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17 romantic travel traditions to start right now

They say planning for your holiday is just as important as when you are actually away. So starting with these romantic travel traditions before you leave will make your next trip all the more memorable.

Travel is one of our passions and it’s one of the main reasons we’re together in the first place.  As we’ve kept on our journey together and keep travelling together, we’ve created a few traditions.

These small habits and traditions help to create stronger memories on our holidays. They also keep the trip alive when you’re back home.

Travelling with your partner can be the biggest test of your relationship and if you need some tips, here our top 10 pieces of advice for travelling together as a couple .

And if you don’t have any travel traditions or are looking for some more to add to your journeys, we’ve put together a list to give you a bit of inspiration.

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Romantic travel traditions to start before you leave, 1. plan your trip together and set up a countdown timer on your calendars.

As the saying goes “ getting there is half the fun ”, but I think the anticipation of the trip can be even more exciting.

2. Have a travel themed date night before you go

Watch a movie related to your destination, go to a restaurant with that cuisine or play music from that destination in the background before you go.

3. Start to learn a few useful phrases in the language of where you’re travelling

You can do this together and help each other or you can do it as a secret to surprise your partner when you can order perfectly at the bar when you arrive.

4. Add a really funny out of office message to your email

We have a friend who travels a lot for work. It sounds strange, but we can’t wait for her go away again to see what her auto-reply says!

You can also add a funny voicemail for your phone while you’re away… just remember to change it when you get back.

Romantic travel traditions for the start of your trip

5. toast the occasion.

For us the holiday begins as soon as we’ve checked in at the airport and we have cheeky champagne at the bar.

If you’re driving to your destination or you don’t like to drink when you fly, call ahead and ask for some champagne to be waiting in your room for your arrival.

Romantic travel traditions when you’re on location

6. create a photo series of your trip.

It could be doors, windows, dogs or any thing that takes your fancy. These series give cohesion to your photos and turn everyday holiday snaps into great travel photography albums that’ll take you back to your time away.

7. Take a photo together in the same pose or position everywhere you go

Similar to creating photo series, having the same pose in each location makes a place uniquely yours. Make sure to take photos with the people you meet too. So often it’s the people you meet when you’re away that makes a holiday memorable.

8. Lock it in

Drawing inspiration from the Pont des Arts in Paris , take a padlock with you on your trip and lock it to a place you visit. Write your initials on the lock – and don’t forget to take a photo!

Make sure it’s not breaking any local laws though and be mindful that not everyone finds this to be a romantic gesture.

If you’re looking for an alternative to a lock, write your initials on a stone and hide it somewhere out of the way. If you ever go back to that place, it’s fun to see if it’s still there.

9. Keep a travel journal

It’s hard to take it all in when you’re travelling and you won’t remember it all later. Take a special notebook on each trip to record the days and reminisce over them later.

10. Give your trip a signature scent

Scent is so closely linked to memory, so choose a particular fragrance to wear for the entire trip. Wear it back home to be transported back in an instant.

This is also a great tradition for your wedding day that you can bring back on anniversaries too.

Romantic travel traditions for when you get home

11. collect meaningful souvenirs.

We don’t buy a lot when travelling anymore, but we do like to buy something special that we can keep in our home to remind us of the trip.

We also have a tradition of buying Christmas decorations so that when we decorate the tree, we get to talk about all the places we’ve been to together. It’s a great way to reminisce at the end of the year and to plan your travels for the year ahead.

12. Buy a special item of clothing from the destination that you’re travelling

Every time you wear it back home, it will remind you of your journey together. Just be mindful that this item may only ever be a house outfit.

We’ve all got holiday purchases like that, haven’t we? Caught up in the moment, we get the item of clothing home only to realise the floppy linen tie-dye fisherman’s shirt, which looked amazing in the remote coastline you were visiting, actually makes you look an impossibly strange shape.

Romantic travel traditions that’ll keep the trip alive

13. make your own souvenirs with your camera.

Don’t let your photos go stale on your hard drive. Print your favourites to frame on your wall or create a photo book of your trip. You can even create your own holiday fridge magnets.

14. Recreate your favourite recipe from the trip

Jim is now making these taralli from our last trip to Italy and every taste takes us back to Puglia.

Romantic travel traditions to add to your relationship

15. plan a trip for each other’s birthday every year.

Even a staycation is a great way to celebrate. You might not think it’s ‘travel’, but even a trip away in your own city is a journey.

16. Choose a destination to become your regular spot

Make it an annual trip and it will be the perfect place to completely relax and unwind. With so many places to go and to see, the decision to go somewhere new over a destination you’ve been before and love leaves you torn in two.

We love going back to Port Stephens up the coast from Sydney. We’ve been going there for years and it feels like a home from home. Amazingly we still manage to find something new about the place each time we’re there.

17. Plan a trip just for yourself

It might seem selfish and not so romantic to travel alone or with your friends, but it’s a great way to do something for you. And by filling your cup, you’ve got more to give back to your relationship and can freshen up your day-to-day with each other.

We’d love to know what your travel traditions are. Do you have travel habits from your childhood or something that you have to do at every destination? Share your travel traditions in the comments below.

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Sammie @ The Annoyed Thyroid

We buy Christmas decorations too! I always keep a travel journal and we try to get away for our birthdays and/or anniversaries. Will have to plan a new adventure so we can try some of these other ideas out too!

That’s right! You do, Sammie! We are kindred travellers! Like how you nudged in a hint of going on another adventure too. I just hope David reads this! 😀 Jx

Katie @ Coffee With Katie

This has made me so nostalgic for our travel days and got me dreaming about another trip…

Hey Katie! We love inspiring totally irresponsible travel plans – you should definitely go on another trip! Fire up those old travel traditions and make some new ones too. 😉

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There’s something undeniably magical about escaping on a romantic vacation with your partner. Whether you’re newlyweds embarking on your honeymoon or a long-time couple seeking to rekindle the flame, a romantic getaway can be the perfect opportunity to create lasting memories and deepen your connection.

With countless destinations around the world, each offering its own unique charm and allure, it can be challenging to decide where to go. From breathtaking landscapes to cultural treasures, the possibilities are endless.

In this article, we present the ultimate couples’ travel bucket list – a compilation of the most romantic experiences and destinations that will make your heart skip a beat. Whether you prefer to relax on tropical islands, explore ancient cities, or embark on thrilling adventures, there’s something on this list for every type of couple.

So, get ready to indulge your wanderlust and ignite your passion as we take you on a journey through the most enchanting destinations and experiences around the globe. Whether it’s a secluded beach getaway or an adrenaline-filled escapade, these ideas will inspire you to plan your dream romantic vacation.

Keep in mind that each destination and experience can be tailored to fit your preferences and budget. Whether you prefer luxury accommodations or budget-friendly options, there are always opportunities to create a magical and unforgettable experience.

Now, let’s dive into the list and discover the amazing adventures that await you and your loved one.

Exploring Ancient Cities

There’s something inherently romantic about walking hand in hand through the narrow, winding streets of ancient cities steeped in history and culture. From the cobblestone alleys of Rome to the architectural wonders of Istanbul, exploring ancient cities is a captivating experience that takes you back in time and allows you to immerse yourself in a rich tapestry of stories.

Imagine wandering through the ruins of the majestic Colosseum in Rome, feeling the weight of history as you learn about the gladiator battles that once took place within its walls. Stroll through the atmospheric streets of Kyoto, Japan, admiring the traditional wooden machiya houses and impeccably manicured Zen gardens.

Take a romantic stroll along the walls of Dubrovnik, Croatia, and marvel at the well-preserved medieval architecture. Lose yourself in the labyrinthine streets of Marrakech, Morocco, where vibrant souks, stunning palaces, and ornate mosques await at every turn.

Exploring ancient cities also means indulging in the local cuisine and discovering hidden gems in charming cafes and restaurants. There’s nothing more romantic than sharing a traditional meal with your loved one while immersing yourselves in the local flavors and aromas.

Whether you choose to explore on your own or join a guided tour, make sure to experience the magic of sunset in these ancient cities. As the golden hues illuminate the historical landmarks, you’ll feel the enchantment and timeless beauty of these extraordinary places.

Some of the most iconic ancient cities to consider for your romantic vacation include:

• Rome, Italy
• Istanbul, Turkey
• Kyoto, Japan
• Dubrovnik, Croatia
• Marrakech, Morocco

Each city offers a unique blend of history, architecture, and cultural experiences that will transport you to another era and leave you with memories to cherish forever.

So, grab your partner’s hand and get ready to explore the enchanting streets and hidden treasures of ancient cities, where love and history intertwine.

Relaxing on Tropical Islands

When it comes to romantic vacations, few things are as idyllic as relaxing on pristine tropical islands, surrounded by crystal-clear turquoise waters, powdery white sand beaches, and swaying palm trees. These paradisiacal destinations offer the perfect setting for couples looking to unwind, reconnect, and bask in the beauty of nature.

Imagine spending your days lounging on the beach, soaking up the sun, and taking refreshing dips in the warm, inviting ocean. Whether you’re sipping cocktails by the pool or indulging in a candlelit dinner on the beach, the tranquil ambiance and breathtaking scenery create an atmosphere of romance and serenity.

Destinations like the Maldives, Seychelles, Bora Bora, and the Caribbean islands are renowned for their luxurious resorts and overwater bungalows, where you can wake up to the gentle lapping of waves and enjoy uninterrupted views of the ocean from your private deck.

Explore hidden coves and pristine coral reefs during snorkeling or scuba diving excursions. Take a sunset cruise and watch as the sky transforms into a canvas of vibrant colors, creating a truly magical experience. For the adventurous couples, indulge in thrilling water sports such as kayaking, paddleboarding, or jet-skiing.

These tropical islands also offer opportunities for romantic walks along secluded beaches, hand in hand with your loved one. Find a quiet spot to watch the sunset, or book a couples’ massage in a private beachfront cabana, allowing the soothing sounds of the ocean to enhance your relaxation.

Some of the most enchanting tropical island destinations for a romantic getaway include:

• The Maldives
• Bora Bora, French Polynesia

With their natural beauty, luxurious accommodations, and abundance of romantic experiences, these tropical islands are the perfect escape for couples seeking tranquility and romance.

So, pack your swimsuits and get ready to soak up the sun, swim in turquoise waters, and create unforgettable memories on these serene and captivating tropical islands.

Hiking Majestic Mountains

For couples who love adventure and breathtaking vistas, exploring majestic mountains together can be an exhilarating and romantic experience. The combination of physical challenge, stunning landscapes, and a sense of accomplishment creates a unique bond between partners.

Imagine hiking through lush alpine meadows, surrounded by towering peaks adorned with glistening snow. The crisp mountain air, the sound of birds chirping, and the serene beauty of nature will transport you to a world of tranquility.

Whether you choose to tackle famous trekking routes like the Inca Trail to Machu Picchu, Kilimanjaro in Tanzania, or the Everest Base Camp Trek in Nepal, each adventure will test your limits and reward you with awe-inspiring views along the way.

These mountainous regions offer a variety of trekking options, catering to different fitness levels and preferences. You can opt for shorter day hikes or embark on multi-day expeditions, camping under the starry sky and waking up to breathtaking sunrises.

During your hiking adventure, you’ll have the opportunity to disconnect from the outside world and fully immerse yourselves in nature. The quiet moments shared with your partner while enjoying a picnic overlooking a majestic mountain range or celebrating a milestone achievement along the trail will create cherished memories.

Some of the world’s most stunning mountain ranges for couples to explore together include:

• The Himalayas (including Everest Base Camp Trek)
• The Andes (including the Inca Trail)
• The Rocky Mountains, USA
• The Alps, Europe
• Patagonian Andes, Argentina and Chile

Before embarking on a mountain trek, it’s important to ensure you have the necessary fitness level and proper gear. Consider booking with a reputable tour company or hiring a local guide for a safe and enjoyable experience.

So, lace up your hiking boots, take your partner’s hand, and get ready to conquer the world together as you explore the majestic mountains and revel in the awe-inspiring beauty of nature.

