her so that he could get to know his kids, Isabella and Connor. Things were seemingly moving forward in their relationship at an incredible clip, so much so that there were allegedly even talks of marriage mere weeks after they got together.

But for Vergara, the ever-looming presence of Scientology reportedly proved to be too much. When it was allegedly demanded that she convert to Scientology to continue their relationship, Vergara is said to have balked. A pal claimed to Morton, "She was fundamentally terrified by Scientology. She sincerely believed that she would be struck down by God and burn in hell if she joined." Needless to say, the Cruise-Vergara era was over before it had a chance to get started.

Nazanin Boniadi allegedly didn't pass the girlfriend audition

In the mid-'00s, Tom Cruise was looking for love, and — allegedly with the help of the Church of Scientology — he tried to find it with Iranian-born British actor Nazanin Boniadi. The "Homeland" star was already a Scientologist when she was reportedly chosen to become Cruise's girlfriend by the organization following a round of auditions in late 2004. According to a 2012 report by  Vanity Fair , though Boniadi wasn't initially told that her top-secret Scientology project was preparing her to meet Cruise, she hesitantly embraced the chance to be with him and decided to take the attention from the actor as a compliment.

While Cruise reportedly didn't hold back on the PDA, Boniadi was more reserved, which purportedly irritated the star. As their relationship progressed, Boniadi felt increasingly confined by the arrangement, which allegedly included confidentiality agreements and being controlled by Cruise and Scientology officials. Things came to a breaking point when Boniadi was at Cruise's Telluride, Colorado home and asked Church of Scientology head David Miscavige to repeat himself, allegedly leaving Miscavige insulted and Cruise appalled at the apparent slight. By January 2005, Boniadi and Cruise were done, with the actual breakup reportedly conducted not by Cruise, but by Scientology officials. 

Per the Independent , the Church of Scientology denied these claims. In 2012, Boniadi name-checked Cruise on an anti-Scientology diss track: "But we all know how it is, there ain't no road to freedom / It's a blind alley, like Kirstie Alley / Travolta and Cruise, but we ain't no fools."

Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes' marriage defined an era

Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes' famous romance defined the celebrity-obsessed pop culture of the mid-'00s. Holmes was apparently one of many women who allegedly auditioned to be Tom Cruise's girlfriend , and she seemingly nailed it by admitting her childhood crush on him. Cruise and Holmes took things public in 2005 during the whirlwind publicity tours for their movies "The War of the Worlds" and "Batman Begins." Cruise jumping on Oprah Winfrey's couch and sparring with Matt Lauer about the history of psychiatry? It all happened that spring and summer amidst the heat of the "TomKat" romance. Less than two years after meeting, Cruise and Holmes would welcome their child, Suri, and get married in an extravagant Italian ceremony that reportedly cost $3 million.

Once the dust settled on their marriage, it seems all was not what it seemed to be. Confined by their intense fame, Holmes admitted to Vanity Fair reporter Maureen Orth in 2012, "Oh, we don't go outside very much," and Scientology was reportedly a constant presence in their private lives. Holmes filed for divorce that June, allegedly blindsiding Cruise with the move . Thanks to help from her attorney father, Holmes had a prenuptial agreement in place, and their divorce was finalized in less than two weeks. 

Of her split from Cruise, Holmes — who was awarded primary custody of Suri — told InStyle  in 2020, "That time was intense. It was a lot of attention. ... We had some funny moments out and about in public." To say the least, Katie!

Was his alleged romance with Hayley Atwell impossible?

After his headline-grabby divorce from Katie Holmes in 2012, Tom Cruise kept his personal life mostly to himself throughout much of the 2010s. Cruise's post-Holmes filmography was mostly action-hero fare, including installments of his "Jack Reacher" and "Mission: Impossible" franchises. His public persona became less centered around buoyant displays of affection, as it had in the '00s, and more about Cruise's death-defying film stunt work. But by late 2020, Cruise was rumored to have a new love interest in Hayley Atwell, his "Mission: Impossible – Dead Reckoning" co-star.

The Sun reported that Cruise and Atwell had bonded while filming in both the U.K. and Rome, having become close during the COVID-19 pandemic lockdowns. The following July, the duo took in Wimbledon together, further sparking romance chatter in the media. By September 2021, however, Cruise and Atwell reportedly called it quits, taking the highway to the friendzone. However, they apparently got back together in early 2022, but split up yet again shortly after they both attended the May 2022 premiere of "Top Gun: Maverick." A source cited by  The U.S. Sun partially blamed public scrutiny for the breakup, claiming, "What was working behind closed doors didn't work out so well when it was made public, and the fanfare around them as a couple exploded again. They have now decided they are better as friends."

But were Cruise and Atwell ever actually an item or just a convenient tabloid topic? In May 2023, Atwell flatly denied they were ever romantically involved to Country & Town House .

Tom Cruise and Shakira sparked rumors at the race track

In May 2023, Tom Cruise was linked to singing superstar Shakira after the duo was spotted at a Formula 1 Grand Prix together in Miami. A source dished to Page Six  about the possibility of a love connection and claimed, "He is extremely interested in pursuing her. There is chemistry." The insider further hinted that perhaps Shakira "need[ed] a soft pillow to land on, and that could be Tom" after her dramatic breakup with soccer star Gerard Piqué. 

Sure, Cruise and Shakira chatted it up at an event, and he even reportedly gifted her flowers — but was it the start of a beautiful relationship? According to sources in Shakira's camp, the answer was a resounding "no." While insiders couldn't directly speak to Cruise's alleged floral fixation for the singer, they told TMZ , "She's very much single. ... Shakira's just not interested in dating right now." The sources also clarified that both Cruise and Shakira were merely guests of Formula 1 superstar racer Lewis Hamilton, hence being spotted together. 

Shakira's hips don't lie, but perhaps the tabloids sometimes do.

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Tom Cruise's Dating and Relationship History

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Who is Tom Cruise's girlfriend? For decades, this movie star has thrived in the booming spectacle of Hollywood, defining himself as an iconic figure through films like Top Gun , Rain Man , and the Mission: Impossible franchise . It is not only Tom Cruise’s professional life, marked by remarkable action performances, that ignites interest. His romantic life, peppered with noteworthy relationships, also stands as an intriguing subplot, which has often sprung up to share the spotlight.

Our editors dove into the depths of the Hollywood A-Lister's romances, refreshing their memories and unfolding forgotten tales for an updated overview of Tom Cruise's dating history. From social media posts to archived entertainment news, the comprehensive research ventures to trace Tom Cruise relationships, inclusive of heartwarming commitments and heartbreaking splits.

Cruise's romantic journey hasn't always been steady and is currently without a wife. Through the years, the Hollywood heartthrob has made headlines with his several ex-girlfriends and ex-wives. Nicole Kidman and Katie Holmes - who can forget these two, who also served as his co-stars? Mimi Rogers, the actor's first spouse, deserves mention along with Penelope Cruz and Cher, two of several who dated Tom Cruise in the roller-coaster ride of his love life.

The complete list awaits you. Charting the course of love and loss, this is an intimate glance at the personal aspect of stardom, contemplating who is Tom Cruise's girlfriend today and who were the significant others in his past. This exploration into Tom Cruise's spouses and exes offers a fascinating turn of the page in the star's life story. Have a look at the whole list, it promises to take you on a voyage through the illustrious romantic ventures of one of Hollywood's leading men.

Hayley Atwell

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Hayley Atwell

Atwell and Cruise starred together in the 2018 film Mission: Impossible - Fallout . During filming, rumors circulated that the co-stars were dating, sparked by their on-screen chemistry and friendly behavior off-set. However, there was no official confirmation that Atwell and Cruise were ever romantically involved.

Hayley Atwell is a British-American actress. She is best known for her roles as Peggy Carter in various MCU films and TV series, as well as for starring in historical dramas such as The Duchess (2008) and Christopher Robin (2018). She has received nominations for two Laurence Olivier Awards and two British Independent Film Awards. She holds dual British and American citizenship.

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Laura Prepon

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Laura Prepon

Tom Cruise and Laura Prepon first sparked dating rumors in 2013 when they were spotted enjoying dinner together at a Los Angeles restaurant. The two reportedly met through their mutual involvement with the Church of Scientology, and allegedly clicked instantly. While they were never caught in any public displays of affection, the rumors persisted for quite some time, even though both actors and their representatives continuously denied any romantic involvement. However, their alleged relationship seemed to fade from public interest within a few months, as neither party ever confirmed being an item.

Starting her acting career with an unforgettable role as Donna Pinciotti on the hit TV series, That '70s Show , Laura Prepon rapidly became a household name. After the show's end, she continued to make waves in the television world, landing a prominent role as Alex Vause in the award-winning Netflix series, Orange Is the New Black . Apart from her successful acting career, she has been in high-profile relationships with actor Christopher Masterson and a long-term engagement to Ben Foster, with whom she shares two children.

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Shakira

Cruise and Shakira met at the F1 Grand Prix in Miami in 2023. According to some reports, Cruise became enamored with her while Shakira was just being friendly. Allegedly, he sent her flowers after their initial meeting, but Shakira is focusing on raising her kids and uninterested.

Shakira is a Colombian singer-songwriter who rose to global fame with hits like "Hips Don't Lie" and "Whenever, Wherever". She has sold over 60 million albums worldwide, won 3 Grammys and 12 Latin Grammys. Shakira's relationship history includes dating Argentine lawyer Antonio de la Rúa from 2000 to 2010. In 2011, she started dating Spanish football player Gerard Piqué after meeting on set for the World Cup anthem video. Shakira and Piqué have two sons together, Milan and Sasha. In June 2022, the couple announced their separation after 11 years together. Though fiercely private about her personal life, Shakira's music and activism continue making a global impact.

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Yolanda Pecoraro

In 2012, Yolanda Pecoraro was rumored to be Tom Cruise's next love interest following his divorce from Katie Holmes. They initially met in 2004 at the opening of a Scientology church in Spain, sparking an attraction that would later develop into a brief romance. During their short-lived relationship, Yolanda was often referred to as the "perfect match" for Tom due to their shared beliefs in Scientology. However, as quickly as the rumors began, their romance reportedly fizzled out within a few months, leaving fans wondering what could have been.

Yolanda Pecoraro is a talented actress known for her roles in movies such as Death Tunnel and The Ugly Truth . Her striking beauty and bubbly personality managed to catch the eye of both fans and industry insiders alike. Despite her brief stint in the spotlight with Tom Cruise, Yolanda has remained relatively private in both her personal life and career. Her rumored relationship with Tom remains her most high-profile romance to date.

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Katie Holmes

One of Tom Cruise's most iconic relationships was undoubtedly with actress Katie Holmes . The pair first met in 2005 and quickly fell head over heels in love, with Tom famously jumping on Oprah Winfrey's couch to proclaim his adoration for Katie. They got engaged only two months into their whirlwind romance, ultimately marrying in a lavish Italian ceremony the following year. The couple shared a daughter, Suri, but eventually divorced in 2012 amidst much public scrutiny.

Katie Holmes rose to fame as Joey Potter on the hit teen drama, Dawson's Creek . Her acting career continued to flourish with roles in films such as Batman Begins and The Gift , solidifying her status as an accomplished actress. In addition to her high-profile relationship with Tom Cruise, she has been romantically linked to Joshua Jackson and, more recently, Jamie Foxx. Katie remains a prominent figure in both Hollywood and the world of fashion, often gracing magazine covers and attending exclusive events.

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Sofia Vergara

Sofia Vergara

Sofía Vergara and Tom Cruise were briefly rumored to be an item in 2005, following his split from Penélope Cruz. The pair reportedly met at a party thrown by Will Smith, hitting it off immediately and sharing a few casual dates. While their alleged romance never took off, they remained friendly, often being seen chatting amicably at various events. The rumors eventually died down, and both actors moved on to other high-profile relationships.

This Colombian beauty made a name for herself as a model and actress, appearing in popular Latin American TV shows before breaking into Hollywood with her role as Gloria Delgado-Pritchett on the hit sitcom, Modern Family . Her undeniable talent, combined with her striking looks and vivacious personality, quickly propelled her to superstardom. Sofía's personal life has been marked by a number of relationships, including a marriage to Joe Gonzalez and a highly-publicized engagement to American businessman Nick Loeb before ultimately marrying her current husband, actor Joe Manganiello.

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Tom Cruise and Nazanin Boniadi had a brief yet meaningful relationship from late 2004 to early 2005. The couple was rumored to have been introduced by the Church of Scientology, which played a significant role in their lives at the time. The pair reportedly shared a deep connection, but their romance ultimately ended, leaving Boniadi heartbroken. Despite their split, both Tom and Nazanin have continued their successful acting careers in Hollywood.

British-Iranian actress Nazanin Boniadi first gained recognition for her role as Leyla Mir on the popular soap opera, General Hospital . She later expanded her repertoire to include roles in award-winning TV series such as Homeland and Counterpart , as well as films like Hotel Mumbai and Ben-Hur. Apart from her past relationship with Tom Cruise, Nazanin has also been linked to Emmy-nominated actor Raza Jaffrey. In addition to her acting career, she is a dedicated human rights activist, serving as a spokesperson for Amnesty International.

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The high-profile relationship between Tom Cruise and Penélope Cruz began on the set of their film, Vanilla Sky , in 2001. They dated for three years, sharing a love for acting and often attending red carpet events together. Despite the seemingly perfect match, the couple amicably parted ways in 2004. Although they are no longer together, both actors have spoken fondly of their time together and remain on good terms.

Hailing from Spain, Penélope Cruz achieved international fame with her role in the critically acclaimed film All About My Mother . Her career continued its meteoric rise with performances in movies such as Vicky Cristina Barcelona , for which she won an Academy Award, and Pirates of the Caribbean: On Stranger Tides . In addition to her relationship with Tom Cruise, Penélope has been romantically involved with Spanish actor Eduardo Cruz and her current husband, Javier Bardem, with whom she shares two children.

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Nicole Kidman

Nicole Kidman

Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman's relationship remains one of the most memorable in Hollywood history. The couple first met on the set of Days of Thunder in 1989, quickly falling in love and marrying in 1990. During their 11-year marriage, they adopted two children and starred in several films together, including the erotic thriller Eyes Wide Shut . Their marriage came to an end in 2001, with Nicole stating that she was blindsided by Tom's decision to file for divorce.

Australian actress Nicole Kidman quickly became a household name with her roles in films such as Moulin Rouge! and The Others . Her impressive acting career has earned her multiple awards, including an Academy Award for her performance in The Hours . Following her divorce from Tom Cruise, Nicole went on to marry country singer Keith Urban, with whom she has two daughters. The actress continues to dominate both film and television, starring in the critically acclaimed series Big Little Lies and the recent hit movie Bombshell.

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Mimi Rogers

The first of Tom Cruise's three marriages, his relationship with Mimi Rogers began in 1986, after they were introduced by a mutual friend. They tied the knot in 1987, with Mimi reportedly playing a significant role in Tom's introduction to the Church of Scientology. Their marriage lasted only three years, officially ending in 1990, but they remained on amicable terms following their split.

Mimi Rogers is a talented and versatile actress, having appeared in numerous films and TV shows throughout her career. She is perhaps best known for her roles in The Rapture , The Mirror Has Two Faces , and Austin Powers: International Man of Mystery . Aside from her previous marriage to Tom Cruise, Mimi has been married twice more – first to James Rogers, and currently to film producer Chris Ciaffa, with whom she shares two children. The actress continues to act in both film and television, showing no signs of slowing down.

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In one of the most unexpected pairings in Hollywood history, Tom Cruise and Cher briefly dated in 1986. The unlikely couple met at Madonna and Sean Penn's wedding, where they were instantly smitten with each other. Although their romance was short-lived – lasting only a few months before going their separate ways – Cher has since spoken fondly of their time together, even going so far as to call Tom one of her "top five" loves.

An icon in the world of music, Cher's illustrious career has spanned over six decades. With countless chart-topping hits and an Academy Award for Best Actress, Cher is regarded as a true living legend. Along with her brief romance with Tom Cruise, Cher has been linked to several high-profile partners, including Sonny Bono, Gregg Allman, and Rob Camilletti. She shows no signs of slowing down, continually creating new music and delighting fans with her timeless performances.

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Tom Cruise and Rebecca De Mornay embarked on a passionate relationship after meeting on the set of Risky Business in 1982. They dated for two years , with their on-screen chemistry translating into a fiery off-screen romance. However, they ultimately went their separate ways in 1985. Despite the end of their relationship, both actors have enjoyed continued success in Hollywood.

Rebecca De Mornay first gained widespread recognition for her sultry performance in Risky Business and continued to make her mark on Hollywood with roles in films such as The Hand That Rocks the Cradle and Wedding Crashers . The talented actress has also dabbled in directing and producing, showcasing her versatile skill set. In addition to her past romance with Tom Cruise, she has been linked to actor Harry Dean Stanton and musician Leonard Cohen. Rebecca remains active in the entertainment industry, proving that her star power is not easily extinguished.

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Heather Locklear

In the early 1980s, Tom Cruise and Heather Locklear were rumored to have had a brief fling before either of them became household names. Though their alleged romance was short-lived, it certainly added to the list of Tom's high-profile relationships. Neither party has ever confirmed the rumors, leaving fans to speculate about the details of their possible involvement.

Heather Locklear quickly rose to fame for her roles on popular TV shows like Dynasty and Melrose Place , solidifying her status as one of the most sought-after actresses of the '80s and '90s. Her stunning looks and undeniable talent have landed her numerous roles throughout her career, including a part in the comedy The Perfect Man . Apart from her rumored fling with Tom Cruise, Heather has been married to Mötley Crüe drummer Tommy Lee and Bon Jovi guitarist Richie Sambora, with whom she shares a daughter. Despite facing personal challenges, Heather remains an iconic figure in Hollywood history.

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Melissa Gilbert

Tom Cruise and Melissa Gilbert reportedly dated in the early 1980s when they were both up-and-coming actors. Their romance was brief but memorable, with Gilbert later recalling a particular date when she beat Tom at backgammon, causing him to sulk for the rest of the night. Though their relationship ended, both actors went on to enjoy successful careers in Hollywood.

Melissa Gilbert first captured the hearts of millions as Laura Ingalls on the hit TV series Little House on the Prairie . She continued to act in numerous television and film projects, including The Miracle Worker and Choices of the Heart , while also serving as the President of the Screen Actors Guild for two terms. In addition to her past relationship with Tom Cruise, Melissa has been married to actors Bo Brinkman, Bruce Boxleitner, and is currently wed to actor Timothy Busfield. Despite facing personal struggles, Melissa has maintained a successful career and remains a beloved figure in the entertainment industry.

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Tom and Rebecca hooked up while filming the 1983 hit film Risky Business . “[They had an] intense affair,” their costar Curtis Armstrong later revealed.

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The legendary singer named Tom as one of her “top five lovers” following their brief mid-’80s fling and said they would have had “a great big romance” if not for their busy schedules.

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He and Mimi were married from 1987 until 1990. She once confessed it was difficult living in the megastar’s shadow. “No matter what… it’s, ‘Tom Cruise’s wife.’”

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Nicole (who shares Isabella, 31, and Connor, 29, with Tom) says she felt silenced during their 11-year marriage. “It was my job to put on a beautiful dress and be seen and not heard,” she’s revealed.

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Tom and Penélope dated for three years after starring in 2001’s Vanilla Sky together. They reportedly split because Penélope felt Scientology had become a third wheel in their relationship.

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According to Andrew Morton ’s unauthorized biography of Tom, Sofía was on a list of potential wives the actor submitted to Scientology leaders. “She was being auditioned for [the role of] Mrs. Tom Cruise.”

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Katie blindsided Tom with divorce papers after six years of marriage in 2012. She’d covertly planned to leave him for months, renting a secret apartment and using a burner phone to plan her escape.

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Tom and his MI:7 costar reportedly dated for a year before splitting in September 2021. An insider told In Touch the on-set romance took a backseat to his work commitments and fizzled out.

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The actor and the “Hips Don’t Lie” singer were linked after meeting at the Formula 1 Grand Prix in Miami in May 2023. Sources said Tom was the perfect post-divorce rebound for Shakira , but it didn’t last.

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Tom and the Russian socialite were first linked in December 2023 after they were spotted getting cozy during a party in London’s Grosvenor Square. However, the romance reportedly quickly fizzled out less than three months later due to lack of “romantic compatibility.”

“They weren’t gelling,” an insider told Us Weekly in an interview published on March 27, 2024. While there was no “bad blood” between the former flames, the source added, “They just had different ideas of what their relationship was going to be.”

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A Deep-Dive into Tom Cruise’s Relationship Timeline

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Renowned for his roles in some of Hollywood’s biggest blockbusters, Tom Cruise’s relationships have also been a source of intrigue over the years.

From his first marriage in the 1980s to his high-profile relationships and subsequent divorces, Cruise’s love life has been as much a topic of conversation as his cinematic achievements.

Watch Below: Nicole Kidman opens up on her marriage to Tom Cruise. 

While he’s been known to keep things private in more recent years, here, we take a closer look at the key relationships in Tom Cruise’s life.

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Elsina Khayrova (December 2023 – April 2024)

Since his divorce from Katie Holmes, Tom has kept his personal life more private, with no confirmed relationships being made public.

This has not stopped rumours from flying, with sources claiming that the actor was in a relationship with Russian model Elsina Khayrova in December of 2023.

According to Us Weekly sources, the 61-year-old actor and 36-year-old model’s relationship, “started as a basic friendship [and] quickly turned into something more special”.

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As of April 2024, however, it’s reported that the pair has split up. The alleged reasoning? A former partner’s media confessions.

Elsina’s ex-husband, Russian oligarch Dmitry Tstetkov spoke to the Daily Mail regarding his relationship with his ex and her newfound partnership where he warned Tom to keep his “eyes and wallet wide open”.

A source told Page Six that this was the reasoning behind the rumoured couple’s split: “He’s filming and can’t be shooting and have her husband saying stuff every time he is mentioned in the press.”

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Katie Holmes (2005 – 2012)

Together for nearly a decade, Tom’s relationship with Katie Holmes began in 2005, leading to a highly publicised engagement and marriage in 2006. Their daughter, Suri , was born the same year. In spite of their PDA-packed relationship, Katie filed for divorce in 2012, which was finalised quickly and quietly, where she also received primary custody of Suri.

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Penélope Cruz (2001 – 2004)

Following his split from Nicole Kidman, Tom started dating Penélope Cruz, whom he met while working on the film Vanilla Sky. After going public in 2001, the pair kept things relatively private. Tom did, however, reveal in an interview with Marie Claire US that he enjoyed cooking for Penelope “She’ll come home, and I’ll have her favourite kind of food made, have a bath drawn. I like doing stuff like that,” he told the publication in 2003. Their relationship lasted until 2004, with the challenges of a public relationship being cited as a reason for their breakup.

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Nicole Kidman (1990 – 2001)

Tom Cruise met Nicole Kidman on the set of Days of Thunder and they quickly became a couple, marrying in December 1990.

They later went on to star in two more films together, Far and Away (1992) and Eyes Wide Shut (1999). During the same year as the release of Far and Away , the couple adopted their first child together, Isabella, followed by their son Connor in 1995. However, in February 2001, to the shock of fans and the media alike, Cruise filed for divorce from Kidman. The announcement was unexpected and left many speculating about the reasons behind their separation. “Citing the difficulties inherent in divergent careers which constantly keep them apart, they concluded that an amicable separation seemed best for both of them at this time,” a rep for the pair said in a public statement.

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Mimi Rogers (1986-1990)

After meeting at a dinner party in 1985, Tom Cruise entered into a relationship with Mimi Rogers, where they got married in 1987. Just before their divorce, Tom told Rolling Stone , “I wouldn’t have been able to make it through Born, I don’t think, without her being there. There were times I was so physically exhausted, and the stuff was very emotional.” Not long after, he filed for divorce, without much public disclosure about the reasoning. In 2001 interview with People , however, Mimi said, “You cease to be an individual,” she said. “No matter what the article is, it’s ‘Tom Cruise‘s wife’.”

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Tom Cruise ‘s wide-spanning dating history has been the talk of Hollywood for years and now that the perpetual bachelor is once again back on the market, that chatter doesn’t look like it is going away anytime soon.

Cruise has a history of being linked to his co-stars. Is it a rumor, or does he have a thing for leading ladies? Either way, Cruise has been linked to multiple women over the years, even before he made it big in the 1980s. With three marriages , several relationships, and a slew of rumored hookups, one can imagine what Cruise’s little black book looks like.

While the actor is one of the biggest names in Hollywood, he’s quite private about his love life, especially in the past decade after his shocking divorce from his third wife Katie Holmes . Since his third divorce, he’s been linked to multiple co-stars, fellow Scientologists , and models over the years, but it seems the  Top Gun star is keeping his dating life away from prying eyes. From the good, the bad, and the disturbing, we found all we could about Cruise’s dating life.

Check out all of the women Cruise has married, dated, or has been linked to since the 1980s below:

A version of this article was originally published on March 2017.

Elsina Khayrova

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Cruise was first linked to Russian socialite Elsina Khayrova in December 2023 when they were spotted looking close at a London party.

While they were never actually photographed together, the pairing caused quite the stir with Khayrova’s ex-husband, a Russian oligarch, even weighing in to warn Cruise about her “expensive and luxurious tastes.”

Their romance fizzled out March 2024 .

Monica Barbaro

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It seems Tom Cruise has his eyes on his co-star Monica Barbaro. Insiders alleged to InTouch Weekly, “Tom thinks she’s stunningly beautiful. He’d like to explore a relationship with her. People around Tom believe they’re a great match. But he genuinely wants her to succeed.”

While it’s seemingly only a crush, many are keeping an eye on this potential romance.

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In December 2023, it was reported that the actor had been seen “canoodling” socialite Elsina Khayrova. The 36-year-old is the daughter of a prominent Russian member of parliament and ex-wife of diamond-trading oligarch, Dmitry Tsetko.

They reportedly met each other’s kids and were seemingly close-knit until late Feb 2024, when insiders claimed that the two decided to cool things down . As of March 9, 2024, they seemed to have broken things off after she turned down his alleged proposal.

It was later confirmed in March 2024 that they ended their relationship after three months, with sources claiming it was because his team was afraid of her talkative ex-husband .

Hayley Atwell

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In late 2020, The Sun reported that Tom Cruise and his Mission: Impossible – Dead Reckoning Part One co-star Hayley Atwell were secretly dating. Many conflicting reports came in the next two years, some claiming they broke up, were never together, and even reconnected in early 2022. However, Atwell set the record straight and said nothing happened between the two!

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Annabelle Wallis may be 20 years Cruise’s junior, but that didn’t stop romance rumors from springing up left and right when it was announced in Spring 2016 that these two were starring in The Mummy together. Cruise was apparently so smitten with Wallis that he sent her flowers ahead of filming and asked her personally to audition for the part. 

Sofia Boutella

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As soon as it was rumored that Sofia Boutella could be Cruise’s co-star in The Mummy , the romance rumors began. Of course, she did end up landing the part in the movie, but it appears neither of them landed a relationship out of the deal. 

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According to rumors back in Summer 2015, Cruise was so into his American Made co-star Lola Kirke, the sister of  Girls star Jemima Kirke, that he was ready to make her wife No. 4. These romance rumors were never confirmed by either duo and seemed to fizzle once filming wrapped.

Vanessa Kirby

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After rising to fame in The Crown, in which she portrays Princess Margaret, Kirby was cast opposite Cruise in Mission: Impossible – Fallout and soon came the romance rumors after photos emerged of them kissing while filming a scene for the movie.

Many reports came in that Cruise was smitten with her, saying she’d be “perfect to be his next wife.” But Kirby, who also starred in Mission: Impossible – Dead Reckoning Part One and will star in its successor, denied the rumors.

“The most disconcerting thing was the people I didn’t think would believe it, did, and they were texting my boyfriend, asking, ‘Are you OK?’ I don’t think they believe anything they read now because you just can’t,” she told Marie Claire UK . “None of it is real. To be getting married to him? Not even a snog, it was marriage.”

Cameron Diaz

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Tom Cruise and Cameron Diaz starred in two films together, Vanilla Sky and Knight and Day , so, obviously, they were madly in love (we speculate, of course). Of course, nothing ever came of the rumors , and Diaz claims they were nothing more than friends.

Laura Prepon

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Back in 2013, Tom Cruise and Laura Prepon were seen dining together in Los Angeles, and almost a year later, Page Six reported that the duo had been “secretly dating” for months, but both of their representatives denied this.

Olga Kurylenko

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Rumors went into overdrive when photos of Tom Cruise and Olga Kurylenko kissing hit the internet, but Kurylenko quickly denied the rumors and claimed the photos were from their movie  Oblivion .

Yolanda Pecoraro

Yolanda Pecoraro during 8th Los Angeles Latino International Film Festival - Arrivals at The Egyptian Theater in Hollywood, California, United States. (Photo by Barry King/WireImage)

Right after his breakup with Penelope Cruz, Tom Cruise allegedly had his eyes on Yolanda Pecoraro, who was around 23 years younger than him. It’s alleged that the Church of Scientology had their eyes on her to be his next wife, per Nicki Swift . He was reportedly “head over heels” for her and allegedly paid for her Scientology courses. Their affair only lasted a couple months in the early 2000s.

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Model Abbey Lee and Tom Cruise were linked to one another back in 2012 after a raunchy photoshoot, and per Daily Mail , he called her to arrange a meeting back in 2017. The report said, “When he (Tom) found out he was coming to Australia to promote his new film The Mummy, the first people he called was Abbey to arrange a catch-up.”