Road Tripping through Scenic Routes

There’s a sense of freedom and adventure that comes with embarking on a road trip with your loved one. The open road, the wind in your hair, and the anticipation of discovering hidden gems along the way create the perfect recipe for a memorable and romantic journey.

Whether you choose to drive along coastal highways, meander through picturesque countryside, or traverse breathtaking mountain ranges, road trips offer the opportunity to explore at your own pace and uncover the beauty of the landscapes.

Imagine driving along the iconic Pacific Coast Highway in California, with the majestic Pacific Ocean on one side and stunning cliffs on the other. Stop at charming coastal towns, walk along secluded beaches, and enjoy fresh seafood as you soak in the laid-back vibes of the California coast.

Drive through the picturesque countryside of Tuscany, Italy, as you pass vineyards, olive groves, and medieval villages perched on hilltops. Stop for wine tastings, indulge in delicious Italian cuisine, and immerse yourselves in the rich history and culture of this romantic region.

If you seek a more adventurous road trip, explore the rugged landscapes of Iceland’s Ring Road or the famous Great Ocean Road in Australia. Marvel at cascading waterfalls, towering mountains, and impressive rock formations along these scenic routes.

One of the great joys of road tripping with your partner is the shared experiences and moments of discovery. Sing along to your favorite songs, have deep conversations, and take spontaneous detours to explore charming towns or majestic viewpoints.

Some of the world’s most scenic routes for a romantic road trip include:

• Pacific Coast Highway, USA
• Great Ocean Road, Australia
• Ring Road, Iceland
• Amalfi Coast, Italy
• Wild Atlantic Way, Ireland

Before setting off on your road trip, make sure to plan your route, check the condition of the roads, and have a reliable vehicle. Pack a picnic, bring a camera to capture the stunning views, and embrace the spontaneity and freedom that comes with a road trip.

So, buckle up, hit the road, and embark on an adventure-filled journey with your partner, where the destination is just as important as the memories made along the way.

Experiencing Local Culture and Cuisine

One of the most rewarding aspects of travel is immersing yourself in the local culture and indulging in the authentic flavors of a region. Experiencing the local culture and cuisine together as a couple creates an opportunity to deepen your connection and create lasting memories.

Every destination has its own unique traditions, customs, and culinary delights to offer. From savoring street food in bustling markets to dining in Michelin-starred restaurants, exploring the local gastronomy is a journey in itself.

Take a cooking class together and learn how to prepare traditional dishes using fresh, local ingredients. Explore local markets and discover a wide variety of spices, fruits, and vegetables, while engaging with friendly vendors who can share their stories and recommendations.

Immerse yourselves in the local customs and traditions by attending cultural performances, festivals, or religious ceremonies. Dance to traditional music, witness vibrant parades, or participate in a local celebration to get a glimpse into the heart and soul of a destination.

For example, visit Japan and experience a traditional tea ceremony, where you’ll learn about the art of tea preparation and enjoy the serene ambiance of a tranquil tearoom. In India, witness the grandeur of a Hindu wedding ceremony or participate in a colorful Holi festival, where people come together to celebrate with vibrant colors and music.

Additionally, exploring local museums, art galleries, and historical sites will deepen your understanding of the destination’s heritage and artistic expression. Walk hand in hand through ancient ruins, admire world-class art exhibitions, or visit cultural landmarks that have shaped the identity of a place.

Some destinations renowned for their rich cultural experiences and culinary delights include:

By experiencing the local culture and cuisine, you’ll not only satisfy your taste buds but also create cherished memories and gain a deeper appreciation for the beauty and diversity of the world we live in.

So, be open to new flavors, embrace unfamiliar traditions, and let the local culture and cuisine transport you and your partner on a delightful journey of discovery and connection.

Going on Wildlife Safaris

If you and your partner have a love for wildlife and a desire for thrilling adventures, going on a wildlife safari together is an experience like no other. Witnessing majestic animals in their natural habitats creates a sense of awe and wonder, making it an incredibly romantic and unforgettable experience.

Embark on a safari and venture into the vast plains of Africa, where you can witness the iconic “Big Five” – lions, elephants, buffalo, leopards, and rhinos – along with a myriad of other fascinating wildlife. Watch a pride of lions lazing under a tree, spot elephants gracefully roaming the savannah, and catch a glimpse of a leopard stealthily maneuvering through the undergrowth.

Alternatively, head to the dense jungles of Borneo to observe the playful orangutans swinging through the treetops or embark on a thrilling boat safari in the Amazon rainforest, where you can encounter colorful birds, monkeys, and even elusive jaguars.

South America offers the opportunity to witness incredible wildlife in the Galapagos Islands, where you can spot unique species such as giant tortoises, marine iguanas, and blue-footed boobies. Explore the rich biodiversity of Costa Rica, home to sloths, monkeys, and a variety of exotic birds.

During your wildlife safari, you’ll have the chance to learn from knowledgeable guides who can provide insights into animal behavior, conservation efforts, and the delicate balance of ecosystems. Spend your days embarking on game drives, walking safaris, or boat excursions and soak in the beauty of nature and its inhabitants.

Some of the best destinations for wildlife safaris include:

• South Africa

Before embarking on a wildlife safari, ensure that you choose a reputable tour operator that adheres to ethical and sustainable practices. It’s important to prioritize the well-being of wildlife and their habitats.

So, grab your binoculars, pack your camera, and prepare to be amazed as you and your partner venture into the wilderness and witness the beauty of the animal kingdom together.

Cruising through Iconic Rivers

For a truly romantic and leisurely vacation, consider cruising through iconic rivers together. Whether you choose to sail along the mighty Nile, the romantic Rhine, or the exotic Mekong, river cruises offer a unique and enchanting way to explore new destinations while enjoying all the comforts of a floating hotel.

Immerse yourselves in the beauty of the landscape as you gently glide along the water, passing picturesque towns, lush vineyards, and historical landmarks. Enjoy panoramic views from the deck, relax in luxurious cabins, and indulge in fine dining and exceptional service on board.

Experience the timeless charm of a Nile River cruise in Egypt, where you can witness ancient temples, majestic pyramids, and the vibrant culture along the banks. Marvel at the stunning scenery as you cruise through the Rhine River, passing fairytale castles, charming villages, and rolling vineyards in countries like Germany, France, and the Netherlands.

Discover the rich cultural tapestry of Southeast Asia on a Mekong River cruise, as you sail through Vietnam and Cambodia. Explore bustling markets, visit floating villages, and witness the awe-inspiring temples of Angkor Wat.

One of the highlights of a river cruise is the opportunity to explore fascinating destinations with guided excursions and local experts. Immerse yourselves in the local culture as you visit historical sites, wander through vibrant markets, and interact with the friendly locals.

From sunrise yoga sessions on deck to romantic candlelit dinners against stunning backdrops, river cruises offer the perfect blend of relaxation and discovery. Unwind in onboard spas, sip cocktails while watching the sunset, and dance the night away under the starry sky.

Some of the iconic rivers to consider for an unforgettable cruising experience include:

• The Nile, Egypt
• The Rhine, Germany, France, and the Netherlands
• The Mekong, Vietnam, and Cambodia
• The Danube, Central Europe
• The Mississippi, USA

Whether you choose a short river cruise or a longer voyage, the tranquility of the river and the ever-changing landscapes will create a romantic and immersive experience for you and your partner.

So, step aboard a river cruise ship, let the gentle current guide you, and prepare to be captivated by the beauty and charm of the destinations that unfold along the way.

Camping under the Stars

Escape the hustle and bustle of everyday life and reconnect with nature and each other by going camping under the stars. This back-to-basics approach to travel allows you to immerse yourselves in the great outdoors, create lasting memories, and experience a sense of peace and tranquility.

Imagine setting up a cozy campsite surrounded by towering trees, near a serene lake, or in the heart of a picturesque mountain range. Pitch your tent, build a campfire, and unwind as you listen to the crackling flames and the soothing sounds of nature.

With limited access to technology, camping provides the perfect opportunity to disconnect from the digital world and focus on what truly matters: spending quality time with your partner. Share stories around the campfire, play games, or simply enjoy each other’s company while gazing at the starry night sky.

During the day, embark on outdoor adventures with activities such as hiking, swimming, fishing, or kayaking. Explore nearby hiking trails that lead to hidden waterfalls, go wildlife spotting, or simply take in the breathtaking scenery around you.

One of the most magical experiences of camping is stargazing. Far away from city lights, you’ll be treated to a dazzling display of stars illuminating the night sky. Lay back together on a blanket and marvel at the millions of twinkling lights above, while making wishes upon shooting stars.

Choose a campsite in a national park, state park, or private campground that suits your preferences and offers the amenities you desire. If you’re new to camping, you may want to start with car camping, where you can park your vehicle near the campsite and have easy access to your belongings.

Some of the most picturesque camping destinations for a romantic getaway include:

• Yosemite National Park, USA
• Banff National Park, Canada
• Great Barrier Reef, Australia (camping on islands)
• Lake District, England
• Amalfi Coast, Italy (wild camping on designated areas)

Remember to check local regulations, weather conditions, and safety measures before embarking on your camping adventure. Pack essentials such as camping gear, food, water, and warm clothing to ensure a comfortable and enjoyable experience.

So, embrace the simplicity of camping, leave behind the distractions of daily life, and create cherished memories under the twinkling stars with your loved one.

Discovering Hidden Waterfalls

There’s something undeniably captivating about the power and beauty of waterfalls. Seeking out hidden cascades together is a wonderful way for couples to connect with nature, embark on thrilling adventures, and revel in the awe-inspiring sights and sounds.

Escape into the depths of forests, hike along winding trails, and listen for the distant roar as you approach hidden waterfalls tucked away in secluded corners of the world. The rush of water, the mist in the air, and the lush surroundings create a magical atmosphere that will leave you breathless.

Each waterfall has its own unique charm, varying in size, shape, and surrounding landscape. Some are gentle, cascading streams, while others are thundering torrents of water that create a mesmerizing display of raw power.

Imagine hiking through the misty mountains of Iceland and stumbling upon Seljalandsfoss, a stunning waterfall that you can actually walk behind. Feel the spray of the water on your skin as you marvel at the view from this unique vantage point.

Discover the majestic beauty of Iguazu Falls, located on the borders of Argentina and Brazil. Witness the sheer magnitude of this UNESCO World Heritage site as hundreds of cascades plunge into the river below, creating a symphony of water and a truly immersive experience.

Visit the enchanting Plitvice Lakes National Park in Croatia, where waterfalls of varying sizes flow through a series of interconnected lakes. Walk along wooden boardwalks, cross charming bridges, and marvel at the emerald waters cascading down from one level to another.

Exploring hidden waterfalls also offers the opportunity for adventure. Take a dip in natural pools beneath the falls, feel the adrenaline rush as you go canyoneering and rappelling down cascades, or capture stunning photographs of these natural wonders.

Some of the world’s most mesmerizing hidden waterfalls to discover with your partner include:

• Seljalandsfoss, Iceland
• Iguazu Falls, Argentina and Brazil
• Plitvice Lakes National Park, Croatia
• Kaieteur Falls, Guyana
• Havasu Falls, USA

Remember to check local regulations and safety guidelines when visiting waterfalls, as some may have restricted access or require a guide. Pack appropriate footwear, rain gear, and a sense of adventure as you embark on your waterfall exploration.

So, embark on a journey of discovery, hand in hand with your partner, as you uncover hidden waterfalls and immerse yourselves in the captivating beauty of nature.

Celebrating Festivals around the World

There’s no better way to immerse yourselves in the vibrancy and culture of a destination than by joining in the festivities of a local festival. Celebrating festivals around the world allows couples to embrace the joyous spirit of a community, witness unique traditions, and create unforgettable memories together.

From colorful parades to lively music, dance, and traditional ceremonies, festivals offer a glimpse into the cultural fabric and heritage of a place. Joining in these celebrations allows you to feel a sense of unity and connection with the locals, as you participate in age-old traditions handed down through generations.