Katie Holmes

WEST HOLLYWOOD, CA - FEBRUARY 26: Katie Holmes (L) and Tom Cruise arrive at the Vanity Fair Oscar Party 2012, February 26, 2012 at the Sunset Tower Hotel in West Hollywood, California. (Photo by Anthony Harvey/Getty Images)

Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes ‘ whirlwind romance started in 2005, and within two months, they were ready to tie the knot. When Holmes first got into Hollywood, she told Seventeen in a now-deleted interview , “I think every little girl dreams about (her wedding). I used to think I was going to marry Tom Cruise.”

The pair welcomed their child Suri Cruise on Apr 18, 2006, and later married on Nov 18, 2006, in Italy. Soon after getting together, Holmes converted to Scientology for him. However, she left the Church and filed for divorce allegedly due to fear of Cruise abducting Suri into the Church of Scientology. They divorced in 2012.

Sofía Vergara

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Back in 2005, Tom Cruise and Sofía Vergara were seen out on what appeared to be a date. According to Foreign Policy , Vergara received a call from Cruise, where he gave her an invitation to his upcoming birthday party. He allegedly showered her with gifts, and the two seemed to really hit it off. But he allegedly tried to convert her to the Church of Scientology, and she refused. 

In 2023, it was even rumored that Cruise had his sights set on Vergara once again after her split from Joe Manganiello but that speculation never amounted to anything. 

Nazanin Boniadi

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA - OCTOBER 19: Nazanin Boniadi attends “The Power Of Collective Action” Dinner With Actress And Activist Nazanin Boniadi And Vital Voices President & CEO Alyse Nelson on October 19, 2023 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Jon Kopaloff/Getty Images for Vital Voices Global Partnership )

So Nazanin Boniadi and Tom Cruise didn’t technically date at first, but a 2012 Vanity Fair article claimed the Church of Scientology tried to set the Iranian-born actress up to be Cruise’s wife before Katie Holmes. The Church allegedly auditioned her to be his wife across several months before they ended the brief romance. Boniadi reportedly left the Church soon after.

Penélope Cruz

Penelope Cruz & Tom Cruise during Minority Report New York City Premiere at Ziegfeld Theater in New York City, New York, United States. (Photo by Jim Spellman/WireImage)

One of Cruise’s more high-profile co-star romances was with his former co-star Penelope Cruz. Cruise and Cruz met on the set of their film Vanilla Sky in 2000 and began dating in 2001. They amicably split after three years together and reportedly remain friends. 

Nicole Kidman

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Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise met on the set of the hit film Days of Thunder and tied the knot a year later on Christmas Eve in 1990 in Telluride, Colorado.

They starred in two more films together, and even adopted two children together named Isabella Jane in 1992 and a son named Connor in 1995. 

She joined the Church of Scientology for him but left in 1997, and even got him to leave for a brief period of time, according to The Daily Beast . This later caused a strain in their relationship, and she was reportedly blindsided when he filed for divorce from her in 2001.

Before Kidman became the superstar she is today, she told Marie Claire per Goalcast that she felt like a trophy at the beginning of their marriage. “I thought, I don’t deserve to be here. We would go to the Oscars, and I would think, I’m here to support [Tom]. I felt it was my job to put on a beautiful dress and to be seen and not heard.”

Mimi Rogers

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Meet Mimi Rogers: Tom Cruise’s first wife and the person that got him into Scientology . In a previous interview with Rolling Stone , Cruise revealed how they met: “I met her at a dinner party about a year ago, when I was developing Top Gun. She was dating a friend, and, uh, I thought she was extremely bright.” However, Roder told a different story to Sun Senintental .

The two dated in 1986, and later married a year later, in 1987. They divorced officially in 1990, and while it’s unclear why they decided to call it quits, Rogers did give a hint to a big part of their strained relationship. She said to People , that it was hard to be known as just his wife. She said “no matter what the article is, it’s ‘Tom Cruise‘s wife…”

Tom Cruise & Cher backstage after her performance. (Photo by MCaulfield/WireImage)

This one is as shocking as it gets. Turns out, Tom Cruise and Cher originally met at Sean Penn and Madonna’s wedding. Not much is known about their brief affair in 1983, but Cher has given a few hints over the years. On an episode of Watch What Happens Live , she listed Cruise in her top five lovers of all time.

Patti Scialfa

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Bruce Springsteen’s now-wife Patti Scialfa and Tom Cruise ended up dating for a very brief period of time in 1985, per an old People profile.

Rebecca DeMornay

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According to Tom Cruise and Rebecca DeMornay’s former Risky Business co-star Curtis Armstrong’s book Revenge of the Nerd , he alleged the two had an “intense affair,” which DeMornay later confirmed in an interview with Celebrity Page in 2018. She said, “He came to grow on me because we wound up together for two and a half years after that film.” The two were together from 1982 to 1985.

Heather Locklear

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So Heather Locklear and Tom Cruise weren’t an item, but they did star together back in the 1980s ,  and even went on one date!

In a 2013 interview on Chelsea Lately , Handler said they had both “auditioned for something” together, back when Tom “didn’t have friends” in Hollywood in the early ’80s. “You know in ‘Risky Business’ where he does that dance in his underwear and does the splits? We were dancing at a club and he went into that. He starting doing the splits,” she said. “You just kind of stand there and don’t know what to do. Do you dance around him? So, I was like, ‘I’ll just sit down and you can.’”

Melissa Gilbert

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Before Tom Cruise was Tom Cruise, he dated Little House on the Prairie star Melissa Gilbert back in 1981. “Actually, when I dated him he was Tom Mapother still,” she said on Watch What Happens Live . She added that she was “16 maybe or 17” when they met.

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Tom Cruise’s Relationship History Is Wilder Than You Thought

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It’s hardly surprising for a movie star to have a multifaceted relationship history, and Tom Cruise is no exception. 

The Top Gun star has been linked to an array of Hollywood’s leading ladies , and even has three marriages to his name.

Below, we take a deep dive into everyone Tom Cruise has been linked to, from rumoured romances to long-time lovers. 

1981: Melissa Gilbert

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First up in Tom Cruise’s dating history is Little House On The Prairie star, Melissa Gilbert. 

The pair reportedly dated while Tom was an aspiring actor, and still going by his birth name , Tom Cruise Mapother IV.

Years later, in an appearance on Watch What Happens Live , Melissa said, “Actually, when I dated him he was Tom Mapother still,” adding that she was “16 maybe or 17” when they met.

Melissa also got into the nitty gritty of their relationship, revealing to host Andy Cohen that their pair never slept together.

“We made out, but honestly, there was no sex,” she said.

1983: Rebecca De Mornay

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Tom next dated his Risky Business co-star, Rebecca De Mornay, although their romance reportedly didn’t start until after filming wrapped.

In a 1986 Rolling Stone profile, Sean Penn recalled a night out with Tom in New York shortly after the hit film was released.

“All these girls were coming over. And this really pretty girl came up to Tommy and started talking to him. And he realised that she wanted him for his body . And he screamed at her, ‘I have a girlfriend that I’m in love with!’ And the girl said, ‘You should have told me that five minutes ago!’”

The pair were both 21 when they dated, with Rebecca saying at the time:

“He really is a pure person. There’s something earnest and virtuous about him that’s quite rare. There’s definitely something different about kids who come from broken homes. They have this sort of searching quality, because you’re searching for love and affection, if you’ve been robbed of a substantial amount of time with your parents. I think that’s true of Tom.”

The pair separated when Tom began working on Top Gun . In the same interview, he said:

“Relationships are hard. You have to know when you’re going to be in a different place from someone else, you have to have the strength to separate. People are more prone to stay together for the security, which is something in my life that I have really not done, in relationships or even in business. If something’s not working, you’ve got to face it and move on.”

1985: Patti Scialfa

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According to a profile published by People , Tom briefly dated singer-songwriter Patti Scialfa in 1985. Not much else is known about their romance, other than it was short-lived.

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Perhaps the most surprising union of all, Tom was also linked to popstar Cher in 1985. The pair reportedly met at Madonna’s wedding to Sean Penn, and then found themselves together again at a dinner held at the White House.

Years later, in an appearance on Watch What Happens Live , Cher shared that Tom “wasn’t a Scientologist” when they dated, adding, “It was pretty hot and heavy for a little minute.”

“I’ve had just the greatest lovers ever!… [Tom] was in the top five,” she revealed. 

1986 – 1990: Mimi Rogers

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In a 1986 Rolling Stone interview, Tom said he met his first wife, Mimi Rogers, “at a dinner party […] when I was developing Top Gun . “

“She was dating a friend, and, uh, I thought she was extremely bright.”

The pair were married in 1987. In another Rolling Stone interview, Tom said of his then-wife,   “I wouldn’t have been able to make it through Born , I don’t think, without her being there. There were times I was so physically exhausted, and the stuff was very emotional.”

“I couldn’t imagine being without her or being alone,” he added.

In the same interview, he revealed that Mimi was the first person he had ever been in love with.

“There were girls you like a lot. But I’d never been in love before. Since I’ve been with her, it’s opened me up a lot. I think it’s helped me be a better actor. We live a lot of life together. We share everything. That’s the best thing about life. Otherwise you go through it pretty sad and lonely and angry.”

It’s not clear exactly why the pair split, but Mimi later told People she found Tom’s fame hard to handle. 

“You cease to be an individual,” she said. “No matter what the article is, it’s ‘ Tom Cruise ‘s wife….’ ”

1990 – 2001: Nicole Kidman

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One of his most high-profile relationships, Tom was with Australian actress Nicole Kidman from 1990 to 2001, who he met on the set of Days Of Thunder .

According to Us Weekly , the pair were married less than one year after his divorce to Mimi Rogers was finalised, in a private ceremony held on Christmas Eve. 

After they were married, the couple worked together again, this time on Far And Away . In 1992, the same year the film was released, they adopted their first child, Isabella. Then, in 1995, they adopted a son, Connor.

In 1999, Tom and Nicole appeared in a third and final film together, Eyes Wide Shut . 

“We were happily married through that,” Nicole told The New York Times in 2020.

“We would go go-kart racing after [intense] scenes. We’d rent out a place and go racing at three in the morning.”

In February 2001, the pair announced their separation, via a statement that read:

“Citing the difficulties inherent in divergent careers which constantly keep them apart, they concluded that an amicable separation seemed best for both of them at this time.”

2001 – 2004: Penelope Cruz

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From 2001 to 2004, Tom was linked to actress Penelope Cruz, after the pair met on the set of Vanilla Sky . 

The pair kept their relationship relatively low key, with Tom telling marie claire US in 2003 that he liked to surprise his partner often.

“She’ll come home, and I’ll have her favourite kind of food made, have a bath drawn. I like doing stuff like that. She likes my food, so I cook for her. It’s always the little things I like in a relationship.”

After three years together, the couple called it quits, with a source telling People :

“They remain good friends and still talk often… There is no other person involved. The relationship just ran its course and they decided not to be girlfriend and boyfriend anymore. Through most of the relationship they were both shooting movies in separate parts of the world.”

2005 – 2012: Katie Holmes

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Tom’s third marriage was to actress Katie Holmes .

The pair first sparked rumours of a romance after they were spotted holidaying together in 2005. The following year, their relationship accelerated, with the couple announcing their engagement and welcoming their daughter, Suri , shortly after.

In the early stages of their relationship, Tom gushed about their newfound love. In 2005, he gave the infamous couch-jumping interview, where he told Oprah, “I’m in love. I’m in love and it’s one of those things where you want to be cool, like, ‘Yeah I like her.’”

“That’s not how I feel. I wanted to meet this person and I met her and she’s extraordinary.”

After five years of marriage, Tom and Katie announced their separation via separate statements.

“This is a personal and private matter for Katie and her family. Katie’s primary concern remains, as it always has been, her daughter’s best interest,” her attorney said.

Tom’s statement, on the other hand, read: “Kate has filed for divorce and Tom is deeply saddened and is concentrating on his three children. Please allow them their privacy.”

Who Is Tom Cruise Dating Now?

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Tom Cruise, 61, is reportedly dating Russian socialite and former model Elsina Khayrova , 36. The pair attended a party in London’s Mayfair in late 2023, with one guest describing the pair as ‘besotted’, according to The Daily Mail .

Khayrova is the daughter of a Russian MP, Rinat Khayrov, and the ex-wife of a Russian oligarch, Dmitry Tsetkov. Cruise’s reported romance comes 11 years after his split from third wife Katie Holmes.

After dating rumours hit front pages, Khayrova’s ex-husband has spoken out.

“Irrespective of whoever she’s with, Tom Cruise or anybody else, they should be aware that she likes the finer things in life and has expensive and luxurious tastes,” he told the Mail . “Tom should keep his eyes and wallet wide open.”

He added that his three-year divorce cost him nearly $200 million, given that he is a tycoon whose business is in diamonds and mining.

Kirsty Thatcher is a Digital Writer at marie claire Australia. A new Sydney-sider, you can usually find her ticking off restaurants on her ever-growing bucket list, or on the hunt for Sydney's best beach.

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Tom Cruise’s Dating History Through the Years: Nicole Kidman, Katie Holmes and More

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As one of Hollywood’s hottest leading men , Tom Cruise knows that finding love can be a risky business.

Cruise has been married three times: to Mimi Rogers from 1987 to 1990, to Nicole Kidman from 1990 to 2001 and to Katie Holmes from 2006 to 2012. He has also romanced Cher , Heather Locklear and more A-listers.

As his career continued to skyrocket, Cruise’s splits gained more attention. However, the actor is notorious for keeping the reasons behind his breakups private.

“She knows why, and I know why,” Cruise told Vanity Fair in October 2001 of his and Kidman’s divorce. “I think that you just move on. And I don’t say that lightly. I don’t say that with anything. Things happen in life, and you do everything you can, and in every possible way, and there’s a point at which you just sometimes have to face the brutal reality.”

Scroll down for a closer look at Cruise’s most famous relationships and flings:

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Tom Cruise dating history

According to our records, Tom Cruise is possibly single.

Relationships

Tom Cruise was previously married to Katie Holmes (2006 - 2012) , Nicole Kidman (1990 - 2001) and Mimi Rogers (1987 - 1990) .

Tom Cruise has been in relationships with Elsina Khayrova (2023 - 2024) , Hayley Atwell (2020) , Yolanda Pecoraro (2012) , Cynthia Jorge (2012) , Sofía Vergara (2005) , Nazanin Boniadi (2004 - 2005) , Penélope Cruz (2001 - 2004) , Patti Scialfa (1985) , Cher (1985) , Rebecca De Mornay (1982 - 1985) , Heather Locklear (1982) , Melissa Gilbert (1982) , Diane Cox (1979 - 1981) and Paulina Mercado .

Tom Cruise is rumoured to have hooked up with Laura Prepon (2013) and Olga Kurylenko (2013) .

Tom Cruise is a 61 year old American Actor. Born Thomas Cruise Mapother IV on 3rd July, 1962 in Syracuse, New York, USA, he is famous for his roles as Joel Goodsen in the teen comedy-drama film Risky Business, Pete "Maverick" Mitchell in the Top Gun films, Charlie in the road comedy-drama film Rain Man, and Ethan Hunt in the Mission Impossible film series in a career that spans 1980–present. His zodiac sign is Cancer.