Imagine dancing through the streets of Rio de Janeiro during Carnival, where the vibrant costumes, samba music, and infectious energy create an atmosphere of pure joy. Witness the spectacular spectacle of the Chinese New Year in Beijing, with dragon dances, lantern festivals, and dazzling fireworks lighting up the sky.

Experience the exuberance of La Tomatina in Spain, as you join thousands of people in a massive tomato fight, an event that has become world-renowned for its fun and frivolity. Or immerse yourselves in the rich cultural tapestry of India during Diwali, the Festival of Lights, where homes are adorned with candles and fireworks light up the night sky.

Celebrating festivals also means indulging in traditional cuisine and unique delicacies that are central to these events. From street food stalls to grand feasts, sampling the flavors and aromas of festival foods is a delightful way to connect with the local culture and tantalize your taste buds.

Some of the most vibrant and renowned festivals around the world to consider for a memorable celebration include:

• Carnival (Rio de Janeiro, Brazil)
• Chinese New Year (Beijing, China)
• La Tomatina (Buñol, Spain)
• Diwali (Various cities in India)
• Mardi Gras (New Orleans, USA)

Before attending a festival, research the dates, book accommodations in advance, and familiarize yourselves with the local customs and etiquette. Embrace the spirit of the celebration, wear festive attire, and be prepared for a vibrant and thrilling experience.

So, don your dancing shoes, don colorful costumes, and get ready to celebrate alongside locals as you experience the revelry and cultural richness of festivals around the world with your beloved partner.

Visiting Architectural Wonders

For couples with a passion for history, art, and awe-inspiring structures, visiting architectural wonders around the world is a journey that combines grandeur and imagination. From ancient temples to modern marvels, exploring these iconic structures allows you to witness the ingenuity and creativity of humankind throughout the ages.

Step back in time and marvel at the architectural wonders of ancient civilizations. Visit the Great Pyramids of Giza in Egypt, a testament to the engineering skills of the ancient Egyptians. Stand in awe of the majestic Taj Mahal in India, a symbol of eternal love and exquisite craftsmanship.

Witness the grandeur of historical landmarks such as the Colosseum in Rome, the Acropolis in Athens, or the Great Wall of China. These monumental structures not only showcase remarkable architectural feats but also offer insight into the rich history and culture of their respective regions.

Explore the extraordinary works of modern architecture that push the boundaries of design and innovation. From the futuristic skyline of Dubai to the captivating Sydney Opera House, these architectural wonders captivate the imagination and leave a lasting impression.

Enter the spiritual realms of magnificent cathedrals and temples that inspire a sense of awe. Experience the serene beauty of Antoni Gaudí’s masterpiece, the Sagrada Família in Barcelona, or marvel at the intricate details of the Angkor Wat temple complex in Cambodia.

Architecture plays a significant role in shaping the identity of cities, and each destination has its own unique landmarks that define its skyline or cityscape. From the Eiffel Tower in Paris to the iconic Golden Gate Bridge in San Francisco, these structures become synonymous with the places they reside.

Some of the spectacular architectural wonders to consider visiting with your partner include:

• The Great Pyramids of Giza, Egypt
• The Taj Mahal, India
• The Colosseum, Rome
• The Sydney Opera House, Australia
• Frank Lloyd Wright’s Fallingwater, USA

Whether you choose to visit ancient wonders, modern masterpieces, or architectural marvels that bridge the gap between the past and the present, these structures offer insight into the ingenuity and creativity of human achievement. The sheer magnitude and intricate details of these wonders will leave you and your partner in awe.

So, embark on a journey through time and explore architectural wonders hand in hand, where the majesty of human creations will leave you both inspired and humbled.

Embarking on Adventure Sports

For couples seeking a rush of adrenaline and thrilling experiences, embarking on adventure sports provides the perfect opportunity to bond, push boundaries, and create unforgettable memories together. Whether you’re adrenaline junkies or looking to step out of your comfort zone, these activities will add a dash of excitement to your romantic vacation.

From soaring through the sky to diving into the depths of the ocean, adventure sports come in many forms and can be tailored to your comfort level and interests. Strap on a harness and go skydiving, feel the freedom of paragliding, or challenge yourselves with rock climbing.

Take to the water as you try your hand at surfing towering waves, whitewater rafting down raging rivers, or kayaking through thrilling rapids. Scuba diving or snorkeling allows you to explore vibrant coral reefs and encounter fascinating marine life beneath the surface.

For couples who enjoy being on wheels, mountain biking offers the thrill of navigating rugged terrain and winding trails, while zip-lining through lush forests provides an exhilarating aerial perspective.

Thrill-seekers can even try bungee jumping, canyoning, or heli-skiing, depending on the destination and season. These activities are designed to give you an unforgettable rush, pumping your adrenaline and creating an electrifying experience.

Many adventure sports can be enjoyed in breathtaking locations, offering stunning natural backdrops as you take part in these thrilling activities. Picture yourself tandem paragliding over picturesque valleys, tackling white-water rapids through lush canyons, or snowboarding down majestic mountains.

Some popular adventure sports destinations for couples include:

• Queenstown, New Zealand
• Interlaken, Switzerland
• Cape Town, South Africa
• Moab, Utah, USA
• Costa Rica (for a variety of adventure sports)

Before embarking on any adventure sport, ensure you receive proper instruction and follow safety guidelines. It’s also crucial to choose reputable operators or guides who prioritize your safety and provide necessary equipment.

So, gear up, muster your courage, and embark on thrilling adventure sports with your partner. The excitement and shared experiences will create bonds that withstand the test of time.

Taking a Romantic Gondola Ride

A romantic gondola ride through winding canals is the epitome of a fairytale experience. Venice, with its maze of waterways and charming bridges, is the most renowned destination for these enchanting rides. Drifting along in a traditional gondola, you and your partner will be transported to a world of timeless beauty and romance.

As you glide through the serene canals, take in the architectural wonders that line the water’s edge. Admire the ornate palaces, colorful buildings, and historic landmarks that make Venice a true masterpiece of art and architecture.

The gentle rhythm of the gondolier’s oar, the melodic singing, and the soft splashing of water create a soothing ambiance, allowing you and your partner to relax and enjoy each other’s company. Snuggle close and take in the sights, hand in hand, as you navigate the picturesque canals.

A gondola ride is not just about the visuals; it’s also an opportunity to stimulate your senses. Engage your taste buds with a glass of Italian wine or prosecco as you toast to your romantic adventure. Let the aroma of freshly baked bread and traditional Italian dishes waft in from nearby restaurants, igniting your appetite for a romantic dinner later.

While Venice is the most renowned city for gondola rides, other destinations also offer similar romantic experiences. In smaller canal cities like Bruges in Belgium or Annecy in France, you can take a gondola-style boat ride and enjoy the scenery as you float along peaceful waterways.

Moreover, several cities around the world have embraced the gondola tradition and offer their unique takes on this romantic experience. In cities like Suzhou in China, you can glide through tranquil canals and admire traditional Chinese architecture and lush gardens.

A gondola ride is a timeless and classic experience that stands out as a symbol of romance. Whether it’s in Venice or another destination, this magical journey will create cherished memories that you and your partner will treasure for a lifetime.

So, step aboard a gondola, let the gentle sway of the water carry you, and revel in the beauty and romance of this iconic experience.

Relaxing in Hot Springs

Indulging in the therapeutic waters of natural hot springs is a perfect way for couples to unwind, rejuvenate, and reconnect with each other and nature. Imagine submerging yourselves in warm, mineral-rich waters amidst picturesque surroundings, creating a blissful and romantic experience.

Hot springs can be found in various destinations around the world, each offering its unique charm and benefits. From secluded mountain retreats to geothermal wonders, these natural pools are renowned for their ability to relax the body and soothe the soul.

Visit the volcanic landscapes of Iceland, known for its geothermal activity, and discover a haven of hot springs such as the Blue Lagoon. Surrounded by rugged lava fields, you can soak in the warm mineral waters while enjoying panoramic views of the pristine Icelandic nature.

Alternatively, head to the soothing hot springs in Tuscany, Italy, where you can immerse yourselves in thermal baths set against a backdrop of rolling vineyards and picturesque countryside. Let the bubbling waters calm your senses and unwind any trace of stress.

In Japan, the tradition of onsens offers a deeply cultural and serene hot spring experience. Discover the tranquility of outdoor hot springs nestled within natural surroundings or indulge in traditional ryokans (Japanese inns) with private, open-air baths for an intimate and relaxing soak.

Hot springs are more than just a luxurious escape; they are believed to offer numerous health benefits, such as relieving muscle tension, improving circulation, and even promoting better sleep. The warmth of the water combined with the mineral content creates a soothing and healing effect on the body.

Relaxing in hot springs can be complemented by other activities such as spa treatments, yoga sessions, or simply enjoying each other’s company in a tranquil setting. Some hot spring retreats offer stunning views, lush gardens, and even wellness programs, allowing you to fully indulge in relaxation.

Some of the most renowned hot spring destinations for couples to unwind and rejuvenate together include:

• Blue Lagoon, Iceland
• Bagno Vignoni, Tuscany, Italy
• Hakone, Japan
• Pamukkale, Turkey
• Ma’in Hot Springs, Jordan

Before visiting a hot spring, it is essential to follow any guidelines or rules set in place to protect the natural environment. Respect the local customs and traditions associated with hot spring visits, such as bathing etiquette and clothing requirements.

So, allow the warmth of natural hot springs to envelop you and your partner, melting away any tension and creating a serene and intimate atmosphere. Let the healing waters wash over you and leave you feeling refreshed and renewed.

Embarking on a Wine Tasting Tour

Embarking on a wine tasting tour is a delightful and romantic experience that allows couples to explore the world of winemaking, indulge in exquisite flavors, and immerse themselves in the idyllic settings of picturesque vineyards. It’s a journey that tantalizes the senses, cultivates appreciation for fine craftsmanship, and offers an opportunity to savor the fruits of nature’s bounty together.

Whether you’re wine connoisseurs or simply wine enthusiasts, a wine tasting tour offers a chance to sample a variety of wines, learn about different grape varieties, and experience the unique characteristics of each region’s terroir.

Imagine strolling through rolling hills of vineyards in Tuscany, Italy, as you visit family-run wineries and savor world-class Chianti or Brunello wines. Or venture to the renowned Napa Valley in California, where you can explore award-winning vineyards and sample exceptional Cabernet Sauvignons or Chardonnays.

Join guided tours led by knowledgeable sommeliers who can provide insights into the winemaking process, from grape cultivation to the art of fermentation and aging. Learn how to distinguish different aromas and flavors in wine, and discover the secrets behind food and wine pairings.

In addition to wine tasting, these tours often include experiences such as vineyard walks, cellar tours, and even hands-on activities like grape stomping. Engage in conversations with winemakers and vineyard owners, and gain a deeper understanding of their passion and dedication.

Wine regions around the world offer unique atmospheres and landscapes, adding to the charm of the experience. From rolling vineyards in France’s Bordeaux region to the breathtaking beauty of New Zealand’s Marlborough, the backdrop of lush vineyards and scenic vistas sets the stage for a truly enchanting journey.

Some of the most renowned wine regions to consider for a romantic tasting tour include:

• Tuscany, Italy
• Napa Valley, California, USA
• Bordeaux, France
• Mendoza, Argentina
• Marlborough, New Zealand

Whether you prefer red, white, or sparkling wines, a wine tasting tour offers something for every palate. It’s an opportunity to deepen your knowledge of wines, expand your taste preferences, and create lasting memories as you savor each sip together.

Remember to drink responsibly and, if necessary, arrange transportation or accommodation to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience. Additionally, respect the etiquette of each winery and appreciate the effort and craftsmanship that goes into producing each bottle.

So, raise your glasses, clink them together, and embark on a wine tasting tour with your partner. Let the flavors of the vineyards delight your senses and create an unforgettable journey of romance and indulgence.