Tom Cruise has been in 26 on-screen matchups, including Cameron Diaz in Vanilla Sky (2001) , Elisabeth Shue in Cocktail (1988) , Gal Gadot in Knight and Day (2010) , Kathryn Morris in Minority Report (2002) and Kyra Sedgwick in Born on the Fourth of July (1989) .

Tom Cruise is a member of the following lists: 1962 births , Actors from New York and American Scientologists .

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Thomas Cruise Mapother IV (born July 3, 1962), known professionally as Tom Cruise, is an American actor and producer. One of the world's highest-paid actors, he has received various accolades, including an Honorary Palme d'Or and three Golden Globe Awards, in addition to nominations for three Academy Awards. His films have grossed over $4 billion in North America and over $11.1 billion worldwide, making him one of the highest-grossing box office stars of all time.

Dating History

Elsina Khayrova

Elsina Khayrova

2023 - 2024.

Hayley Atwell

Hayley Atwell

Laura Prepon

Laura Prepon

Olga Kurylenko

Olga Kurylenko

Yolanda Pecoraro

Yolanda Pecoraro

Cynthia Jorge

Cynthia Jorge

Katie Holmes

Katie Holmes

2005 - 2012.

Sofía Vergara

Sofía Vergara

Nazanin Boniadi

Nazanin Boniadi

2004 - 2005.

Penélope Cruz

Penélope Cruz

2001 - 2004.

Nicole Kidman

Nicole Kidman

1989 - 2001.

Mimi Rogers

Mimi Rogers

1986 - 1990.

Patti Scialfa

Patti Scialfa

Cher

Rebecca De Mornay

1982 - 1985.

Heather Locklear

Heather Locklear

Melissa Gilbert

Melissa Gilbert

Diane Cox

1979 - 1981

Paulina Mercado

Paulina Mercado

Elsina Khayrova and Tom Cruise had a relationship from 2023 to Mar 2024.

2020 (Rumor)

Hayley Atwell is rumored to have hooked up with Tom Cruise in 2020.

2013 (Rumor)

Laura Prepon is rumored to have hooked up with Tom Cruise in Nov 2013.

Olga Kurylenko is rumored to have hooked up with Tom Cruise in 2013.

2012 (Rumor)

Yolanda Pecoraro is rumored to have hooked up with Tom Cruise in Jul 2012.

Cynthia Jorge and Tom Cruise had a relationship from 2012 to 2012.

Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise were married for 5 years. They dated for 2 months after getting together in Apr 2005. After a 1 year engagement they married on 18th Nov 2006. 5 years later they divorced on 9th Jul 2012.

Sofía Vergara and Tom Cruise dated from January to March, 2005.

Nazanin Boniadi and Tom Cruise dated from November, 2004 to January, 2005.

Penélope Cruz and Tom Cruise dated from June, 2001 to January, 2004.

Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise are divorced after a marriage of 10 years. They had 2 children.

Mimi Rogers and Tom Cruise were married for 2 years. They dated for 1 year after getting together in Jan 1986 and married on 9th May 1987. 2 years later they divorced on 4th Feb 1990.

Patti Scialfa and Tom Cruise dated from September to November, 1985.

Cher and Tom Cruise dated in 1985.

Rebecca De Mornay and Tom Cruise dated from August, 1982 to March, 1985.

Heather Locklear and Tom Cruise dated from March to September, 1982.

Melissa Gilbert and Tom Cruise dated in 1982.

Diane Cox and Tom Cruise dated from May, 1979 to May, 1981.

Paulina Mercado and Tom Cruise had a relationship.

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Filmography

Onscreen matchups.

Cameron Diaz and Tom Cruise

  • Vanilla Sky 2001

Elisabeth Shue and Tom Cruise

  • Cocktail 1988

Gal Gadot and Tom Cruise

  • Knight and Day 2010

Kathryn Morris and Tom Cruise

  • Minority Report 2002

Kyra Sedgwick and Tom Cruise

  • Born on the Fourth of July 1989

Malin Akerman and Tom Cruise

  • Rock of Ages 2012

Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise

  • Eyes Wide Shut 1999

Penelope Cruz and Tom Cruise

  • Risky Business 1983

Renee Zellweger and Tom Cruise

  • Jerry Maguire 1996

Tom Cruise and Carice Van Houten

  • Valkyrie 2008

Tom Cruise and Emily Blunt

  • Edge of Tomorrow 2014

Tom Cruise and Gina Gershon

  • The Firm 1993

Tom Cruise and Kelly McGillis

  • Top Gun 1986

Tom Cruise and Kelly Preston

  • The Last Samurai 2003

Tom Cruise and Lea Thompson

  • All the Right Moves 1983

Tom Cruise and Lisa Banes

  • The Color of Money 1986

Tom Cruise and Mia Sara

  • Legend 1985

Tom Cruise and Michelle Monaghan

  • Mission: Impossible III 2006

Tom Cruise and Olga Kurylenko

  • Oblivion 2013

Tom Cruise and Sarah Wright

  • American Made 2017

Tom Cruise and Thandie Newton

  • Mission: Impossible II 2000

Tom Cruise and Valeria Golino

  • Rain Man 1988

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Hoje 03/07 é o aniversário de Tom Cruise! Today 03/07 is the birthday of Tom Cruise! Feliz Aniversário! Muita paz, saúde, realizações, sucesso e bênçãos! Abraços! Happy Birthday! Peace, health, achievements, success and blessings! Hugs! Eu te amo, Tom Cruise! I love you, Tom Cruise!

Tom Cruise is a Scientology psycho. He is a reason why the rest of the world is scared of Americans like him. Scientology is just another cut-throat cult that has its members be cut ties with their family and friends if those family members and friends don't agree with Scientology. Whatever.

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Tom Cruise's Romantic History: The Reality, the Rumors and the Mysteries That Won't Quit

Perhaps no one in hollywood has a dating and marital history that has caused so much speculation.

A roller-coaster romantic history almost comes with the territory in Hollywood.

You're always meeting people, you never know who's around the corner, you're working with someone and the chemistry is off the charts... the temptations are endless. Some stars seem to have no intention of settling down, while others settle down every chance they get. Serial monogamy, no strings attached, boyfriend swapping with your squad, making it Instagram official—there are so many different ways to date. Even a lot of the couples who've been together for decades are on their second (or third) marriages. Sometimes it just takes multiple tries to get it right.

Regardless of how long the current relationship is, or how much time a star spent off the market, a lot of action—real and imagined—can be packed into one personal life. But has anyone had a love life quite like Tom Cruise ?

We don't mean his three marriages and various girlfriends—that's par for the course. Rather, as far as the utter fascination with how he goes about meeting women and what makes or breaks a relationship with him, no one in this celeb-obsessed culture has been under the microscope in recent years as much as Tom has.

Then again, he hasn't always helped his own cause if he'd prefer to  not be a source of curiosity.

Having been an A-list heartthrob for the better part of three decades, Cruise is pretty used to being the subject of endless speculation, as are his peers—the Johnny Depp s, Brad Pitt s and George Clooney s of the world. And just like his fellow Sexiest Man Alive types, he's amassed an interesting list of actual and rumored love interests. Also like them, he doesn't have time to comment on every rumor.

Unlike them, however, Tom Cruise is...well, he's just  so Tom Cruise. Ageless at 54, he's still entirely unique when it comes to the certain punch he brings to a movie. In a business where every star banks on the wrong film once in awhile, Cruise's list of credits is remarkably solid. Even among the box office busts, he's usually a pretty good reason to watch anyway. And aside from having that increasingly rare magnetic presence—the man can  act .

All of which makes his inscrutable personal life just that much more interesting.

"I don't even get into that game," the actor told Today host  Matt Lauer back in 2006 when he and Katie Holmes burst onto the scene as a couple. Katie, in fact, was sitting right off to the side while Cruise gave the interview, and the screen would occasionally flash back to the  Dawson's Creek  star and her apparent glee at being in that position.

"I'm just living my life, Matt. It's something—I'm just living my life—I'm doing the best that I can, and doing it in the way I feel is right," Cruise said, explaining his previous burst of emotion on Oprah Winfrey 's couch. "I like hearing good news. I like hearing if something good happens to you, it's nice." Regarding rumors that TomKat was a PR stunt, he concluded, "There's always cynics. There always has been and always will be...I have never worried, Matt, about what other people think and what other people say."

Lucky for movie stars, they can hire people to do that for them.

So here's what's been said—by Tom Cruise and by other people—over the years about his romantic life.

Cruise's career took off  almost  as fast as his love life when he got to Hollywood.

The  Little House on the Prairie  star and future SAG president met Cruise when "he was a struggling starving actor, and I was working. I actually bought him his first set of dishes." She told Andy Cohen on  Watch What Happens Live! in 2014 that they did not have sex (she was "16, maybe, or 17" at the time), but "we made out"—and he was a good kisser.

The actress scored her breakout role in  Dynasty right around the time Cruise made his big-screen debut in  Taps— and naturally, the fresh-faced stars went on a date in the early '80s after meeting at an audition.

Locklear, a Los Angeles native, later described it to Chelsea Handler as more of a favor she did for the new guy in town. The kid didn't lack for confidence, though. "You know in  Risky Business where he does that dance in his underwear, and he does the splits?" Heather recalled. "We were dancing at a club and he went into that, he started doing the splits. And I, you—" She feigned looking startled. "You just kinda stand there and don't know what to do. Do you dance around him? So I was like, 'I'll just sit down and you can [do you thing].'"

More impressed by his moves was his  Risky Business  co-star, whom he started dating after the racy romance, with its iconic dance scene, hit theaters in August 1983. In October of that year, De Mornay told  People that she didn't have a boyfriend, but one of the reasons she liked Cruise so much was, "I think he is an innocent and that makes me feel good."

Sean Penn , meanwhile, recalled to Rolling Stone   going out with Cruise not long after  Risky Business came out and witnessing the actor tell a woman who tried to chat him up at the club, "'I have a girlfriend I'm in  love with!'"

"He really is a pure person," De Mornay said when they were together, also per RS . "There's something earnest and virtuous about him that's quite rare. There's definitely something different about kids who come from broken homes. They have this sort of  searching  quality, because you're searching for love and affection, if you've been robbed of a substantial amount of time with your parents. I think that's true of Tom."

They maintained their relationship long distance while he was in London filming the action fantasy  Legend , but broke up not long after he returned to the U.S. to shoot  Top Gun . 

"Relationships are hard," Cruise told Rolling Stone in 1986. "You have to know when you're going to be in a different place from someone else, you have to have the strength to separate. People are more prone to stay together for the security, which is something in my life that I have really not done, in relationships or even in business. If something's not working, you've got to face it and move on."

Asked about settling down, he said, "I don't know if I could get married. Right now, in my present state of mind, I don't believe so. I need a lot of space for myself and my work. You can't say, 'Okay, let's keep that thought—I'll be back to you in a couple of months when I finish this.' But I do enjoy being in a relationship."

They would've been a hard couple to miss, such as when they ran into each other in 2002 at the 1st Annual Entertainment Industry Foundation "Love Rocks" Concert, but it wasn't until around 2008 that the entertainment icon opened up about her mid-'80s fling with Cruise.

"I was crazy about him," Cher told Oprah Winfrey . Reminiscent of what De Mornay said about him being an innocent, the singer recalled, "He was shy. He said he felt like such a boob in school and nobody talked to him. We went on a date once for dinner in a New York restaurant and the waitress was from his old school. He told me she never talked to him back in school, but now he was recognized he got all her attention. It could have been a great big romance because I was crazy for him."

On  Watch What Happens Live! in 2013, Cher said Cruise definitely made her "top five" list of lovers in life. "It was a long, long time ago and neither one of us ever talked about it and I don't know why," she told Andy Cohen. "When we were together he was such a private person. He always has been until lately. He didn't mention it and I didn't mention it. I loved him though, he was amazing."

According to Cruise, he met the Gung Ho  actress in 1985 at a dinner party while he was developing Top Gun . She was dating a friend of his at the time, but ultimately they got together. Though he didn't think he was ready for marriage in the summer of 1986, they quietly tied the knot on May 9, 1987, in upstate New York. Emilio Estevez was Cruise's best man. His mother, Mary Lee South, told  People her new daughter-in-law was "top notch."

Having previously been married to Scientology counselor Jim Rogers, Mimi's the one who's said to have turned Cruise on to the religion. "She took him under her wing,"  Tom Cruise Unauthorized author Wensley Clarkson told  Entertainment Weekly in 2000. (Rogers, meanwhile, has since cut ties with Scientology.)

They announced they were divorcing in January 1990. 

"Is that the story, that I was bored with that child and threw him over, chewed him up and spat him out?" Rogers fired back at Playboy in 1993 when asked why the marriage ended. "Well, here's the real story. Tom was seriously thinking of becoming a monk. At least for that period of time, it looked as though marriage wouldn't fit into his overall spiritual need. And he thought he had to be celibate to maintain the purity of his instrument." She added pointedly, "My instrument needed tuning."

As for the other rumors being flung about, that he had become too big a star, or their six-year age difference proved too impenetrable, a then 45-year-old Rogers told the U.K. Telegraph   in 2001, "The stardom wasn't really a problem. What did annoy me, though, was the age thing. Some of the tabloids brought it up all the time, and exaggerated the gap between Tom and me. Every six months they seemed to add a year to my age. If Tom and I were still married, the tabloids would probably have me in my sixties by now."

After meeting during casting of the racing drama  Days of Thunder , he proposed as soon as his divorce from Mimi Rogers was finalized, and the Australian actress married Cruise on Christmas Eve in 1990.

"He basically swept me off my feet," Kidman recalled to Vanity Fair  in 2002 . "I fell madly, passionately in love. And as happens when you fall in love, my whole plan in terms of what I wanted for my life—I was like, 'Forget it. This  is it.' I was consumed by it, willingly. And I was desperate to have a baby with him. I didn't care if we were married. That's what I wish I'd done."

They adopted two children,  Isabella  and Connor , and starred in two more films together, the period epic  Far and Away and the erotic thriller  Eyes Wide Shut , which they admitted later was an extremely intense shoot, made all the more devastating by director Stanley Kubrick 's death before the film was finished. They also weathered the dooziest of rumors, from one that they were both gay and the marriage was a cover to a report that they needed a coach for the sex scenes in  Eyes Wide Shut (the couple successfully sued over both stories).

"Our marriage is stronger because of it. And our friendship is deeper," Cruise said about their final film experience together. 

"All I can say is that I hope we are together when we are 80," Kidman told Talk in 2000. "I can't say we will be, but I will be so devastated if we are not."

So consider her blindsided by the timing when Cruise filed for divorce months later. "Citing the difficulties inherent in diverging careers which constantly kept them apart, they concluded that an amicable separation seemed best for both of them at this time," their longtime rep said on Feb. 5, 2001, in announcing the split.

Even then, Kidman's lack of attachment to Scientology and her reluctance to raise their kids that way was named as a major factor in their split (her rep told People  religion had "nothing to do with this"). Connor and Isabella were still Scientologists as of at least 2013.

Asked why their marriage ended, Cruise told  Vanity Fair in October 2001, "She knows why, and I know why. She's the mother of my children, and I wish her well. And I think that you just move on. And I don't say that lightly. I don't say that with anything. Things happen in life, and you do everything you can, and in every possible way, and there's a point at which you just sometimes have to face the brutal reality."

After meeting on the set of 2001's trippy  Vanilla Sky , the Spanish actress dated Cruise for three years, though they were apart a majority of the time for work.

They made their public debut as a couple at the August 2001 premiere of Cruz's film  Captain Corelli's Mandolin . "He came and shared it with me," she said on Good Morning America soon after. "It was special for me that he wanted to share it with me that way."

Cruise was married when they were shooting  Vanilla Sky , but Cruz insisted they didn't get together until later. "There's nothing to hide and it's a good thing," she said. (She would say years later , "I've never fallen in love with someone I'm working with. It's always been afterwards. If something becomes friendship, then maybe months later it becomes something else, but you can never know. It's always a mystery. You can't plan those things.")

"I'm very, very happy with my relationship," Cruise had told  People in the summer of 2003, also denying that they were engaged. The relationship wasn't without its legal drama, however, as Cruz ended up securing damages and a retraction  from an Australian tabloid in June 2003 over a story claiming her impending marriage to Tom was postponed because she had an affair. 

They split up in January 2004 and alerted the world to that fact two months later. "The relationship just ran its course and they decided not to be girlfriend and boyfriend anymore," a source told People   at the time. Cruz's rep denied that Scientology played a role, saying that the actress, while not a Scientologist, had found the church courses she took "beneficial."

The  Modern Family star is said to have briefly dated Cruise during a period of time after he broke up with Cruz when the actor really wanted a potential partner who could embrace Scientology (those said to be involved with Cruise's dating process have denied that was the case).

When an interviewer from the Daily Beast noted in 2011 that he hadn't heard too much about what it was like to date Cruise, Vergara reportedly laughed hysterically and exclaimed, "Let's keep it that way! I don't want to talk about that!"

Like Vergara, the  Avengers star reportedly wasn't into Cruise's scene. They were never photographed out on a date together, but looked perfectly cordial at an Ambassadors for Humanity gala honoring Bill Clinton and benefiting the Shoah Foundation in February 2005.

According to a 2012 report in Vanity Fair (the particulars of which were denied by the Church of Scientology), the Iranian-born actress, who would go on to roles in  How I Met Your Mother ,  Scandal ,  Homeland  and more, quietly dated Cruise between October 2004 and January 2005 before it became obvious to the actor and the church that she wasn't right for him.

Per  VF , for their first date (a group outing), Cruise arranged for a private tour of the Empire State Building, followed by dinner at Nobu and ice skating at the rink at Rockefeller Center, which was closed to the public for the occasion.

Boniadi was already a Scientologist when she was allegedly recruited to date Cruise, that being a huge part of the appeal, but she later left the church. (The church called the mission to hook Boniadi and Cruise up a "phantom project that never existed.")

"I'd rather not talk about that. It's something that I'm not happy to..." Boniadi told The New York Post in 2013 , trailing off when asked about Cruise. "Like I said, I have so many positive things happening in my life, it's a shame not to talk about that."

After a whirlwind courtship (but over a decade after the  Dawson's Creek star crushed on him as a kid) punctuated by Cruise's epic declaration of love for Holmes on Oprah Winfrey 's couch in May 2005, the couple welcomed daughter Suri in April 2006. Annie Leibovitz  shot Suri's public debut, the October 2006 cover of  Vanity Fair . TomKat tied the knot at a castle in Italy on Nov. 18, 2006.

"People are going to do what they're going to do," Cruise told MTV News in June 2005, talking about the public reaction to his reaction to being in love. "Here's the thing, you can't think about it in terms of what people are going to do or say. It's 'I want to share my life with this woman. This woman is exceptional, she's special, she's extraordinary and I have great respect for her.' It's someone who's saying 'I've got nothing to hide, I'm happy.' I'm happy, man!"

Asked about the possibility of acting together, he added, "I'd love to work with her, she's a great actress. I will work with her someday, no question."

Holmes filed for divorce in June 2012 and, thanks to their reportedly incredibly detailed prenup drafted by Martin Holmes , Katie's divorce attorney father, all was settled within two weeks. Again, religion was rumored to be the big sticking point, and a source told  Us Weekly that Holmes had reached out to Nicole Kidman for support during the marriage's final days.

Aside from Cruise's extremely public outings with Suri to places like Disney World, Holmes was the one who was most often spotted with Suri. In December 2013, Cruise accepted a settlement  in the $50 million defamation claim he brought against Bauer Media over a  Life & Style story that claimed he had more or less abandoned his daughter.

"I don't want that moment in my life to define me, to be who I am," Holmes told People in October 2014, referring to her marriage to Cruise. "I don't want that to be what I'm known as. I was an actor before, an actor during and an actor now."

Hot on the heels of his divorce from Katie Holmes, Cruise was rumored to be dating his  Knight & Day co-star. 

The rumor wasn't true , but the pair did get along swimmingly on the set of the humorous action thriller.

Asked how she spent her 40th birthday (in a deposition for his suit against Bauer Media, Cruise had denied attending her b-day party in London in August 2012, though there were pictures of them taken that night), Diaz later explained on  The Graham Norton Show , "I happened to bump into Penélope Cruz, Javier [ Bardem ], Tom and his son in a hotel and joined them for dinner. At midnight I said, 'I'm 40!' so we took pictures and then said, 'Goodnight, see you later, blah, blah, blah,' and I haven't seen him since.

"But the next thing I know, apparently I am dating him and it's full on and he is coming after me!"

A rumor caught fire in 2014 that these two were dating, and their new romance was all anyone on the set of  Orange Is the New Black could talk about. That turned out to be vehemently untrue , with reps on both sides denying it.

"It's just so funny that, when people don't know, they just make stuff up, [like] apparently I'm dating Tom Cruise right now," Prepon told She Knows . "And apparently he doesn't want me doing [ OITNB ] because I portray a lesbian and I'm a Scientologist."

She added, "This is false. Where are they even getting this stuff? It's unbelievable to me."

In October 2016,  Us Weekly reported that Cruise had had a girlfriend for several months, an unnamed British woman whom the actor was said to be serious about. "Very normal and pretty" was how a source described her.

As of March 2017, Cruise was reportedly smitten with the British actress, who plays Princess Margaret in  The Crown  and will be in Mission: Impossible 6 with Cruise.   She didn't help matters when she told the  Times  of London that she was seeing somebody under the radar.

But E! News heard that there was no truth to this rumor, either—though audiences can analyze the chemistry for themselves when the movie comes out in July 2018.

Meanwhile, though the ins and outs of his personal life remain a closely guarded secret, he has plenty of public engagements to get ready for.

In addition to  M:I6 , he's got Doug Liman 's CIA thriller American Made coming out, he's attached to star in the sci-fi space flick  Luna Park  and Cruise just revealed that the need for speed  is great enough— Top Gun 2 is happening .

Moreover, the  The Mummy— which opens in theaters June 9—was recently branded part of Universal's Dark Universe featuring the studio's various classic monster properties, an indication of more films to come.

And when Tom Cruise has more good news to share, we have a feeling we'll hear about it.

(E! News and Universal Pictures are both members of the NBCUniversal family.)

From Cher to Katie Holmes, All the People Tom Cruise Has Romanced Over the Years

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Whether you love him for his work in notable blockbusters like "Top Gun" and "Mission Impossible" or are intrigued by his captivating persona, there is no arguing that Tom Cruise is a Hollywood icon. Over the years, the actor has equally become known for his accomplishments on film as he has for his controversial viewpoints and various romances. Since starting his acting career, Cruise has been linked to several leading ladies, including Penélope Cruz and Nazanin Boniadi.

Cruise's most notable romances are with the women he had married, however. The "A Few Good Men" actor has been married three times to actors Mimi Rogers, Nicole Kidman, and Katie Holmes. Most recently, Cruise has garnered attention for his relationship with his " Mission: Impossible — Dead Reckoning Part One " costar Hayley Atwell, with whom he allegedly had an on-again, off-again fling from 2020 to 2022, as reported by The Sun .

While the actor currently appears to be single, there is no doubt that his romances of the past are worth exploring. Read on to learn more about Cruise's dating history, which also includes Cher!

Rebecca De Mornay

Rebecca De Mornay

Cruise's on-screen chemistry with his "Risky Business" costar was not just for the cameras. Though De Mornay was in a relationship with actor Harry Dean Stanton, she and Cruise started an intense affair during the production of the 1983 film. The pair's "Risky Business" costar, Curtis Armstrong, revealed in his memoir, "Revenge of the Nerd," that the dynamic on set was awkward at points.

"I suspect that most of Harry Dean's great qualities were lost on Tom, who, I think, was beginning to regard him as a guest overstaying his welcome. It must have been a little galling to have your heart set on f*cking your costar, and just when you think you're starting to make headway, her significant other comes popping up out of a trap like a lanky, amiable Banquo's ghost," Armstrong said (via The Hollywood Reporter ).

De Mornay and Cruise continued to have a relationship until around 1985. In a 2018 interview with Celebrity Page , De Mornay opened up about her romance with the "Top Gun" star, telling the outlet, "I will say that I thought he was very annoying when we first started [filming] . . . He came to grow on me because we wound up together for two and a half years after that film."

Cher

Though short-lived, one of Cruise's most notable romances was with none other than music icon Cher. The two connected for the first time at the 1985 wedding of Madonna and Sean Penn, though they got to know one another better at a White House event, per People . "Then a bunch of people who were dyslexic were invited to the White House, and Tom and I are both dyslexic . . . there was definitely a connection," she explained to the outlet.

Though it is unknown exactly how long Cruise and Cher's rendezvous lasted, the "Believe" singer did tell Andy Cohen on " Watch What Happens Live With Andy Cohen " in 2013 that their romance "was pretty hot and heavy for a little minute," and that Cruise was easily in her top five list of lovers.

Mimi Rogers

Mimi Rogers

Cruise met his first wife in 1986. The two have differing accounts of how they initially connected, with Rogers claiming that a mutual friend set them up, and Cruise alleging that Rogers was dating someone else when they met, per Parade . Regardless of how the pair crossed paths, their relationship took off pretty fast, and a year after they met, they tied the knot in a private ceremony in May 1987, according to The Daily Beast .

Rogers, a second-generation Scientologist, is likely one of the greatest influences that introduced Cruise to the controversial belief system that he has since adopted so passionately. Throughout their marriage, details of the relationship between Cruise and Rogers were constantly speculated, coinciding with the actor's growing fame following films like "Cocktail" and "Rain Man." The couple quietly split in 1989 and announced their split in January 1990, as reported by Entertainment Weekly .

Though Rogers and Cruise have an amicable relationship today, the two didn't always see eye to eye after their divorce. In a 1995 interview with People , Rogers spoke harshly about her marriage to Cruise, telling the outlet, "You cease to be an individual. . . . No matter what the article is, it's 'Tom Cruise's wife. . . .' Waiting for the moment when I don't have to talk about that [blankety-blank] name anymore."

Nicole Kidman

Nicole Kidman

Around the time Cruise separated from Rogers, he met Kidman in 1989 while filming the movie "Days of Thunder." The two hit it off right away, with Cruise later revealing (via Newsweek ), "My first reaction to meeting Nic was pure lust . . . It was totally physical." The pair wed just months after meeting in December 1990 in a private ceremony held in Colorado, according to Entertainment Weekly .

After starring in the 1992 film "Far and Away," the couple adopted a baby girl , Bella Kidman Cruise, shortly after she was born on Dec. 22, 1992, per People. Bella's adoption came after Kidman had a pregnancy loss, which Kidman opened up about in a 2007 interview with Vanity Fair. "From the minute Tom and I were married, I wanted to have babies . . . And we lost a baby early on, so that was really very traumatic. And that's when we would adopt [our daughter] Bella," she said (via People ). Three years later, Kidman and Cruise adopted their second child, a boy named Connor Kidman Cruise, after his birth on Jan. 17, 1995.

For the majority of the '90s, the two were one of Hollywood's greatest power couples. They would collaborate on screen again in 1999 and star as lovers in Stanley Kubrick's "Eyes Wide Shut" together, but their marriage deteriorated not long after. In February 2001, the couple announced their separation. The divorce filing cited "difficulties inherent in divergent careers" as the cause for the relationship's end, per Entertainment Weekly , though many speculated the split to be partially attributed to the pair's differences in religious beliefs. "Scientology had NOTHING to do with this," Pat Kingsley, the couple's former representative, assured at the time.

Penélope Cruz

Penélope Cruz

Cruise met Cruz on the set of "Vanilla Sky" in 2000, and the pair started dating in 2001, per People . While there was media speculation that the couple were expecting a child and had plans on tying the knot, nothing of the sort happened, and their relationship was mainly private.

By March 2004, Cruise and Cruz called it quits, with a source revealing to People, "The relationship just ran its course and they decided not to be girlfriend and boyfriend anymore. Through most of the relationship they were both shooting movies in separate parts of the world."

Nazanin Boniadi

Nazanin Boniadi

Though Cruise's relationship with Boniadi was short-lived, it was later revealed to be under unusual circumstances. According to a 2012 Vanity Fair story, Boniadi was one of several actors that were misled by Scientologist leaders to audition for a "special project" which required a makeover, training, and confidentiality agreements. Allegedly, the project was actually a quest from leaders in the organization to find Cruise another girlfriend after his split from Kidman.

In 2004, Boniadi was chosen to be Cruise's girlfriend, and within a month, the couple were living together. The relationship came to an end, however, after a meeting with Cruise and the Church of Scientology leader David Miscavige. Per Business Insider , the event that ended their brief fling involved a misunderstanding between Boniadi and Miscavige. "Overcome by a severe headache, Nazanin had a hard time understanding Miscavige, which infuriated him. The next day, Cruise — inches from her face — pounded on the table and screamed at her for insulting the head of the church," said Alex Gibney in the HBO documentary "Going Clear."

"Two weeks later, church henchman Tommy Davis delivered the news to Boniadi that her relationship with Cruise was over," the documentary revealed.

Katie Holmes

Katie Holmes

Following his breakup from Boniadi, Cruise met Holmes in April 2005 and started dating the "Dawson's Creek" star that same month, according to The Hollywood Reporter . Just one month after their romance started, Cruise notoriously professed his love for Holmes in an interview with Oprah Winfrey in May 2005, which many still associate with the actor even years after it took place. In June 2005, Holmes converted from Catholicism to the Church of Scientology, and the pair got engaged that same month.