Exploring Underwater Wonders

Dive into a world of enchantment and discover the breathtaking wonders that lie beneath the surface of the ocean. Exploring underwater together is a thrilling and mesmerizing experience that allows couples to witness the beauty of marine life, vibrant coral reefs, and the mysteries of underwater ecosystems.

Strap on your snorkels, scuba gear, or don a wetsuit and embark on an underwater adventure that will leave you in awe. Dive into crystal-clear waters and be greeted by an abundance of colorful fish dancing around vibrant coral formations.

Imagine swimming alongside majestic sea turtles, gliding gracefully with playful dolphins, or encountering gentle giants like manta rays and whale sharks. The underwater world is teeming with life, and exploring it together allows you to witness the delicate balance and diversity of marine ecosystems.

Snorkeling is a popular option for couples who are new to underwater exploration. Float on the surface of the water, peering into the magical realm below, as you spot schools of tropical fish darting through the coral reefs.

For those seeking a more immersive experience, scuba diving opens up a whole new world of discovery. Descend into the depths and explore underwater caves, shipwrecks, and explore marine sanctuaries teeming with life.

Some of the world’s most renowned underwater destinations for couples to explore include:

• The Great Barrier Reef, Australia
• The Galapagos Islands, Ecuador
• Raja Ampat, Indonesia

While underwater exploration provides incredible sights and a sense of adventure, it is essential to prioritize the well-being of the marine environment. Look for eco-conscious operators who follow sustainable diving practices and educate guests on responsible underwater tourism.

Before embarking on any underwater adventure, ensure you are properly trained and certified if required. Familiarize yourself with safety protocols and respect the underwater world by not disturbing marine life or damaging delicate coral formations.

So, take the plunge with your partner and discover the wonders that lie beneath the surface. Allow yourselves to be captivated by the vibrant colors, the serenity of the underwater world, and the sense of wonder that comes with exploring the vastness of the ocean together.

Watching Spectacular Sunsets

Watching a spectacular sunset together is a simple yet profoundly romantic experience that never fails to ignite a sense of wonder and appreciation for the beauty of nature. As the sun descends below the horizon, painting the sky with a kaleidoscope of vibrant hues, you and your partner can witness the magic of nature’s daily masterpiece.

Find the perfect spot to sit, whether it’s on a sandy beach, on a mountaintop, or from the comfort of a cozy balcony. Hold hands, wrap yourselves in a blanket, and let the colors of the setting sun wash over you.

Each sunset is a unique and fleeting moment, offering a tapestry of colors that gradually shift and evolve. From brilliant shades of orange and pink to golden hues and fiery reds, the sky transforms into a breathtaking display of natural artistry.

The beauty of sunsets lies not only in the captivating visuals but also in the emotions they evoke. As the day draws to a close, watching a sunset can bring a sense of peace, reflection, and a reminder to appreciate the simple yet extraordinary moments in life.

Travel to destinations known for their stunning sunsets and take advantage of their scenic vistas. From the romantic island of Santorini in Greece, with its iconic white-washed buildings against a backdrop of the Aegean Sea, to the majestic cliffs of the Amalfi Coast in Italy, where the sun sets in a blaze of glory over the Mediterranean, these places provide awe-inspiring settings for sunset lovers.

However, you don’t have to travel far to witness a remarkable sunset. Even in your local area, there are likely hidden gems where you can enjoy beautiful views. Seek out parks, rooftop bars, or waterfront spots where you can unwind and bask in the serenity of the setting sun.

Watching sunsets together is not only an opportunity for quiet contemplation but also a chance to connect and share intimate moments. Engage in meaningful conversations, exchange heartfelt whispers, or simply enjoy the comfortable silence as you soak in the beauty of the fading light together.

So, embrace the beauty of nature’s daily spectacle, find a perfect vantage point, and let the magic of sunsets paint your world with love, warmth, and a sense of wonder. Cherish these timeless moments as you create memories that will stay with you long after the sun has gone below the horizon.

Volunteering in Local Communities

Volunteering in local communities is a meaningful and rewarding way for couples to make a positive impact while immersing themselves in new cultures and forging a deeper connection with each other and the world around them. By giving back and dedicating your time and skills to those in need, you can create lasting memories and contribute to the betterment of society.

There are countless volunteering opportunities available, ranging from working in orphanages and schools to assisting with environmental conservation projects or supporting local healthcare initiatives. Choose a cause that resonates with both of you and find an organization or program that aligns with your values and interests.

By volunteering together, you’ll have the opportunity to bond through shared experiences, collaborate on projects, and support each other as you navigate new surroundings. Engage with local communities, learn from their wisdom and stories, and gain a deeper understanding of the challenges they face.

Working side by side with locals allows you to contribute your skills and knowledge, while also learning from the expertise of others. Whether you’re teaching English, building homes, providing medical assistance, or supporting sustainable initiatives, your efforts will make a tangible difference in the lives of those you help.

Travel to countries like Cambodia, where you can support education projects and empower disadvantaged children. Volunteer in rural communities of Africa, engaging in initiatives focused on clean water access, healthcare, or agriculture. Explore opportunities in countries like Costa Rica, where you can contribute to wildlife conservation or sustainable eco-tourism efforts.

Keep in mind that volunteering experiences can be short-term or long-term, ranging from a few days to several weeks or months. Before embarking on a volunteer program, do thorough research, ensure the organization is reputable, and understand the logistics, costs, and expectations associated with the program.

Volunteering not only allows you to give back but also provides an opportunity for personal growth and self-reflection. It challenges preconceived notions, broadens perspectives, and fosters empathy and compassion. The impact of volunteering extends far beyond the individuals directly involved, creating a ripple effect that benefits the entire community.

So, step outside of your comfort zone, embrace the spirit of giving, and embark on a volunteer journey together. By making a positive impact and leaving a lasting legacy of love and kindness, you’ll create memories that will forever be etched in your hearts.

Going on a Train Journey

Embarking on a train journey with your partner is like stepping into a storybook adventure, where romance and nostalgia blend with the excitement of exploration. It offers a unique way to travel, allowing you to appreciate the picturesque landscapes, engage with fellow travelers, and create cherished memories along the way.

Train travel combines the thrill of the journey with the comfort and convenience of modern amenities. As the train glides along the tracks, you and your partner can relax in spacious and comfortable seats, taking in the ever-changing scenery that unfolds outside your window.

Whether it’s traversing majestic mountain ranges, crossing vast plains, or winding its way through charming countryside, a train journey offers a front-row seat to some of the most breathtaking landscapes in the world. From the Swiss Alps to the Scottish Highlands, these picturesque views will leave you in awe.

Train travel also invites moments of connection and serendipity. Strike up conversations with fellow passengers, sharing stories and experiences along the way. Exchange smiles with locals at each station, creating an instant connection through the shared experience of train travel.

Depending on the train, you may have the option to indulge in luxurious dining cars, where you can savor gourmet meals paired with fine wines. Relish the culinary delights as you traverse through different regions, immersing yourselves in the local flavors and cuisine.

Some iconic train journeys to consider for a romantic adventure include the classic Orient Express, the captivating Trans-Siberian Railway, or the luxurious Glacier Express. In addition, scenic routes like the Rocky Mountaineer in Canada or the Coastal Pacific in New Zealand offer awe-inspiring views and captivating experiences.

While onboard, take the opportunity to disconnect from the outside world and truly be present with your partner. Play a game, read a book together, or simply hold hands while admiring the passing scenery.

Train journeys can be short excursions or multi-day adventures, allowing you to tailor your experience to your preferences. Whether it’s a leisurely ride through picturesque landscapes or an overnight journey in a sleeper cabin, each train journey promises its own unique charm and allure.

So, step aboard, let the rhythmic clickety-clack of the train lull you into a state of relaxation, and relish in the enchantment of train travel. Embrace the magic of the journey and the delightful surprises that await you at each destination along the way.

Chasing the Northern Lights

Chasing the mesmerizing phenomenon of the Northern Lights, also known as the Aurora Borealis, is a truly captivating and awe-inspiring experience for couples seeking a romantic and magical adventure. Dancing across the night sky in vibrant hues of green, pink, and purple, the Northern Lights create a spectacle that is both breathtaking and unforgettable.

To witness this natural wonder, venture to destinations near the Arctic Circle, such as Norway, Iceland, Finland, or Canada, where you can immerse yourselves in the beauty of the polar regions and increase your chances of catching a glimpse of the enchanting lights.

Plan your trip during the winter months when the nights are longer and the skies are darker, providing optimal conditions for the Northern Lights to make their appearance. Bundle up in warm clothing, grab a hot beverage, and head to remote areas with minimal light pollution.

As you stand beneath the starry night sky, in anticipation of the lights, you and your partner can share the excitement and anticipation of this natural spectacle. Each sighting is unique, with the lights swirling and shifting across the heavens, evoking a sense of wonder and awe that is truly humbling.

Consider booking a tour with experienced guides who possess knowledge of the best viewing spots and can provide insights into the science and mythology of the Northern Lights. They can assist in capturing stunning photographs or even arrange for special experiences, such as a nighttime dog sledding adventure or a cozy night in a glass-roofed igloo.

While the primary focus is on the Northern Lights, the Arctic regions also offer a wealth of other activities to enhance your journey. Go on husky sledding adventures, explore ice caves, relax in natural hot springs, or take part in traditional indigenous ceremonies, immersing yourselves in the rich cultural tapestry of the region.

Remember that the Northern Lights are a natural phenomenon, and sightings are never guaranteed. However, even if luck isn’t on your side, exploring the Arctic landscapes by day, with their snow-capped peaks, frozen waterfalls, and pristine wilderness, is an experience in itself.

So, embark on a journey to witness the dance of the Northern Lights with your partner. Feel the magic in the air, embrace the tranquility of the polar night, and let the beauty of the Aurora Borealis create a romantic backdrop for a truly unforgettable adventure.

Embarking on a romantic vacation allows couples to create lasting memories, deepen their connection, and explore the world together. From exploring ancient cities and relaxing on tropical islands to hiking majestic mountains and road-tripping through scenic routes, there are countless opportunities to embark on extraordinary adventures that cater to every couple’s preferences.

Experiencing the local culture and cuisine, going on wildlife safaris, and indulging in hot springs are just a few examples of how couples can indulge their senses and foster a deeper appreciation for the beauty and diversity of the world.

Whether taking a romantic gondola ride, watching spectacular sunsets, or volunteering in local communities, these experiences provide opportunities for connection, growth, and a deeper understanding of one another and the world around us.

Train journeys and chasing the Northern Lights offer unique and magical experiences that will leave couples in awe. The allure of train travel and the captivating dance of the Northern Lights contribute to an unforgettable journey filled with wonder and enchantment.

As couples venture into these romantic vacations, it’s important to embrace spontaneity, savor the little moments, and create space for shared experiences. Whether it’s through adventure sports, wine tasting tours, exploring underwater wonders, or any other activity, building memories together is what truly matters.

So, pack your bags, open your hearts to new experiences, and embark on a romantic journey that will create cherished memories and strengthen the bond between you and your partner. The world is waiting to be explored, and with each adventure, love blossoms, and the beauty of the world becomes more vibrant and alive.

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27 Best Vacation Spots for Every Type of Couple

By Siobhan Reid

All products featured on Condé Nast Traveler are independently selected by our editors. However, when you buy something through our retail links, we may earn an affiliate commission.

The best vacation spots for couples are steeped in timeless romance. Whether it’s a cruise down the Nile or a saunter through sultry Buenos Aires, some places have simply mastered the art of seduction.   

Still, no vacation is one size fits all, and while some couples want to escape to the golden sands of the Caribbean, other people’s idea of romance might look like a getaway to South Africa’s wine country, or seeing the Northern Lights in Iceland.

So, how to  plan a romantic getaway tailor-made for two? “My favorite piece of advice is to leave room for spontaneity,” says luxury travel advisor Amina Dearmon, the founder and owner of  Perspectives Travel . “Our lives are already so over-scheduled, it’s important to have the freedom to do absolutely nothing and enjoy each other’s company, no matter which destination you choose.”  

For  domestic trips , she loves the wellness-focused resorts in Arizona like  Canyon Ranch Tucson  and the soon-to-reopen  Mii Amo . As for international destinations, she recommends the Caribbean islands of Anguilla, Dominica, and St. Lucia, as well as Venice, Italy. And if you’re going to splurge, Dearmon suggests balling out on your  accommodations (“It’s your home away from home”) and opting for extras like VIP meet and greets at the airport (“It’s a service that makes up a small percentage of your total trip cost, but it can make the biggest difference in your travel day.”).

To get a jumpstart on your planning, here are the 27 best vacation spots for couples, whether you crave a blissed-out spa getaway, a culinary vacation, or an adventure-packed itinerary. 

All listings featured in this story are independently selected by our editors. However, when you book something through our retail links, we may earn an affiliate commission.

Poolside at Cap Juluca, a Belmond Hotel, Anguilla

Ballotine de côte de veau au foie gras, mousseline de carotte des sables at La Co(o)orniche, Pyla-Sur-Mer

For stretching out on the sand

Cap Juluca, a Belmond Hotel, Anguilla

For beach bliss, cookbook author and “Top Chef” judge Gail Simmons recommends a romantic getaway to  Cap Juluca, a Belmond Hotel on Anguilla. “Cap Juluca’s beach is as pristine as it gets, with its long strip of powder-white sand, crystal clear water, and views of St. Maarten in the distance,” she says. “Plus, you never have to fight for a beach chair or show up super early, since there’s plenty of room and the staff always has an umbrella set up before you’ve even arrived.” When Simmons and her husband weren’t lounging on golden sands, they went paddleboarding, hit the tennis court, enjoyed massages at the spa, and even went on a snorkeling excursion. The highlight was all the quality time the pair spent together: “I loved how private and remote Cap Juluca felt,” says Simmons. “At times it felt like we were on our very own island.” 

La Co(o)orniche, Pyla-Sur-Mer

What could be more romantic than waking up to views of Europe’s biggest sand dune? At this Philippe Starck-designed  hotel in the seaside resort of Pyla-sur-Mer, couples enjoy panoramic views of Arcachon Bay and the mesmerizing Dune du Pilat from their beachy-chic guestrooms. Most visitors flock to the area to climb the magnificent dune, which rises 374 feet above sea level, but we won’t blame you for lazing on the sandy beach, breathing in the head-clearing scent of the pine forest.

Fernando De Noronha, Brazil

Brazil is spoiled for choice when it comes to beautiful beaches. But you’d be hard-pressed to find a place more blessed with natural beauty than Fernando de Noronho, a volcanic archipelago about 220 miles off the northeast coast of Brazil. Perhaps the dreamiest spot to spend the day with your significant other is Baia do Sancho, on the archipelago’s main island. The protected cove is the picture of earthly paradise, with forest-covered cliffs and azure waters home to colorful fish, dolphins, and sea turtles.  

Con Dao Archipelago, Vietnam

Looking for beachside seclusion? Skip Vietnam’s over-trammeled Phu Quoc and head to the isolated Con Dao archipelago instead. The remote islands are perfect for privacy-seekers: 83 percent of the archipelago is protected by the Con Dao National Park.  The most luxurious place to lay your head is the  Six Senses Con Dao , an eco-resort backed by the Lo Voi Mountains and located on a mile-long private beach. It’s worth peeling yourself away from your seaside villa for a guided hike along the coast to Dam Tre Bay, arguably the archipelago’s most photogenic beach, with forested hills and dramatic granite cliffs.

Tofino, Canada

For couples seeking rugged natural beauty and mist-shrouded coastal landscapes, it’s hard to top Tofino on Vancouver Island. The windswept town has no shortage of beaches primed for romance: Stroll hand in hand along the 10-mile Long Beach, enjoy a picnic with views of Clayoquot Sound at Tonquin Beach, or take a couple’s surf lesson at Cox Bay Beach. And while there are plenty of  beautiful Airbnbs available to rent, the oceanfront  Wickaninnish Inn —one of Canada’s most legendary hotels—epitomizes bucket-list romance. 

  Anse Source d’Argent Seychelles

There’s a reason Prince William and Kate Middleton honeymooned in the Seychelles. The Indian Ocean archipelago offers island romance par excellence, with luxurious resorts, off-the-grid adventures, and, of course, stunning beaches, the most famous being the Anse Source d’Argent on La Digue. It really doesn’t get more photogenic than this iconic stretch of sand, known for its shallow waters, imposing granite boulders, and swaying coconut palms. For a less-crowded—but no less picturesque option—hike three hours to Anse Marron, a remote beach on the southern tip of La Digue.  

The Retreat at Blue Lagoon, Iceland  

For spa treatments and meditative moments

The Retreat at Blue Lagoon, Iceland   

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There are few destination spas as singular as this 62-suite  hotel , built into an 800-year-old lava field on the southwest side of Iceland’s famous lagoon. It’s an otherworldly place to spend a few days, kicking back in the Scandi-chic guestrooms, soaking in the thermal hot springs, and indulging in a seven-course chef’s tasting menu at the lagoon-level restaurant. You and your partner will feel weightless as you float in the mineral-rich waters, looking out at the surreal moss-fringed landscape. If you’re lucky, the Northern Lights may even dance across the sky.

One&Only Mandarina, Mexico

Author and interior designer  Athena Calderone fell head over heels for  One&Only Mandarina , a destination resort on Riviera Nayarit’s wild Pacific Coast. “The spa was an absolute dream—the entire experience was luxurious and elegant,” she says, referencing an all-natural Tata Harper facial that left her glowing. She also loved the treehouse accommodations and the resort’s intimate dining options, like the open-air Alma restaurant helmed by French-Mexican chef Olivier Deboise. “The property is the perfect respite for couples,” she says.

Six Senses Fort Barwara, Rajasthan  

Give your loved one the royal treatment at this 14 th -century fort turned 48-suite  hotel . Commanding a hilltop perch above Barwara Lake, the thoughtfully restored complex channels the glamor of a bygone era. Splurge on the Raja Man Singh Pool Suite, which features a pool and garden enclosed within a turret and views of the Chauth ka Barwara Mandir Temple and the Aravali hills. There are daily wellness activities like sunrise yoga and traditional  puja  ceremonies at sunset. But for the ultimate indulgence, retreat to the 30,000-square-foot spa for stress-relieving shirodhara treatments and cutting-edge biohacking therapies.

Troutbeck, New York

At this sophisticated  country manor in New York’s Hudson Valley, it’s all about communing with nature while enjoying luxe amenities (deep-soaking tubs, fireplaces, and Frette linens). Robust wellness programming rounds out the itinerary, with activities like pilates classes in a high-ceilinged barn, private tennis lessons at the food of Oblong Mountain, and cycling adventures along the Harlem Valley Rail Trail. It’s the perfect weekend getaway for active couples—but the 38-room hotel is just as suited for relaxation. Stroll through the formal gardens, sign up for acupuncture treatments or massage, and if the weather’s nice, hang out by the swimming pool under the shade of sycamore trees. 

Capella Ubud, Bali  

This riverside  jungle camp in Bali’s lush Keliki Valley is a favorite destination among  honeymooners , but trust us, it’s far too special to only visit once in your lifetime. The setting is truly sublime, with 23 tented rooms spread over a terraced hillside flanked by paddy fields and dense rainforest. At the Auriga Spa , treatments draw on ancient Balinese and Hindu healing traditions and are accompanied by the sounds of the rainforest. More adventurous couples can go trekking through the Keliki rice paddies or sign up for a G.I Jungle outdoor training session.

A cruise down the Nile River 

For more than one adrenaline rush

Glacier treks and hair-raising hikes in Patagonia, Argentina

End-of-the-world landscapes and out-of-this-world adventures are all part of the experience in Argentinian Patagonia. Thrill-chasers should strap on their ice shoes and trek along the majestic Perito Moreno Glacier, a vast shield of ice whose surface is slightly larger than Buenos Aires, while wildlife lovers can glimpse giant Humpback whales, penguins, and sea lions in Ushuaia, South America’s southernmost city. For the ultimate bonding experience, attempt the 13-mile Laguna de Los Trek hike in El Chalten, which will bring you to the foot of the mighty Mount Fitz Roy. 

Wildlife sightings and outdoor adventures in Arenal Volcano National Park Costa Rica

The beauty of Costa Rica’s Arenal Volcano National Park is that you can do as much—or as little—as you want and still have a great time. This is especially true of couples who choose to bed down at the adults-only  Nayara Springs , a collection of luxurious private villas with plunge pools, gardens, outdoor showers, and show-stopping views of the Arenal Volcano. Off-property adventures include white-water rafting expeditions down the Sarapiqui River, visits to the 195-foot waterfall in the Arenal Hanging Bridges Park, and a photo tour of the lava fields.

A luxury train ‘safari’ through Namibia  

The best way to explore the vast, sun-baked desert of Namibia? By train, of course! On a nine-night safari journey with the ultra-glamorous  Rovos Rail , you and your partner will traverse some of the country’s most dramatic landscapes, including the Succulent Karoo desert, the red dunes of the Sossusvlei dry lake, and the Walvis Bay tidal lagoon. You’ll make plenty of stops along the way, so you can fully appreciate the wide-open views and snap photos of the wildlife. To travel in style, splurge on the wood-paneled Royal Suite sleeper coach.

Dude ranch adventures in Utah

Studies show that couples who actively try new things together are less likely to fall into a rut. Well, we don’t know about you, but we can’t think of a better relationship-building exercise than learning the “art of cowboying” at Utah’s  Lodge at Blue Sky, Auberge Resorts Collection . Set on a 3,500-acre private working ranch a half-hour from Salt Lake City, the hotel offers a range of equine adventures suited for amateurs and experienced riders alike—instruction in English riding, rides through the flower-covered meadows of the Wasatch Mountains, and even a breathwork session in the stable. 

A road trip along Australia’s Great Ocean Road  

The open road offers complete spontaneity and freedom of choice—the perfect option for couples who like to leave extra room for scenic detours. For the ultimate road trip itinerary, set your sights on Australia’s Great Ocean Road, a 150-mile stretch that winds around the country’s scenic southern coast. Says Stuart Rigg, owner of  Southern Crossings Australia : “The Great Ocean Road offers captivating landscapes, charming seaside towns, fabulous food and wine experiences, and great opportunities to get outdoors with the one you love.” While he notes that the route is best known for its iconic limestone rock formations like the iconic 12 Apostles, he notes that there are plenty of other photo ops and attractions along the way. Among them: towering Californian Redwoods in Otway National Park, the Kennett River Koala Walk, and the highly-award Wickens restaurant at the Royal Mail Hotel. 

A cruise down the Nile River  

Egypt’s Nile River is so mythical, even Cole Porter crooned about it in his love songs. To cruise it in style, opt for a six-day itinerary with  Nour el Nil on a traditional flat-bottomed  dahabiya  sailboat. As you journey from Esna to Aswan, you and your sweetheart will float past reed-covered banks, the dunes of the Sahara, and ancient monuments like the Gebel El Silsila Temple that other large ships can’t reach. 

A heirloom and beetroot variation at Odette 

For unforgettable meals (and wine lists)

Napa Valley, California   

Wine tastings, hot-air balloon rides, pilgrimage-worthy dining, chic boutique hotels. No place does romance quite like Napa Valley. And while you could easily spend weeks discovering the region’s wineries and restaurants, there are a few spots that couples shouldn’t miss. At Sullivan Rutherford Estate, enjoy a private Cab Sauv tasting and tour of the sculpted gardens before settling in for a nine-course tasting menu at Thomas Keller’s lauded  French Laundry. Or swing by Gott’s Roadside to pick up a milkshake and old-fashioned burger before catching the sunset at Skyline Wilderness Park. The recently reborn  Poetry Inn is probably the region’s most swoon-worthy stay, with just five rooms boasting vineyard views, sweeping private terraces, and soaking tubs.