By October 2005, Holmes and Cruise announced that they were expecting their first child together, and on April 18, 2006, they welcomed their daughter, Suri, into the world, per Today . The pair, dubbed "TomKat," eventually tied the knot in November 2006 and went on to garner intense media attention throughout the duration of the marriage.

Despite appearing strong on the outside, the couple's relationship was dwindling behind the scenes. In June 2012, Holmes filed for divorce from Cruise, with her rep telling outlets at the time (via Us Weekly ), "This is a personal and private matter for Katie and her family. Katie's primary concern remains, as it always has been, her daughter's best interest." A rep for Cruise on the other hand issued a separate statement, which read, "Kate has filed for divorce and Tom is deeply saddened and is concentrating on his three children. Please allow them their privacy."

Hayley Atwell

Hayley Atwell

Cruise met Atwell on the set of "Mission: Impossible — Dead Reckoning Part One" in 2020. Though the pair have neither confirmed nor denied being in a relationship, there have been fierce rumors about a romance between the costars. According to The Sun , the two began dating shortly after meeting on set, but kept their relationship under wraps. From that point on, they had an on-again, off-again relationship, and ultimately called it quits in June 2022, with a source close to the two telling The Sun, "They get on really well, and have fantastic chemistry, which is why they decided to quietly give the relationship another try earlier this year. But what was working behind closed doors didn't work out so well when it was made public, and the fanfare around them as a couple exploded again . . . They have now decided they are better as friends."

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Tom Cruise’s relationship history: Who has the actor dated?

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  • Updated : 20:24, 21 Feb 2024

SINCE his divorce from Katie Holmes, Tom Cruise has been romantically linked to several women.

Previously, the Mission Impossible actor also dated Penélope Cruz and Hayley Atwell .

Since his rise to fame in the mid-1980s, Tom Cruise has been married three times

Who has Tom Cruise dated?

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The Little House on the Prairie actress revealed she and Tom romanced each other during their teenage years.

While stopping by Watch What Happens Live , Melissa told Andy Cohen : "Actually, when I dated him, he was Tom Mapother still.

"It was when he first moved to Los Angeles and I think I was 16, maybe, or 17?

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"I did not have sex with him. We made out, but honestly, there was no sex.

"He was a good kisser. But, you know, he was, like, a struggling, starving actor. I actually bought him his first set of dishes."

Rebecca De Mornay

Tom Cruise and Rebecca De Mornay were together for three years

According to Tom's Risky Business co-stars , he and Rebecca De Mornay had a brief romance during the hit comedy film's production.

At the time of reports, Tom and Rebecca's fling coincided with the latter's relationship with Harry Dean Stanton.

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The former co-stars are believed to have split in 1985.

After Tom and Rebecca called it quits, the former moved on with Cher and the latter went on to marry Bruce Wagner.

"He was such a private person," Cher remembered about her relationship with Tom Cruise

On August 16, 1985, Tom met Cher at Madonna and Sean Penn's wedding in Malibu , California.

Soon after, the Top Gun star and the Grammy Award winner crossed paths again at a White House event.

Regarding her courtship with Tom, Cher recalled to ET : "It was a long, long time ago, and neither one of us ever talked about it, and I don’t know why.

"When we were together, he was such a private person. He always has been until lately.

"He didn’t mention it and I didn’t mention it. I loved him though, he was amazing.

"I loved him though, he was amazing. Now, it's hard for me to look at this person and this press.

"How many times can I watch him jumping up and down on Oprah's couch?"

She said of their split: "It was after Risky Business and right before The Color of Money.

"I couldn't go to Chicago and that was kind of the straw that broke the camel's back."

Penélope Cruz

Tom Cruise and Penélope Cruz dated after they co-starred in Vanilla Sky

Following Tom's second divorce from Nicole Kidman , he began dating Penélope Cruz .

The Vanilla Sky co-stars were first spotted together in July 2001; they met while filming the aforementioned movie in late 2000.

After three years of dating, Tom and Penélope split at the end of January 2004.

At the time, an insider told People : "The relationship just ran its course and they decided not to be girlfriend and boyfriend anymore.

"Through most of the relationship, they were both shooting movies in separate parts of the world.

"They remain good friends and still talk often. There is no other person involved."

While Penélope moved on with Matthew McConaughey , Tom started dating Sofia Vergara .

Sofia Vergara

Before she was famous, Sofia Vergara briefly dated Tom Cruise

In February 2005, Tom was spotted on a date with Sofia Vergara in Los Angeles .

However, the relationship rumors quickly fizzled out.

Years later in August 2023, it was reported that the Tropic Thunder star was looking to reconnect with Sofia; the speculation eventually faded.

A source shared with Heat : "It’s always eaten away at Tom that he dumped Sofia and chose Katie [Holmes] instead, which turned out to be a disaster in the end.

"In hindsight, he does admit that Sofia would have been a far better match, even if he does think she’s feisty.

"She checks almost every box for Tom. She’s stunningly beautiful, enormously successful, and isn't prepared to settle for second best.

"The physical attraction's there, and Tom's convinced that, together, they could be a Hollywood power couple.

"He’s been putting out the feelers through mutual friends, and if she bites, he’s all set to pounce."

Hayley Atwell

Tom Cruise and Hayley Atwell pictured at a press event for Mission: Impossible - Dead Reckoning Part One

On December 17, 2020, it was revealed Tom had begun dating his Mission: Impossible - Dead Reckoning Part One co-star Hayley Atwell .

An insider confirmed to The Sun : "Tom and Hayley hit it off from day one.

"Lockdown, and all the difficulties that came with it, brought them even closer and they’ve become fairly inseparable.

"They’ve been meeting up after hours, and she’s been to his London pad. They get on brilliantly, and both seem very happy."

On June 11, 2022, it was announced Tom and Hayley broke up for a third and final time.

"Tom and Hayley’s relationship was genuine," a source explained to the abovementioned outlet.

"In spite of some rumors to the contrary, it was never just for the cameras.

"Unfortunately it hasn’t worked out for them. They have now decided they are better as friends.

"They get on really well and have fantastic chemistry, which is why they decided to quietly give the relationship another try earlier this year.

"But what was working behind closed doors didn’t work out so well when it was made public, and the fanfare around them as a couple exploded again."

Shakira thought the Tom Cruise relationship rumors were "hilarious because it’s just not true"

On May 8, 2023, Tom Cruise was rumored to be dating Shakira after the two were photographed together at that month's Formula 1 Grand Prix .

Eventually, the speculation was debunked as talks of the two as a couple died down.

According to Us Weekly : "Shakira has seen the online rumors that Tom has been courting her and how fans are chiming in with their opinions.

"She thinks it’s hilarious because it’s just not true. She had a fun time when they chatted, but that’s as far as things have gone.

"She has a lot on her plate and is focused on her kids and career for now."

Elsina Khayrova

In December 2023, Tom started dating Elsina Khayrova ; the daughter of Russian politician Rinat Khayrova .

An insider stated to The Sun : "With all their millions, Tom and Elsina can live the high life and never have to be near the public.

"But since they’ve been in London, they have been going out and about without anyone noticing them."

In February 2024, Tom and Elsina split up after being together since the end of 2023.

A friend also revealed that while the two have broken up, both Tom and Elsina wanted to remain friends as they both live in the same apartment block in London .

Who are Tom's ex-wives?

Mimi rogers.

Tom Cruise pictured with his first wife, Mimi Rogers

Tom's first marriage was to Mimi Rogers; on May 9, 1987, they wedded in Bedford, New York.

By February 4, 1990, the former couple's divorce was finalized.

Nicole Kidman

Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman met after they were both cast in Days of Thunder

On December 24, 1990, Tom tied the knot with Nicole Kidman.

They share two children together; a son named Connor and a daughter Isabella.

After 11 years of marriage, Tom and Nicole's divorce was finalized on August 8, 2001.

Katie Holmes

Tom Cruise was reportedly "completely surprised" when Katie Holmes filed for divorce

On November 18, 2006, Tom walked down the aisle with his third wife Katie Holmes.

The former couple share one child together, a daughter named Suri.

On August 20, 2012, Tom and Katie's divorce was final; the latter was granted primary custody of Suri.

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SINCE his divorce from Katie Holmes, Tom Cruise has been romantically linked to several women.

Previously, the Mission Impossible actor also dated Penélope Cruz and Hayley Atwell .

Since his rise to fame in the mid-1980s, Tom Cruise has been married three times

Who has Tom Cruise dated?

Melissa gilbert.

Before Tom Cruise achieved his mainstream breakthrough, he dated Melissa Gilbert.

The Little House on the Prairie actress revealed she and Tom romanced each other during their teenage years.

While stopping by Watch What Happens Live , Melissa told Andy Cohen : "Actually, when I dated him, he was Tom Mapother still.

"It was when he first moved to Los Angeles and I think I was 16, maybe, or 17?

"I did not have sex with him. We made out, but honestly, there was no sex.

"He was a good kisser. But, you know, he was, like, a struggling, starving actor. I actually bought him his first set of dishes."

Rebecca De Mornay

Tom Cruise and Rebecca De Mornay were together for three years

According to Tom's Risky Business co-stars , he and Rebecca De Mornay had a brief romance during the hit comedy film's production.

At the time of reports, Tom and Rebecca's fling coincided with the latter's relationship with Harry Dean Stanton.

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The former co-stars are believed to have split in 1985.

After Tom and Rebecca called it quits, the former moved on with Cher and the latter went on to marry Bruce Wagner.

"He was such a private person," Cher remembered about her relationship with Tom Cruise

On August 16, 1985, Tom met Cher at Madonna and Sean Penn's wedding in Malibu , California.

Soon after, the Top Gun star and the Grammy Award winner crossed paths again at a White House event.

Regarding her courtship with Tom, Cher recalled to ET : "It was a long, long time ago, and neither one of us ever talked about it, and I don’t know why.

"When we were together, he was such a private person. He always has been until lately.

"He didn’t mention it and I didn’t mention it. I loved him though, he was amazing.

"I loved him though, he was amazing. Now, it's hard for me to look at this person and this press.

"How many times can I watch him jumping up and down on Oprah's couch?"

She said of their split: "It was after Risky Business and right before The Color of Money.

"I couldn't go to Chicago and that was kind of the straw that broke the camel's back."

Penélope Cruz

Tom Cruise and Penélope Cruz dated after they co-starred in Vanilla Sky

Following Tom's second divorce from Nicole Kidman , he began dating Penélope Cruz .

The Vanilla Sky co-stars were first spotted together in July 2001; they met while filming the aforementioned movie in late 2000.

After three years of dating, Tom and Penélope split at the end of January 2004.

At the time, an insider told People : "The relationship just ran its course and they decided not to be girlfriend and boyfriend anymore.

"Through most of the relationship, they were both shooting movies in separate parts of the world.

"They remain good friends and still talk often. There is no other person involved."

While Penélope moved on with Matthew McConaughey , Tom started dating Sofia Vergara .

Sofia Vergara

Before she was famous, Sofia Vergara briefly dated Tom Cruise

In February 2005, Tom was spotted on a date with Sofia Vergara in Los Angeles .

However, the relationship rumors quickly fizzled out.

Years later in August 2023, it was reported that the Tropic Thunder star was looking to reconnect with Sofia; the speculation eventually faded.

A source shared with Heat : "It’s always eaten away at Tom that he dumped Sofia and chose Katie [Holmes] instead, which turned out to be a disaster in the end.

"In hindsight, he does admit that Sofia would have been a far better match, even if he does think she’s feisty.

"She checks almost every box for Tom. She’s stunningly beautiful, enormously successful, and isn't prepared to settle for second best.

"The physical attraction's there, and Tom's convinced that, together, they could be a Hollywood power couple.

"He’s been putting out the feelers through mutual friends, and if she bites, he’s all set to pounce."

Hayley Atwell

Tom Cruise and Hayley Atwell pictured at a press event for Mission: Impossible - Dead Reckoning Part One

On December 17, 2020, it was revealed Tom had begun dating his Mission: Impossible - Dead Reckoning Part One co-star Hayley Atwell .

An insider confirmed to The Sun : "Tom and Hayley hit it off from day one.

"Lockdown, and all the difficulties that came with it, brought them even closer and they’ve become fairly inseparable.

"They’ve been meeting up after hours, and she’s been to his London pad. They get on brilliantly, and both seem very happy."

On June 11, 2022, it was announced Tom and Hayley broke up for a third and final time.

"Tom and Hayley’s relationship was genuine," a source explained to the abovementioned outlet.

"In spite of some rumors to the contrary, it was never just for the cameras.

"Unfortunately it hasn’t worked out for them. They have now decided they are better as friends.

"They get on really well and have fantastic chemistry, which is why they decided to quietly give the relationship another try earlier this year.

"But what was working behind closed doors didn’t work out so well when it was made public, and the fanfare around them as a couple exploded again."

Shakira thought the Tom Cruise relationship rumors were "hilarious because it’s just not true"

On May 8, 2023, Tom Cruise was rumored to be dating Shakira after the two were photographed together at that month's Formula 1 Grand Prix.

Eventually, the speculation was debunked as talks of the two as a couple died down.

According to Us Weekly : "Shakira has seen the online rumors that Tom has been courting her and how fans are chiming in with their opinions.

"She thinks it’s hilarious because it’s just not true. She had a fun time when they chatted, but that’s as far as things have gone.

"She has a lot on her plate and is focused on her kids and career for now."

Elsina Khayrova

In December 2023, Tom started dating Elsina Khayrova ; the daughter of Russian politician Rinat Khayrova.

An insider stated to The Sun : "With all their millions, Tom and Elsina can live the high life and never have to be near the public.

"But since they’ve been in London, they have been going out and about without anyone noticing them."

In February 2024, Tom and Elsina split up after being together since the end of 2023.

A friend also revealed that while the two have broken up, both Tom and Elsina wanted to remain friends as they both live in the same apartment block in London .

Who are Tom's ex-wives?

Mimi rogers.

Tom Cruise pictured with his first wife, Mimi Rogers

Tom's first marriage was to Mimi Rogers; on May 9, 1987, they wedded in Bedford, New York.

By February 4, 1990, the former couple's divorce was finalized.

Nicole Kidman

Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman met after they were both cast in Days of Thunder

On December 24, 1990, Tom tied the knot with Nicole Kidman.

They share two children together; a son named Connor and a daughter Isabella.

After 11 years of marriage, Tom and Nicole's divorce was finalized on August 8, 2001.

Katie Holmes

Tom Cruise was reportedly "completely surprised" when Katie Holmes filed for divorce

On November 18, 2006, Tom walked down the aisle with his third wife Katie Holmes.

The former couple share one child together, a daughter named Suri.

On August 20, 2012, Tom and Katie's divorce was final; the latter was granted primary custody of Suri.

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Who Is Elsina Khayrova? 5 Things to Know About Tom Cruise’s Girlfriend

Who Is Elsina Khayrova? 5 Things to Know About Tom Cruise’s Girlfriend

Tom Cruise has a new love interest.