The Lake District, England

The English Lake District has long attracted outdoor enthusiasts who come to scale the U.K.’s highest peaks But in recent decades, the verdant region in northwest England has emerged as a gastronomic hotspot. It all started in 2002 when British chef Simon Rogan—one of the pioneers of the farm-to-table movement—opened his now-famous  L’Enclume in the quaint village of Cartmel. The three-starred Michelin restaurant is known for putting inventive spins on classic dishes using organic produce from Rogan’s 12-acre farm. Since then, plenty of other high-end restaurants have set up shop, like the acclaimed British-Asian  Blackbull  in Sedbergh and the  Old Stamp House in Ambleside. Now the region has become somewhat of a food pilgrimage, popular among couples craving haute cuisine and gastronomic-centered hotels like  Linthwaite House and  Our Rooms by L’Enclume . 

Emilia Romagna, Italy

Every corner of Italy has something to offer from a culinary perspective. But only the northern Italian region of Emilia-Romagna can lay claim to 44 DOP food products including Parmigiano Reggiano, tortellini, and ragù bolognese. Begin your eatathon in the region’s capital, Bologna. With only one Michelin-starred restaurant in the entire city (yes, really), couples will have to do their own research, strolling the city’s grand porticos in search of the best osteria and trattorias. From Bologna, the options are limitless: visit family-run vinegar producers in Modena; try Culatello, the most prestigious of all cured meats, in Parma; and develop a taste for Lambrusco in Reggio Emilia. And for a no-expenses-spared date night out, there’s only one place to know about: Massimo Bottura’s renowned  Osteria Francescana in Modena. 

As a melting pot of Chinese, Malay, and Indian cultures, Singapore is one of the world’s great food cities—and a real feast for travelers hungry for food  and  culture. And sure, there are temples of fine dining galore (we’re looking at you,  Odette ), but some of the city’s best bites come from unassuming local vendors at the city’s legendary hawker centers. At the Chinatown Complex Food Centre, sample everything from fragrant laksa soup and Chinese steamed buns to piping-hot clay pot rice. For date night, make reservations at the renowned  Atlas Bar , a vaulted space with Art Deco flair and the world’s largest gin collection. Even the city’s Jewel Changi Airport is a culinary wonderland with 100+ eateries, allowing couples to make the most of their every meal in the food-obsessed city. 

South Africa’s Wine Country  

From stunning Cape Dutch-style architecture and world-class restaurants to luxurious wine country hotels, South Africa’s wine country is truly suited to all tastes. After checking in at  Delaire Graff Estates , a boutique hotel and winery near Stellenbosch, toast to your romantic getaway with a bottle of méthode cap classique (South Africa’s version of Champagne). You’ll want to set aside a few days to go wine tasting in Stellenbosch and the neighboring regions Franschhoek, Paarl, and Constantia, where the grape to seek out is Pinotage, South Africa’s flagship variety. For a vacation memory that’ll age like fine wine, splurge on the tasting menu at  Chefs Warehouse at Beau Constantia .  

For art and culture around every corner

It’s no secret that the French capital is a cultural powerhouse. But it’s not always easy to escape the crowds and enjoy the cultural treasures for yourself—or is it? According to the uber-stylish Parisian hoteliers Anouk and Louis Solanet of  Orso hotel group, there are plenty of lesser-known gems even in popular neighborhoods like Montmartre (you just need to know where to look). One of the couple’s favorite spots is the Musée de la vie Romantique , a literary museum situated at the base of Montmartre and set within the former house of Dutch painter Ary Scheffer. “We love to sit in silence in the hidden garden, which smells of roses and lilacs,” says Anouk. Afterwards, they recommend grabbing a drink at  Hotel Rochechouart ’s rooftop, which offers dead-on views of the Sacré Coeur. On the Left Bank, the couple loves strolling through the Jardin du Luxembourg and on to Rue Notre-Dame-des-Champs, one of the streets that inspired Woody Allen’s  Midnight in Paris,  and finally to the Giacometti Foundation—“A jewel of Parisian museum,” says Louis—which is dedicated to the life and work of the famous Swiss sculptor Alberto Giacometti. 

Lausanne, Switzerland

Switzerland’s fourth-largest city is straight out of a fairytale, with a medieval Old Town and vertiginous streets that rise above the shimmering waters of Lake Geneva. It’s also one of the country’s most underrated arts hubs, thanks to the recent opening of  Platforme 10 , a striking new art district home to three of the city’s major art museums. For couples who prefer to see art en plein air, go on a cultural scavenger hunt to locate 82 works scattered throughout the hillside city (don’t miss Clelia Bettua’s sculptural weather vane at the Port of Ouchy). To cap off a perfect day, catch a show at the newly modernized Théâre de Vidy before retiring at the  Hôtel Royal Savoy Lausanne , a grand castle-like property that wouldn’t be out of place in a Wes Anderson flick. The hotel has a sublime spa, a rooftop terrace overlooking the lake, and an unbeatable location near all the top cultural spots. 

Buenos Aires

Is there a city sexier than Buenos Aires? There’s something sultry about Argentina’s capital, from its dimly-lit tango bars and balmy weather to its heady mix of South American and European influences. After catching a tango performance at the city’s best-known milonga, La Catedral , continue your cultural immersion at the Teatro Colon —one of the world’s most beautiful opera houses—where Igor Stravinsky has performed, Rudolph Nureyev has danced, and Maria Callas has sung. From there, it’s a short walk to  El Ateneo Grand Splendid , a bookstore occupying a former theater and featuring century-old ceiling frescos. But to really feel the spirit of the city, couples should spend an afternoon in the colorful La Boca neighborhood, where there are vibrant murals, live music, and views of the Riachuelo River.

Venice, Italy  

“Venice is pure magic,” says Amina Dearmon of Perspectives Travel. “I love being able to wander the streets, stop at an osteria for an Aperol Spritz, and watch the sunset from the Accademia Bridge.” Like so many Italian cities, Venice is like an open-air museum, brimming with art and culture at every turn. Its narrow streets and atmospheric squares are packed with heavy-hitting institutions, too, like the  Peggy Guggenheim Collection , the  Doge’s Palace , and the  Palazzo Ca’ Pesaro . First-time visitors shouldn’t miss a side trip to Murano, the second-largest island in the Venetian lagoon, to learn about its long tradition of glassmaking at the  Venice Glass Museum . 

The former imperial capital of Japan is home to more than a dozen UNESCO World Heritage Sites and some 2,000 Buddhist temples and Shinto shrines. In any other city, the sheer volume of culture would be head-spinning. But in Kyoto, it’s a pleasure to stroll around the peaceful temple gardens, traditional teahouses, and ancient storefronts, feeling transported to an earlier time. Top landmarks include the famous orange torii gates at the Fushimi Inari shrine, the celebrated Kiyomizu Temple, and the impressive Nijo Castle. If the budget allows, spend the night at the new  Aman Kyoto , a sanctuary-like retreat set on 80 acres of hilly woodland in the north of the city, a stone’s throw from the golden Kinkaku-ji Temple.  

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There’s no one-size-fits-all approach to romance — some sweethearts favor an adventure-packed itinerary in the woods, while others fancy a week-long jaunt in a big city known for its culture and culinary scene. Some desire blissed-out days on the beach, and others crave the countryside, or afternoons on a private island, or strolls down cobblestone streets in a charming small town, or, well, you get the idea. But there’s one thing we can all agree on: Whether you’re in a budding relationship or a deep, years-long marriage, a romantic getaway is a great way to reconnect with your loved one. After all, nothing strengthens a bond quite like navigating a new place together and building everlasting memories.

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46 Bucket List Trips For Couples: Romantic Destinations

Are you ready to go on a couples trip or want to dream about one?  Do you want to create the ultimate bucket list trips for couples?

Awesome! There are so many great destinations to consider. 

In this post, we will explore over 46 romantic couples vacations to add to your travel bucket list for couples. These destinations are all over the world.

Each of these destinations are romantic ideas couples will love!  All of these offer a fun atmosphere for a perfect couples trip.

Let's explore the ultimate bucket list for couples of the best romantic getaways couples will love!

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1. Niagara Falls Canada/New York

Niagara Falls is the perfect destination for a romantic couples’ trip. It is one of the seven natural  wonders of the world and is located in both Canada and the United States. It is made up of three  spectacular waterfalls that are visible from both countries.

Romantic Things to Do at Niagara Falls

While visiting Niagara Falls there are numerous sites to see and do including riding a boat to the base of  the falls and walking behind the falls. Both of these activities will cover you in mist and show you the  enormous power behind these thunderous waterfalls.

After witnessing the fury of Niagara, you and your significant other can stroll along the shops and tourist  sites on Clifton boulevard, visit the butterfly museum or participate in wine tastings on a tour of the best  Niagara Falls Wineries .

The best way to plan a romantic vacation to Niagara Falls is to make sure you book a Falls view room   with a view overlooking the impressive falls.

From the window in your cozy suite, you will have a perfect  view of the multi-colored illumination of the falls every night. If you are traveling during a holiday, there  will be a double bonus of a fireworks display.

Niagara Falls is the perfect couples bucket list destination. 

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2. Fredericksburg Texas

Fredericksburg is a romantic hidden gem located in the Texas hill country. Couples will enjoy all the charm of this historic small southern town while exploring boutique shops & museums, getting into nature, and visiting one of the best wine regions in the country!  It is a destination that needs to be on your travel bucket list for couples. 

Romantic Things to Do in Fredericksburg

In Fredericksburg, you’ll find some of the most quaint & romantic places to stay in all of Texas. There are so many bed & breakfasts, as well as other adorable lodging options that cater to couples and strive to make your stay exceptional!

No visit to Fredericksburg is complete without a hike up Enchanted Rock – a giant pink granite dome with amazing views that has attracted visitors for ages. It’s a lovely spot for a picnic or to watch the sunset hand-in-hand.

Top off your stay in Fredericksburg by visiting a few of the over 50 wineries in the county! Take a tour to several area wineries, visit a tasting room or two, or just grab a glass while shopping downtown (you are welcome to take it with you) .

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3. Rocky Mountain National Park

Hikes at rocky mountain national park, scenic drives, 4. sedona arizona.

Sedona, Arizona is the perfect bucket list trip for couples. While the town is known for its towering red rock formations and natural wellness culture, there’s so much more for couples to enjoy in Sedona . 

Romantic Things to Do in Sedona

For a romantic vacation, couples can book a room in one of Sedona’s many upscale resorts. Enchantment, L’Auberge, and Amara are all great options and each offers incredible views of the surrounding red rock formations. 

For couples who enjoy spending time together outdoors, Sedona has many hiking trails leading up to or around the many red rock formations. There are also mountain biking trails for couples who prefer to explore on two wheels. 

Wine Tasting

In the afternoon, couples can enjoy wine tasting at one of Sedona’s many wineries or wine tasting rooms.  There are several in and around town, along with a dozen or so more a short drive away along the Verde Valley Wine Trail. 

Restaurants

In the evenings, there are many restaurants where couples can enjoy a romantic dinner together. Dahl and Di Luca Ristorante and Rene at Tlaquepaque are both excellent choices. 

To end the day, couples can pack up a few blankets and head outside to enjoy Sedona’s spectacular night sky.

Sedona is one of the most romantic getaways in the US.

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5. Big Sur California

Offering pristine beaches, picturesque waterfalls, soaring cliffs, and towering redwoods, Big Sur is a romantic paradise.  It is one of the best couple bucket list ideas for vacation.  

Romantic Things to Do at Big Sur California

Couples can enjoy hiking, camping, glamping, biking , wine tasting, scenic coastal drives , and wildlife viewing.

Whether you prefer posh, 5-star villa accommodations, mid-range cabins, or more rustic tent camping, Big Sur has it all. Couples can roast marshmallows by the campfire or dine under the stars at Nepenthe's clifftop  restaurant.  

Romantic Drive

Big Sur is known as the longest and most scenic stretch of undeveloped coastline in the contiguous United States. It’s impossible to drive more than a few minutes without running into a scenic pull-off where visitors can capture photos of the magnificent coastline, playful elephant seals, and the occasional California condor. 

Culinary Experiences

Foodies will fall in love with the annual Big Sur Food and Wine Festival. This yearly event held in November brings together some of the best chefs, wineries, and sommeliers for a weekend of tastings set amongst Big Sur’s stunning natural surroundings. 

Whether you’re looking to hike a mountain, find your new favorite wine, or simply escape the stress of the world, you’re sure to find your inner Zen in Big Sur. 

This is one of the best bucket list vacations for couples! 

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6. Punta Cana Dominican Republic

Punta Cana in the Dominican Republic is a perfect destination for your couple's bucket list. It’s an amazing choice for couples as it offers a wide selection of adults-only hotels, gorgeous beaches, and fun-filled activities.

Furthermore, it is just a quick 2.5-4-hour flight from most locations in the US. 

Accommodations 

When picking your accommodation , Punta Cana offers plenty of choices for couples and honeymooners. There are more than a dozen adults-only hotels, among them Royalton CHIC, Secrets Royal Beach, Sanctuary Cap Cana, or Excellence El Carmen.

Some adults-only all-inclusive resorts in Punta Cana such as breathless Punta Cana offer a more social vibe with lots of activities and entertainment, while other hotels such as Iberostar Grand focus more on the romantic and elegant side of the stay.

Things to Do in Punta Cana 

Concerning activities, you can enjoy great experiences as a couple when heading on a ziplining tour , a catamaran excursion, or a dune buggy adventure .

If you’d like to explore some of the beauties, treasures, and heritages the Dominican Republic has to offer, a tour to Isla Saona, a day trip to Santo Domingo, or a guided tour through the Los Haitises National Park are the best recommendations for long-lasting memories and unique photo experiences for you as a couple.

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7. Holbox Mexico

Holbox is a little island located in Yucatan, Mexico. It’s known for its dreamy white-sand beaches, crystal clear waters, and peaceful atmosphere. Holbox needs to be added to your travel bucket list for couples. 

If you’re looking for a romantic spot this is the place to go. One of the best things to do in Holbox is to swim with whale sharks. They’re peaceful animals and don’t pay much attention to humans but the experience is absolutely incredible. You might even be able to spot giant manta rays as well.

Romantic Things to Do in Holbox 

Of course, if you’re not up for such an adventurous activity there are plenty of other things to do on the island. Spend the day by Playa Cocos, one of the best beaches on the island, or have a sunset cocktail in town.

The main way of getting around in Holbox is by golf cart as there are no cars allowed. Renting one costs around $40 per day and is incredibly fun so definitely add Holbox to your romantic bucket list.

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Aruba is well known for its never-ending shades of turquoise water and soft white sand beaches. A frequent spot for honeymooners and couples, it is easy to understand why this Caribbean island is a go-to location and needs to be on your travel bucket list for couples. 

The ocean is pristine and the weather sits comfortably in the ’80s all year round. Also, it is conveniently located outside of the hurricane belt that many other Caribbean islands struggle with.

Things to Do in Aruba 

Though couples can easily spend the days lounging on the beach, Aruba features so much more than those dreamy blue waters. The famous pink flamingos from  Flamingo Beach   create a memorable experience for couples. This private island does fill up though so do plan ahead!  

Lava rocks cover the landscape on the rugged western coast, and clusters of green cacti climb up dry mountainside trails in the National Park. Adventurous couples can spend a day hiking the trails. 

The island is only 20 miles long and 6 miles wide, so couples will be able to see a lot of it, even in a short amount of time. I highly recommend renting a 4WD vehicle in order to visit far-reaching corners of the island at your own pace, or at the very least hire a guide for a day of exploration.

Aruba is a unique and ruggedly beautiful island – this couple's bucket list island will be unforgettable!

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Curacao is the ultimate bucket list trip for couples!  for island-loving couples. Between beautiful beaches, breathtaking views, and numerous twosome-friendly excursions, there is no shortage of activities to keep partners occupied in this Dutch Caribbean paradise.

Romantic Things to Do on Curacao

Those looking to soak up the sun and bathe in crystal blue waters will love beach hopping the island’s network of over 30 beaches, from gorgeous Grote Knip to beautiful Blue Bay, to lively Mambo Beach. Additionally, couples who seek more exclusivity will love escaping to secluded Playa Gipy, a hidden beach gem located off the stunning Watamula Hole attraction on the northern end of the island.

Alternatively, adventurous duos will find plenty of adrenaline-pumping satisfaction on Curacao , whether plunging the ocean depths with a refreshing couples dive or climbing the highest heights with an invigorating hike up Christoffel Mountain.

As the sun sets, pairs can enjoy each other’s company while watching the sky perform from secluded Santa Martha Bay View Lookout Point, one of the most romantic viewpoints on the island.

Culinary Experience

Afterward, couples can enjoy a table for two at Fort Nassau, one of the island’s top restaurants. With delectable Caribbean cuisine and breathtaking panoramic views over Curacao, this former-fort-turned-restaurant offers partners a once-in-a-lifetime experience.

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10. Venice Italy

Romantic things to do in venice, 11. ischia italy.

Is there anywhere more romantic than Italy? How about an island in Italy? How about a beautiful island in Italy, full of gardens and with 100 thermal springs to relax in? That island is Ischia, and you should add it to your couples bucket list right now.

Ischia is a small island in the Bay of Naples, the same gorgeous part of Italy where you can visit Capri, Sorrento, and the Amalfi Coast. Ischia is around 6 miles wide but packed with fun things to do .

Romantic Things To do In Ischia

Visit its castle which sits high on a dramatic rock and has incredible views across the island and the ocean. Wander hand in hand on one of the world-famous gardens and watch sunsets that rival those in Ibiza. Go to stunning, car-free Sant’Angelo, a tiny fishing village with beautiful beaches and a laid-back vibe.

Above all, make sure you try out one of Ischia’s many thermal spas; the island’s central peak is a volcano and hot, mineral-rich waters pop up all over the island. For a romantic day out, visit the Negombo thermal spa, where you can relax in beautiful gardens in between bathing in one of 14 therapeutic pools and water experiences.

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The archipelago of Malta is one of the best European destinations to add to your romantic bucket list for couples. Miles of pristine, unspoiled coastline, rich historical significance, and fascinating old cities create the perfect spot to escape as a couple. 

The main island of Malta is perhaps best known for being home to the EU’s smallest capital city, Valletta. The city was granted UNESCO World Heritage status in 1980, thanks largely in part to the unique architecture that can be seen all over the city. Wooden balconies adorn many of the buildings inside the old city walls of Valletta, giving you a sense of stepping back in time. 

Romantic Things to Do in Malta

For a romantic evening stroll in Valletta , hop on board the 3-cities ferry and wander around the Marina at Birgu. Luxurious mega-yachts and fancy restaurants ensure you will have a lovely evening by the water.  

Malta is a collection of islands, and paying a visit to Gozo, one of the smaller islands, is a great way for couples to spend their time in Malta. One of the best things to do in Gozo is to take a private boat cruise to the spectacular Blue Lagoon – easily one of the most beautiful places in Malta.

Malta is a great addition to your bucket list vacations for couples list.

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13. Bruges Belgium

Romantic thing to do in bruges.

Some great  activities to do in Bruges  include climbing the belfry to see the city from above, taking a boat tour on the canals, and going to a beer tasting in a local brewery like Halve Maan or a local beer cellar.

Plus, because of its rich history, you can definitely not miss one of Bruges’ museums like Groening museum or the funnier ones like the chocolate or fries museum. The truly romantic souls can take a guided tour by horse and carriage.

14. Southern Germany

Neuschwanstein Castle in Southern Germany is the perfect destination for your travel bucket list for couples.

King Ludwig II of Bavaria, who built the castle in the late 1800s, was an enormous fan of anything romantic, and it shows. From the castle's exterior, with its white towers and grand entrance, to the swan room inside the castle – visiting the building is a must-do item on any couple's bucket list.

Romantic Things to Do Near Neuschwanstein Castle

You can find Neuschwanstein Castle at the edge of the Alps, and horsecarts can take you up from the nearby village. Make sure to stop by St Mary's Bridge, which is the best viewpoint for admiring the castle.

If you want to visit the interior of Neuschwanstein Castle, you need to join a guided tour. Tickets book out weeks in advance, so try to reserve them early!

After visiting the castle, you can explore nearby Hohenschwangau village. Here, you can find many traditional German buildings as well as the castle of Hohenschwangau. King Ludwig II used to spend his childhood summers here, and this is where he got the inspiration to build Neuschwanstein Castle.

15. Amsterdam

One of the best couples' bucket list destinations is Amsterdam. That's because Amsterdam is one of the most romantic cities in Europe .

Romantic Things to Do in Amsterdam

Amsterdam is famous for its gorgeous canals, and it is great to go for a romantic walk along the canals together. The picturesque canal houses are lovely to see together.

Furthermore, there are lots of activities that are great for couples. For example, you can rent a boat and experience the city from the water. Another one of the most romantic experiences is to wander around the city in the evening. The illuminated streets of Amsterdam are lovely to see.

Date Nights

There are great places to have a drink in Amsterdam. Two of these are Café de Jaren and Winkel 43. The latter of which is also famous for its delicious Apple Pie.

Also, an exciting couples activity in Amsterdam is swinging with a view at the A'DAM Tower. W hat makes this a great city for couples as well is that there are many places where you can see a live theater, a movie, or a concert, and have a great date night. For example, you can see a movie at the Tuschinski cinema.

Amsterdam is perfect to put on your couple's bucket list. 

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16. Seville Spain

While the name Seville is plenty famous (as well as its Spanish form, Sevilla), most people still know surprisingly few details about this classic old city in the Andalusia province of southern Spain.

Madrid and Barcelona get most of the acclaim (and deservedly so) but Seville is arguably the best of the Spanish bunch. It is the perfect place for a couples getaway with its walkable center, fabulous architecture, and many romantic alleys lined with outstanding wine and tapas restaurants.

Things to Do in Seville

There are many  things to do in Seville  that will keep you busy for at least 3 or 4 days, more if you want to spend time in all the different museums.

Seville’s compact old town is more manageable and less touristy than those in Spain’s big-ticket cities. The Royal Alcázar deserves to be in the same conversation as the more famous Alhambra in Granada . The Seville Cathedral is immense and awe-inspiring, as is the Plaza de España, possibly the most beautiful square in Spain (and that’s saying something).

And, of course, no couple's visit to Seville would be complete without a stop at Plaza Alfaro where you can visit the beautiful balcony that inspired the famous scene from Romeo and Juliet.

Seville is a romantic bucket list idea, couples will love! 

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17. Barcelona Spain

Barcelona is the perfect destination for a couple’s getaway, and here is why. Many cities in Spain have amazing food, culture, and fun people…but Barcelona also combined this with stunningly beautiful architecture, rooftop terraces, and of course the wonderful sandy beaches.

Romantic Things to Do in Barcelona 

  If this is your first time visiting, then you should do some exploring. Visit the house of Gaudi, gaze at La Sagrada Familia , and go up the stairs of another Gaudi building, Park Guell, to see the city from above. After that, take a stroll by the beach and maybe take a swim if the weather permits it. The evenings you can fill with the strolls through the narrow romantic streets, and perhaps a visit to the local tapas place.

  Barcelona is very much famous for its rooftops, so you can also have a sunset drink at the nearby terrace. Not to mention that the cotton candy sunsets in Barcelona never disappoint! 

Barcelona makes the cut for an ultimate bucket list for couples destination! 

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18. Portugal

A romantic trip to add to your couples travel bucket list is Lisbon and Central Portugal. From palaces and castles to fantastic food to unique tours, there are plenty of fun things to do and see here.

Romantic Things to Do In Lisbon

Start by spending   a couple of days in Lisbon , the incredible Portuguese capital that definitely offers some romantic things to do together.