After Cruise and Elsina Khayrova made their public debut in December, a source exclusively told Us Weekly that the pair have been quietly dating for “a while now.”

“They’re very happy,” the insider told Us . “And Tom’s extremely confident about it working out for the long term.”

The source shared that the pair met through mutual friends in London. “What started as a basic friendship quickly turned into something more special,” the insider added.

As for where Cruise’s eldest children, Isabella and Connor, stand with the relationship, the source told Us that they “think Elsina is great and are so happy to see that their dad has love in his life again.” (Cruise shares both children with ex-wife Nicole Kidman . He also shares a daughter with ex-wife Katie Holmes .)

So who is Khayrova? Here’s everything to know about his girlfriend.

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1. where was elsina khayrova born.

Khayrova was born in Russia but now lives in London. Earlier this month, she was spotted with Cruise at a party in London’s Grosvenor Square.

“They’ve hung out at Tom’s favorite private members club and regularly enjoy afternoon tea and gourmet dinners out in London,” the source told Us .

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2. Did Elsina Khayrova model?

Khayrova formerly modeled for brands including Graff. In 2015, the luxury diamond jeweler shared a snap via Instagram of her wearing a pair of their earrings.

3. Who is Elsina Khayrova’s father?

Elsina is the daughter of Rinat Khayrova , who is a member of the Russian Military Police.

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4. has elsina khayrova been in a relationship.

Elsina filed for divorce from Russian oligarch Dmitry Tsvetkov in 2022. The pair separated two years prior after over a decade of marriage. In December, Tsvetkov weighed in on his ex’s new relationship with Cruise when he spoke to the Daily Mail.

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“Irrespective of whoever she’s with, Tom Cruise or anybody else, they should be aware that she likes the finer things in life and has expensive and luxurious tastes,” he said. “Tom should keep his eyes and wallet wide open.”

He continued: “I’m happy for her, I wish her all the best.”

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5. Does Elsina Khayrova have children?

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Published: 09:55 EDT, 10 May 2023 | Updated: 10:34 EDT, 10 May 2023

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As one of Hollywood's most well known leading men, Tom Cruise 's personal life has attracted just as much attention as his film career.

The Top Gun actor has been married three times and has also dated a slew of famous women over the years. 

He was most recently linked to singer Shakira after they were seen at the Formula 1 Grand Prix in Miami.

A source told Page Six that Tom 'is extremely interested in pursuing' the Colombian singer, 46, as 'there is chemistry' between them.

As Tom looks set to embark on a new romance, MailOnline takes a look back at his relationship history. 

Love life: As one of Hollywood's most well known leading men, Tom Cruise's personal life has attracted just as much attention as his film career (pictured with Shakira in May 2023)

Love life: As one of Hollywood's most well known leading men, Tom Cruise's personal life has attracted just as much attention as his film career (pictured with Shakira in May 2023) 

Cher (1985)

Tom first met Cher in 1985 when they were introduced at Madonna and Sean Penn's wedding in Malibu.

They later met again at a White House event to raise awareness for dyslexia and soon embarked on a 'hot and heavy' romance.

Recalling the relationship, Cher told Event magazine in 2018: 'A bunch of people who were dyslexic were invited to the White House, and Tom and I are both dyslexic.

'We didn't go out till way later, but there definitely was a connection there.'

Romance: Tom first met Cher in 1985 when they were introduced at Madonna and Sean Penn's wedding in Malibu (pictured in October 1985)

Romance: Tom first met Cher in 1985 when they were introduced at Madonna and Sean Penn's wedding in Malibu (pictured in October 1985)

Asked if the pair are still friends now, she said: 'Yeah! Though I don't get what he does, that whole Scientology thing. I can't understand it so I just… don't.' 

During a 2013 appearance on Andy Cohen's Watch What Happens Live, Cher said Tom was one of the top five lovers she had ever had.

She said: 'He wasn't a Scientologist then. It was pretty hot and heavy for a little minute. He's a great guy. The person that I knew was a great and lovable guy.'

Mimi Rogers (1887-1990)

Tom married his first wife Mimi Rogers on May 9, 1987. However the couple were not meant to be as they divorced three years later.

Discussing their marriage with Rolling Stone in 1987, Tom said: 'I'd never been in love before. Since I've been with her, it's opened me up a lot. 

'I think it's helped me be a better actor.  We live a lot of life together. We share everything… She's my best friend.'

Couple: Tom married his first wife Mimi Rogers on May 9, 1987. However the couple were not meant to be as they divorced three years later (pictured in 1986)

Couple: Tom married his first wife Mimi Rogers on May 9, 1987. However the couple were not meant to be as they divorced three years later (pictured in 1986)

Mimi is believed to be one of Tom's first links to the Church of Scientology which he has since become closely associated with.

The actress was raised in the controversial church and was one of its 'auditors' when she met Tom.

Mimi has since left Scientology while Tom continues to be an active member. 

Nicole Kidman (1990-2001)

Tom met his second wife Nicole Kidman on the set of their film Days Of Thunder (1990). 

The pair enjoyed a whirlwind romance before they married on December 24 of that year and adopted two children, Isabella (born 1992) and Connor (born 1995). 

History: Tom met his second wife Nicole Kidman on the set of their film Days Of Thunder (1990) and the couple parted ways in 2001 (pictured in 1991)

History: Tom met his second wife Nicole Kidman on the set of their film Days Of Thunder (1990) and the couple parted ways in 2001 (pictured in 1991)

They starred together again in the 1999 erotic thriller Eyes Wide Shut before divorcing two years later.

Tom filed for divorce while Nicole was unknowingly pregnant. The pregnancy had appeared to end in miscarriage before Nicole clarified in 2007 it had been an ectopic pregnancy.  

Penelope Cruz (2001-2004) 

Tom met Penelope Cruz on the set of Vanilla Sky in 2000 but he insisted the pair didn't begin dating until after his divorce from Nicole the following year.

He told The Telegraph: 'I've never fallen in love with someone I'm working with. It's always been afterwards.' 

Former flame: Tom met Penelope Cruz on the set of Vanilla Sky in 2000 but he insisted the pair didn't begin dating until after his divorce from Nicole the following year (pictured in 2001)

Former flame: Tom met Penelope Cruz on the set of Vanilla Sky in 2000 but he insisted the pair didn't begin dating until after his divorce from Nicole the following year (pictured in 2001)

In a 2003 interview with Marie Claire, Tom opened up about the 'little things' he liked to do for the Spanish beauty.

He said: 'She'll come home, and I'll have her favorite kind of food made, have a bath drawn. I like doing stuff like that. She likes my food, so I cook for her. It's always the little things I like in a relationship.'

The pair eventually went their separate ways in 2004. 

Nazanin Boniadi (2004-2005)

Tom was next linked to British actress Nazanin Boniadi, who he dated from November 2004 to January 2005. 

Fling: Tom was next linked to British actress Nazanin Boniadi, who he dated from November 2004 to January 2005 (pictured in November 2022)

Fling: Tom was next linked to British actress Nazanin Boniadi, who he dated from November 2004 to January 2005 (pictured in November 2022) 

Years later, a Vanity Fair article claimed Scientology leaders had launched a secret project to find Tom a new girlfriend after his split from Penelope.

The publication claimed a series of 'auditions' led to Nazanin being selected to be his girlfriend, however she later left Scientology.

Both Tom and the Church of Scientology strongly denied these claim

Katie Holmes (2005-2012)

In April 2005, Tom embarked on what would become one of his most high profile relationships when he began dating Katie Holmes. 

The pair made their first public appearance together that month in Rome and were quickly dubbed 'TomKat' by the press. 

TomKat: In April 2005, Tom embarked on what would become one of his most high profile relationships when he began dating Katie Holmes (pictured in April 2005)

TomKat: In April 2005, Tom embarked on what would become one of his most high profile relationships when he began dating Katie Holmes (pictured in April 2005) 

Tom famously declared his love for Katie during an appearance on The Oprah Winfrey Show where he jumped up and down on the couch in celebration of their relationship.

Tom and Katie's daughter Suri was born in April 2006. The couple married at Odescalchi Castle in Bracciano, Italy that November in a Scientoogist ceremony.

Katie filed for divorce in June 2012 with Tom later acknowledging that Katie's desire to protect their daughter Suri from Scientology was a factor in their divorce.

Hayley Atwell (2021-2022)

Tom reportedly dated actress Hayley Atwell after they worked together on Mission: Impossible - Dead Reckoning. 

Although the pair never confirmed their romance, they did attend the Wimbledon finals together in 2021.

Romance: Tom reportedly dated actress Hayley Atwell after they worked together on Mission: Impossible - Dead Reckoning (pictured in October 2020)

Romance: Tom reportedly dated actress Hayley Atwell after they worked together on Mission: Impossible - Dead Reckoning (pictured in October 2020)

They were reported to have split in June 2022, with a source telling The Sun: 'Unfortunately it hasn't worked out for them. They have now decided they are better as friends.' 

The insider also revealed that the fanfare around the couple after going public was too much to handle. 

Shakira (2023)

Tom was linked to Shakira after they met at the Formula 1 Grand Prix in Miami in May.

Shakira parted ways with longtime love Gerard Piqué, 36, last summer amid allegations he had cheated on her with the woman he wound up dating following the split , Clara Chia  Marti, 24.

A source told Page Six that the Colombian singer 'needs a soft pillow to fall on, and that could be Tom.' 

New love? Tom was linked to Shakira after they met at the Formula 1 Grand Prix in Miami in May

New love? Tom was linked to Shakira after they met at the Formula 1 Grand Prix in Miami in May

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Tom Cruise Sets Sights On New Girlfriend As Suri Announces College Plans

  • Tom Cruise has his sights set on Angelina Jolie as his potential new girlfriend.
  • Cruise hopes to win Jolie over by collaborating on a project and then romancing her.
  • While Suri Cruise makes big college decisions, her father strategizes his love life carefully.

Suri Cruise just made a big life announcement, but it looks like her father Tom Cruise is also look towards the future. A new report says the Mission: Impossible (1966) actor has his sights set on a famous actress to become his new girlfriend – Angelina Jolie .

“Over the past few years, they’ve had conversations about working together, it’s just about finding the right project. And lately, Ange has seemed more open to getting to know him socially, too,” a source told Heat Magazine . “Tom raves about Ange’s intellect and what a strong, impressive woman she is. He loves that she’s never really conformed in Hollywood.”

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“Plus, they’re both such superstars, only a handful of people can truly understand the life they live. That in itself creates a bond,” they continued.

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Apparently, Cruise is even strategizing how to win Jolie over. The source says he’s hopeful that they can collaborate together on a project, and something else may blossoming from their professional relationship.

His goal right now is to convince her to work with him, then hell romance her, the insider continued. Hes being careful not to come on too strong, but he wants to take it out of the friend zone.

Moreover, the source said that it’s not a priority that Angelina (or any potential girlfriend) be involved in scientology, despite his famous connection to the church. Last year, it was rumored that Cruise may be taking a break from the mysterious religion, though he seemed to debunk speculation by making an appearance at scientology headquarters within weeks of speculation brewing.

“He has no intention of pushing Scientology on her, as he quite astutely knows that it would send an anti-religious Angelina running in the other directin,” the source went on. “[Either way] their mutual friends could really see this happening.”

Suri Is Making Big Decisions For College

While Cruise apparently has his love life on his mind, his youngest daughter, Suri, is also making big moves. The 18-year old hinted at her future educational plans in a "commitment day" TikTok shared by a classmate. Suri, who’s currently a student at LaGuardia High School of Music & Art and Performing Arts in New York City, was beaming as she seemingly revealed her college choice.

In the TikTok video, which was captioned "LaG commitment day," Suri and her classmates sported sweatshirts indicating their future colleges. As Miley Cyrus’s "I'll Always Remember You" from Hannah Montana played in the background, Suri and her friends danced through their school’s halls, proudly displaying their chosen universities.

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Suri made a playful face for the camera and pointed to her chest, showcasing a bright red sweatshirt with "Carnegie Mellon" printed in white lettering.

Although Suri has not officially disclosed what she plans to study, reports suggest she may be interested in pursuing a fashion-related program. She’s also expressed an interest in acting , just like her famous parents. Her mother, Katie Holmes, has expressed hope that Suri will continue to participate in some of her future projects.

Tom Cruise Sets Sights On New Girlfriend As Suri Announces College Plans

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Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise's strict divorce rules for daughter Suri

The dawson's creek star and the mission impossible actor split in 2012.

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Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise were once considered one of Hollywood's It-couples, so news of their split in 2012 came as a shock to fans.

The couple tied the knot in November 2006 in Odescalchi Castle near Rome, Italy, and during their six-year marriage, they welcomed their daughter Suri .

Dawson's Creek star Katie is often seen spending time in New York City with the 18-year-old after she was granted full custody of her daughter in the divorce settlement. See the other divorce rules Tom and Katie agreed to follow to prioritise her well-being. 

Katie and Tom's split

Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes' wedding in Italy

Suri was born in April 2006, with doting father Tom later gushing to  ABC News : "It was everything that we wanted it to be... It was spiritual. It was powerful. It was indescribable."

She was just six years old when Katie filed for divorce, citing "irreconcilable differences."

Tom confessed to German TV network ProSieben: "I didn't expect it," adding: "Life is a tragicomedy. You need to have a sense of humor."

katie holmes tom cruise with daughter suri as a baby

Katie and Tom released a joint statement that read: "We are committed to working together as parents to accomplish what is in our daughter Suri's best interests.

"We want to keep matters affecting our family private and express our respect for each other's commitment to each of our respective beliefs and support each other's roles as parents."

Divorce terms 

Katie reportedly deliberately filed for divorce in New York, where family law judges tend not to grant joint custody to fighting parents to prevent conflicts for the children.

She was granted sole custody and Tom agreed to several financial obligations, including paying Katie $400,000 a month until Suri turned 18 years old, according to the  Daily Mail . The Mission Impossible actor also agreed to shoulder "medical, dental, insurance, education, college and other extracurricular costs".

Aside from finances, the pair also set out boundaries when it came to religion. Tom is a devout Scientologist, and when he split from his first wife Nicole Kidman in 2001, their two adopted children Isabella and Connor continued to be Scientologists and drifted apart from their mother.

Catholic-raised Katie was supposedly afraid of history repeating itself with Suri, which is why she sought sole custody. This allowed her to remove her daughter from any Scientology-influenced schools, like the Delphian School in Oregon where Tom's older children attended.

Suri Cruise wore a Carnegie Mellon sweater

Instead, Suri attended LaGuardia High School and has hinted she is planning to study at Carnegie Mellon University .

According to TMZ, Katie and Tom's divorce agreement also included restrictions on what they could tell Suri regarding religion. The little girl supposedly couldn't be exposed to anything Scientology-related.

Tom and Suri's relationship

Tom holding hands with ex-wife katie holmes and daughter Suri

Tom was very excited to become a father to Suri, even controversially buying a medical-grade sonogram machine in order to see her throughout Katie's pregnancy.

Throughout Suri's childhood, the father-daughter duo were often pictured on public outings before Tom and Katie divorced.

However, the Top Gun actor spent less and less time with his daughter following the split.  Lindsay George , BACP-registered counsellor and psychotherapist, told HELLO! that this may have had  an impact on Suri's attachment , which was likely secure until her father left.

"Suri may well have felt quite confused at the time as to why her dad left," she began.

"We can speculate that he was present and an emotionally available dad. Obviously, she's got her mum too, so potentially, Suri's attachment style is secure because she's had two parents emotionally and physically available in those early years of her life, which is super important."

Former Scientologist Samantha Domingo told  Us Weekly that Tom was "not allowed" to have a relationship with Suri as she was not a Scientologist.

Samantha explained the Church's belief in reincarnation means they would not view Suri as Tom's daughter, but as a "spiritual being in Tom's daughter's body."

Tom has denied these claims, stating his busy work schedule has prevented them from spending time together. The physical distance also doesn't help, since Suri lives in New York City and Tom has made London his primary base.

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Tom Cruise, Angelina Jolie Spark Dating Rumors After Failed Romances With Elsina Khayrova, Brad Pitt

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Tom Cruise is interested in dating Angelina Jolie, who is also an A-list celebrity, a new report claimed.

In order to determine whether or not their relationship has the potential to develop into something more, the actor, who is 61 years old, is of the opinion that Angelina, who is 49 years old, is his "perfect match."

“Over the past few years, they’ve had conversations about working together, it’s just about finding the right project. And lately, Ange has seemed more open to getting to know him socially, too,” an unnamed source told New Idea Magazine .

Tom raves about Ange’s intellect and what a strong, impressive woman she is. His goal is to convince her to work with him, then he’ll romance her,” the insider claimed.

The news comes after Tom’s ended his brief romance with Russian-born Elsina Khayrova in February. Angelina, meanwhile, has been quiet on the dating front since splitting from Brad Pitt in 2016.

Instead, Angelina has focused on her six children. But with the kids growing up, Angelina is ready to embrace her next life stage.

“Their mutual friends could see this happening,” an informant told Heat UK .

Meanwhile, Angelina was accompanied by her daughter Vivienne, who was 15 years old at the time and had assisted her mother in producing the Broadway production The Outsiders, on the red carpet. There have been twelve Tony Award nominations submitted for the musical, which is based on the young adult novel and film of the same name.

Jamestown Revival, a folk duo, contributed their songs to the performance. Angelina and her daughter chose to co-ordinate their attire for the big event, and they both wore teal suits that matched one other.

The gorgeous velvet gown that Angelina wore was designed by Versace. It features ruching at the bust and waist, which gives the impression that the actor is a Greek statue. While wearing the strapless dress, Angelina accessorized it with a velvet shawl that matched the outfit. The shawl was draped down at her elbows and wrists, and it flowed freely off her shoulders.

A Briony Raymond Vintage Yellow Gold and Diamond Ring by Cartier, matching teal bracelets, and a huge silver bangle bracelet from Alexis Bittar were the accessories that Angelina wore to compliment the dark aquamarine look, as per Harper's Bazaar .

At her bust, precisely at the point where the neckline of her gown dipped down into a cowl, Angelina appeared to be bragging about a temporary tattoo in the shape of a dove that was made of shiny gold. Her refined appearance was completed by a pair of little gold hoops.

Angelina chose to wear her highlighted brown hair down in a simple blowout and opted for her typical makeup look, which consisted of smokey brown eyeshadow, heavy eyeliner, and a pink gloss. She was holding her daughter's hand as she made her way down the glittering red carpet.

The cyan ensemble that Vivienne wore was an attempt at a more laid-back style. The young producer wore a teal vest over a white button-down shirt, which she teamed with a pair of pants that matched the button-down shirt.

She rounded off her suit with a pair of black Converse sneakers, and a blue bowtie was the finishing touch that brought her look together. Although she had previously been credited as "Vivienne Jolie-Pitt," she decided to change her name to "Vivienne Jolie" in the Playbill catalog.

In the same way as her older sister Shiloh did, she has also abandoned her father's surname. It was just earlier this month, on Shiloh's 18th birthday, that she submitted the necessary documents to the court in order to request that her name be changed legally.

Another of the former couple's adopted children, Zahara, has been going by the name Zahara Jolie (without Pitt), and she has been doing so exclusively. A recent performance that she gave for her college sorority was the first time that she presented herself without her hyphenated surname. Instead, she just went by the name "Zahara Marley Jolie."

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She’s having a hot girl summer.

Shakira insists she isn’t focused on dating at the moment after sparking rumors with multiple famous men, including Tom Cruise and Lewis Hamilton.

“I’m not thinking about that,” the “Hips Don’t Lie” singer, 47, told Rolling Stone for her July–August 2024 cover story, published Thursday.

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She then asked, “What space do I have for a man right now?”

While she’s happily enjoying single life now, Shakira is open to dating at some point in the future.

“What can I tell you, I like men,” she said. “That’s the problem. I shouldn’t like them with everything that’s happened to me, but imagine how much I like men that I still like them.”

Shakira posing for Rolling Stone.

The “Waka Waka” artist, who broke up with longtime partner Gerard Piqué  amid rumors he had cheated on her , admitted she is not ready for a “formal relationship” right now.

“I think my kids would have to be very prepared for that, and their emotional and psychological well-being is the priority,” she told the magazine.

Shakira did, however, suggest that she would consider a more casual dating situation.

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“Hey, I’m not opposed to having friends,” she said.

The Grammy winner and Piqué, 37, announced their split in June 2022 after 11 years together. They share two sons: Milan, 11, and Sasha, 9.

“We regret to confirm that we are separating,” the former couple said in a joint statement at the time. “For the well-being of our children, who are our highest priority, we ask that you respect our privacy. Thank you for your understanding.”

Shakira and Gerard Piqué in 2015.

Shakira hinted at the former soccer player’s infidelity after their split and has openly discussed feeling betrayed by him .

Piqué has expressed zero regrets over their fallout and moved on with new girlfriend Clara Chia Marti .

The “Whenever, Wherever” singer has also since put their failed relationship behind her.

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Since moving from Barcelona, Spain to Miami, Fla., for a fresh start, she has been linked to several A-list eligible bachelors.

Shakira sparked dating rumors with Hamilton , 39, in May 2023 when she was spotted boating with the Formula 1 driver after reportedly meeting at the Miami Grand Prix.

They were also seen getting cozy in Barcelona shortly after.

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A source told People at the time that the pair was in the early stages of dating and that it was “fun and flirty.”

The Colombian superstar’s outings with Hamilton came amid rumors that she was romantically involved with Cruise, with whom she was also seen at the Grand Prix . However, a source told Page Six exclusively that Shakira was not going to “romance” the 61-year-old “Top Gun” star.

Later that summer, the “She Wolf” warbler enjoyed a “cozy” dinner in London with Miami Heat player Jimmy Butler .

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  • Fans criticize Tom Cruise for missing Suri's prom, praising Katie Holmes for being a great mother.
  • Suri's prom night with boyfriend Toby Cohen draws mixed reactions from paparazzi images and online fans.
  • Despite paparazzi interference, fans show protective love towards Suri, urging media to respect her privacy and young love.

Despite Tom Cruise being one of the most financially successful movie stars around, fans still can't get over his messy personal life. First and foremost in that department is Tom's relationship with his children . Particularly, Suri Cruise , whom he's been estranged from following Katie Holmes ' ' blindsiding' decision to divorce him .

Tom Cruise's estrangement from Suri Cruise reared its ugly head again during her June 2024's prom season. The paparazzi snagged exclusive images of the 18-year-old celebrating her major milestone alongside her handsome new boyfriend. All of this caused fans to weigh in on the complexities of Tom and Suri's relationship. We will delve into all of these mixed reactions as well as delve into Suri's prom night and her relationship with her boyfriend, Toby Cohen.

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On June 19th, 2024, The Daily Mail published a set of candid paparazzi images of Suri Cruise on her prom night . The now 18-year-old daughter of Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes was dressed to the nines and snuggled up to her boyfriend, Toby Cohen.

Suri was photographed outside of the Ascent Lounge in New York City, not far from her high school. She wore a corset-style dress with a floral print and maroon piping. She also wore a top that showed off her bust. Her prom date was all over her in the photographs, which also included a number of Suri's classmates/friends.

The following day, both Suri and Toby Cohen were photographed again on a walk in Central Park; this time engaging in some major PDA. Most fans in the comment sections on The Daily Mail were irate that the paparazzi would capture and sell images of the 18-year-old making out with her boyfriend . But others, much like in the comment section of the images from her prom, took their grief out on Suri's absent father.

The details of Tom Cruise's estrangement from his third child, Suri Cruise, are unknown at this time. According to Hello Magazine, they are likely due to Katie Holmes and Suri's desire to leave The Chruch of Scientology . Tom is a devoted member of the church and has been taught to distance himself from so-called "suppressive people" who criticize the church.

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While Suri Cruise's mother, Katie Holmes, wasn't present at her prom, fans are well aware of their close relationship. In contrast, Tom Cruise was last seen in London, flying helicopters, and shooting his next movie. The fact that he was absent from Suri's prom (as well as the majority of her life), really angered fans in the comment section on The Daily Mail.

Here are some of their comments, which included praise for Suri's removal from Scientology:

  • "And yet he walked away from her. Definitely not a father."
  • "The real hero in her life is her maternal grandpa & ace lawyer… he outmaneuvered all those Sct lot and got his girl out."
  • "Turned out well despite her terrible father."

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However, some fans actually defended Tom Cruise against those criticizing him in the comment section. They pointed to the child support payments Tom pays Katie every year. Others claimed that fans weren't given all sides of the story and therefore shouldn't cast judgment on Tom.

According to Hello Magazine, Tom Cruise paid Katie Holmes $400,000 per year in child support payments . This ended when Suri turned 18. The funds covered her education, medical, dental, and other costs.

Regardless of the difference in reactions to Suri Cruise's high-profile outings, the vast majority of the fa ns in the comment section praised Katie Holmes' mothering :

  • "What a lovely young lady, so happy and enjoying life and her friends! May you have a glorious, productive, healthy, and happy future. Your mom gave you a brilliant start!!"
  • "Mom did an excellent job."
  • "Pretty girl. I'm so glad her mom got her away from that nut job and that cult. Nice. Maybe she'll have a normal, happy life. Going to the prom is a good start."

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Suri Cruise captured attention from numerous publications, such as Page Six and The Daily Mail when she stepped out on the town to celebrate her prom. Her June 2024 prom date was her alleged boyfriend, Toby Cohen. Both attended LaGuardia High School of Music & Art and Performing Arts. Both also looked beautiful as they celebrated their young adult milestone.

  • When Suri Cruise met or started dating Toby Cohen is currently unknown
  • According to The Daily Mail, it is likely Suri and Toby have been dating for some time
  • Suri and Toby likely met at school

Suri Cruise wore a purple flower corsage with a floral dress and top. Toby Chen wore a dark blue suit and brown dress shoes. Both wore gold rings on their wedding fingers . The speculation is that these matching rings are meant to be symbolic of a "promise". Likely to remain exclusive to each other. They are likely not purity rings. However, neither Suri nor Toby have publicly addressed the matching rings.

  • Toby Cohen wants to be a singer/songwriter, according to The Daily Mail

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Despite being caught in the middle of her parent's public divorce, Suri Cruise chose to handle things in private.

As Suri went into her prom, she stopped to take photographs with a number of friends and their dates. All the while, she was been photographed by a sneaky group of paparazzi. The very next day, Suri's privacy was invaded once more when the paparazzi caught her and Toby kissing in Central Park . These were the first two times Suri Cruise has been seen with a boyfriend.

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Fans in the comment section remarked that Toby looks similar to Suri's father Tom. But almost all of them were disgusted at how the paparazzi invaded her privacy . This is what they had to say:

  • "Just STOP. She is a young woman living a private life trying to find her own way. How invasive and unfair this is to her."
  • "Seriously!!! Somehow I feel very protective of her and I don’t want the paparazzi stalkers to do to her what was done to Britney, Justin Bieber, Lindsey… just waiting for a scandal. Pushing her into angry anxiety where she breaks. Leave. Suri. Alone!!!!"
  • "So invasive and inappropriately zoomed in. Please leave her alone and let her enjoy her life. She’s not a celebrity."
  • "Leave. Her. Alone. She didn’t sign up for this."
  • "Good grief, far too intrusive! Whoever took these pics should be ashamed of themselves! Paying for them - even worse."
  • "Leave her alone, seriously. shes living a normal life and doesn't want any of this press. just because shes 18 now doesn't mean shes fair game. youre just gonna scare that boy off - and any other boy that comes along."
  • "Young love. They are just darling. Please let them enjoy their moments in privacy."

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Sean Penn Looks Back on Friendship with Tom Cruise, Including Being 'Jogging Partners' Together

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Sean Penn and Tom Cruise ’s friendship goes way back. 

On the June 18 episode of the Fail Better with David Duchovny podcast, Penn, 63, remembered becoming close with Cruise, 61, while filming Taps , their first big project.

The 1981 military thriller starring Timothy Hutton and George C. Scott was “the first big movie” of Penn’s career, as he noted to podcast host David Duchovny , 63. The same was true for Cruise, who had made his feature film debut in Endless Love that same year. 

“Tom and I come back to California after the movie's done,” narrated Penn. “We were spending a lot of time together.”

He added that “at that time,” the two eventual superstars were “jogging partners.”

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Penn said that film's director, Harold Becker “is as much as anyone responsible for my career, and I love him. But, boy, as a young actor, I must have driven him crazy.” 

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Penn, who went on to steal the show in 1982's Fast Times at Ridgemont High and become a two-time Oscar winner for 2003's Mystic River and 2008's Milk , has brought up fond memories involving his longtime friendship with Cruise in several interviews. 

Speaking to Jimmy Kimmel in 2015, Penn confirmed that he picked up the Top Gun star from the airport upon his first landing in Los Angeles.

“We had made a movie together, basically the first movie I ever did… we had just spent a bunch of time together in Valley Forge, Pennsylvania,” he said of Taps . To introduce Cruise to Hollywood, Penn proceeded to take him to check out Lucille Ball’s house. 

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In 2020, Penn told Howard Stern that the duo ran into John Belushi while "standing on an empty street, late at night.” In a convertible, the Saturday Night Live star “pulled up and asked for directions to the Chateau Mormont.” Penn recalled that he and Cruise answered, “‘You know where the Chateau Mormont is.’ [Belushi] laughed and he pulled away.”

Curtis Armstrong , Cruise’s costar in 1983’s Risky Business , detailed Penn and Cruise’s tight friendship in his 2017 memoir Revenge of the Nerd . He wrote that Cruise “admired [Penn] enormously. He admitted to me that he was intimidated by Sean’s talent and even then, in 1982, believed him to be the greatest actor of his generation.”

Penn stars opposite Dakota Johnson in the new film Daddio, in theaters June 28.

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