Apart from seeing historical landmarks like the Belem Tower and Sao Jorge Castle, you can take a sunset sailing tour on the Tagus River, enjoy a delicious dinner accompanied by a traditional Fado show, book a Portuguese wine tasting tour , wander through the colorful neighborhoods of the city, and much more.

Day Trip from Lisbon

Now you can explore Lisbon's surroundings by car or by taking day trips. Visit the UNESCO-listed city of Sintra and its fairytale palaces, roam the enchanting streets of the medieval village of Obidos and stay in its castle, watch the sunset at Cabo da Roca (Europe's westernmost point), and spend a night at the Bussaco Palace (an old convent turned into a beautiful hotel).

That's just the tip of the iceberg because there's so much more to discover in this area of the country. It is a perfect romantic bucket list destination! 

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19. Paris France

What more iconic couple destination than Paris, the “City of Love?”  It has it all: the stunning architecture, the Seine River and boats sailing at a slow pace, the delicious food, the charming hotels… and the French “je ne sais quoi”.

Just strolling through town, exploring the old streets, discovering a charming shop, or sitting down at a café to people-watch, is enough to make you smile.

Romantic Things to Do in Paris

But if you are looking for a more active Couple's romantic Paris itinerary , it should include:

• A climb up the iconic Eiffel Tower.
• A kiss at the Trocadéro, with the view over the Seine River and towards the tower.
• A horse carriage ride throughout town to travel back in time
• A walk up through the Montmartre Hill to watch the sunset at the Sacré-Coeur.
• And a diner river cruise to admire Paris at night, with the lights on the magnificent palaces and cathedral.

Let the charm operate!  These activities in Paris are perfect things to put on a bucket list for couples! 

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20. Nice France

Nice, in the French Riviera, is a great European destination for couples. The weather in Nice is always good (also in wintertime), the city is home to some of the  best beaches on the French Riviera , the cultural offer is excellent, and the food is amazing.

Nice is very easy to reach by plane or train. Once there, dedicate two or three days to visit the city, followed by a road trip to explore other places in the French Riviera. Alternatively, you can use the city as a base camp to visit nearby places like Monaco, Menton, Éze Village, or Villefranche-sur-Mer on day trips from Nice.

Romantic Things to Do in Nice

The list of best romantic things to do in Nice includes the Old Port, getting lost in the Old Town, with its magnificent baroque architecture, a stroll through the famous Promenade des Anglais, and watching the sun go down over the Bay of Angels from Castle Hill.

Nice is an amazing option for your couple's bucket list ideas.

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21. Budapest Hungary

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One of the most beautiful destinations for couples is definitely the romantic town of  Rovinj in Croatia ! During a trip, you and your partner can expect many wonderful highlights!

Romantic Things to Do in Rovinj

Worth seeing and extremely romantic is the historic old town where the magnificent stone alleys and colorful squares invite to linger. Unique is also the picturesque location directly on the sea and on a peninsula, where the colorful townhouses from the sea up to the city hill close together and conjure up the breathtaking scenery.

A vacation in Rovinj is optimal to spend a few happy days together. There is a lot to experience here because in the city center inspire many historical attractions and also amazing museums!

Fabulous is also the culinary offer, where you can enjoy in one of the great cafes or the fabulous restaurants a particularly romantic ambiance. A must-see, however, is the Church of St. Euphemia, the landmark of Rovinj, which is located on the city hill and from where you can admire magnificent sunsets.

Another highlight are the countless beautiful bays in Rovinj, which provide a wonderful beach feeling. Perfect if you want to combine your romantic trip with sightseeing and swimming in the sea.

Romantic Day Trips

But also the region around Rovinj is worth seeing and is just perfect for romantic day trips! Really beautiful and perfect for relaxed hours for two is the Cape Kamenjak with the picturesque natural landscapes or the cute mountain village Motovun!

Croatia is a perfect romantic bucket list destination. 

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23. Cappadocia Turkey

In the heartland of Turkey, hides a treasure known as Cappadocia. From fair chimneys to enchanting valleys, there's something charming about the ancient region that attracts millions of couples each year.

The popular town of Göreme is where the majority of couples tend to head, and for good reason. It's home to some of the most dreamy cave hotels in the world.  Imagine being tucked away with your significant other underground, surrounded by decrepit ruins.

Things to Do in Cappadocia

For couples, the breathtaking hot air balloon experience is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to romantic things to do in Cappadocia.

Not a fan of heights? No need to worry. Take a walk up to the stunning Rose Valley to catch the sunset with your lover. 

A trip to Cappadocia wouldn't be complete without a photoshoot with some of Turkey's most stunning landscapes in the background. Or take a walk to Göreme's famous carpet shop, Gallery Ikman, where you can take an unlimited number of photos while laying down on some fabulous, colorful  rugs for as little as ten euros.

Can you really beat this romantic couple's bucket list location? 

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24. Costa Rica

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Rio de Janeiro is one of the most romantic cities on earth! There are a lot of ways to have fun in the city, from beaches to sightseeing, and many   good reasons to visit Rio . 

Things to Do in Rio de Janeiro

The city has a unique appeal for couples who want something different from their usual weekend plans. Two activities that couples will love are visiting Parque Lage and Christ The Redeemer.

Christ The Redeemer is one of the New Seven Wonders of the world and offers unbelievable views of the city. To get there, you can take a scenic train that passes through the Atlantic Forest.

Parque Lage, on the other hand,  is an amazing hill located right above the world-famous Jardim Botanico. Here you can even see Christ the Redeemer while having your romantic dinner at sunset 

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26. Salento Colombia

When you’re visiting Colombia as a couple, one destination you cannot miss is Salento. This charming and colorful town is a romantic couple's bucket list destination on its own. The sight of the green lush hills surrounding the pueblo  are to die for!

Romantic Things to Do in Salento

However, one of the most romantic   things to do in Salento   is visiting the  Valle de Cocora , a valley with a large amount of huge palm trees (in fact, these palm trees are the highest in the world, they can grow up to about 60m tall).

If you’re a hiking fan, take the longer walk and admire the palm trees at the end. If you prefer the short route, head straight away to the valley and have some fun taking the most charming couple pics with the trees.

The Cocora Valley is not the only sight in Salento. You can go shopping for  artesanías in the colorful main street, walk up the stairs at the end of said street to watch the sunset together, or learn more about coffee in one of the charming small coffee farms. The only thing you’ll be sad about is that you have to leave this place again!

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27. Cartagena Colombia

Cartagena, Colombia has to be counted among your couple's bucket list destinations.  A jewel of the Spanish empire, this colonial town is full of history, romance, and charm. 

Romantic Things to Do in Cartagena

Walking the charming streets of the Old Town and its flowered covered balconies, exploring the colorful Getsemaní neighborhood, and watching the beautiful sunset over the Caribbean from atop the still intact colonial wall are some of the most romantic things to do in Cartagena.

Of the many   things to do in Cartagena , some more you’re sure to enjoy with your significant other include getting some sun in the nearby Culinary Experience

For a special romantic treat, reserve one of the tables overlooking the bay at Club de Pesca, where you’ll find terrific fresh seafood along with an amazing view.  Finally, be sure to take in the amazing view from the rooftop bar atop Hotel Movich.

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28. Hamantay Lake Peru

Peru is the perfect couples bucket list destination as well as for families or solo travelers alike. The country is steeped in culture , has been named one of the world’s top culinary destinations, and has a dizzying variety of  landscapes to explore, from beaches to mountains to jungle.

Romantic Things to Do in Peru

For couples looking for a romantic getaway in Peru, one thing not to miss is a hike to Humantay Lake .   This short hour-and-45-minute hike can be done as a day trip from Cusco, or as part of a longer trek  along the Salkantay trail.

While short, the hike is fairly strenuous given the altitude and the steep climb, but the effort is worth it!

Breathtaking crystalline turquoise waters greet you, surrounded by majestic mountain peaks. If you time  your visit well, you might get this natural wonder all to yourselves!

Enjoy a quiet moment of reflection with your significant other as you sit by the shores of this stunning alpine lake and reconnect, away from the chaos of modern life.

Humantay Lake

Humantay Lake can be visited on your own, or you can arrange a tour with a travel agency. Going with an agency means you leave the details to someone else so you can take in the amazing views, stress-free, and focus on enjoying each other’s company. Humantay Lake is a romantic bucket list must. 

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29. Colca Canyon Peru

One of the most impressive travel destination bucket list ideas for couples is without a doubt Colca Canyon in Peru, the second deepest canyon in the world!

You can easily go there from Arequipa on a day tour to see the Cruz del Condor, where you are met by the dramatic canyon walls and a large chance of having condors circling above your head. One of the world’s biggest bird species.

Romantic Things to Do at Colca Canyon

For the adventurous couples, Colca Canyon also hosts one of the most epic   hikes in Peru   taking you all the way to the bottom of the canyon where you can relax in the pool at a romantic oasis, enjoy a lovely dinner under a trillion stars, and cuddle up in the bungalow, before climbing up again the next morning. Whether you decide to go on a day tour or on a two-day trek, Colca Canyon will be a memory of a lifetime to look back on and something to tell your grandchildren about in the future.

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30. Kyoto Japan

Kyoto is the best city in Japan to visit for traditional places to visit and it has some of the best-preserved temples and Japanese gardens in the country, which make for a peacefully romantic bucket list destination for couples. 

Romantic Things to Do in Kyoto Japan

Wandering around the gardens and temples finding peace and serenity amongst the ancient places together you can then head out at night for some fun as Kyoto has its modern side as well.

At night you could visit the old geisha district, stroll down old romantic lanes looking for some traditional Japanese food, and then enjoy a few drinks in one of the many lively small bars scattered around.

There are some excellent day trips from Kyoto as well and around a 2-hour train ride from away is the Kinosaki Onsen town which is one of the best places to go for a   Japanese onsen . Having a private onsen bath in a traditional Japanese ryokan (inn) is one of the most romantic things to do in Japan.

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32. bora bora tahiti french polynesia.

Close your eyes and imagine yourself waking up next to your significant other in a private overwater bungalow surrounded by a shimmering turquoise lagoon. You can find this breathtaking and unforgettable view in Bora Bora, one of the most popular and sought-after destinations for couples and honeymooners to travel.

You will stay and live in luxury when  visiting Bora Bora . Each of the lavish resorts are located on a motu, which is a small private island. Its isolated location provides a secluded exclusivity that keeps tourist numbers relatively low.

Romantic Things to Do in Bora Bora

There are many adventurous and fun activities for you to plan for your Bora Bora vacation. Spend the day relaxing in your overwater bungalow or at the beach with a cocktail in hand.  Consider an exciting excursion out on the lagoon snorkeling with reef sharks and stingrays.

Plan a magical sunset sail and romantic dinner for two on the Main Island. The spectacular views of the lagoon and the delicious French Polynesian food will be the perfect ending to your Bora Bora vacation.

Bora Bora is a trip of a lifetime! There is no better way to share that experience than with your significant other. Bora Bora’s jaw-dropping landscapes, romantic private bungalows, and fun water activities offer everything you could desire for an epic couples vacation.  

Bora Bora is the dream location for anyone planning a travel bucket list for couples.

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33. Maldives

Picture calm, turquoise crystal-clear waters, white sands, and ultimate relaxation. You’re dreaming of the Maldives.

Made up of several stunning atolls in the Indian Ocean, the Maldives provides so many slices of paradise it is difficult to know where to start. One thing is for sure is that each resort will provide a luxurious escape from reality and a romantic destination for couples.

When people think of the Maldives, they often picture the exclusive overwater bungalows. While these can make your experience more special, even if you stay in a normal hotel room , you can almost guarantee that you will walk straight out onto powdery white sands.

Romantic Things to Do in the Maldives

If you opt for an all-inclusive resort, which most people do, then you will typically have the option to enjoy various water activities such as kayaking, pedalo, paddle boarding, and snorkeling . However, one of the best features is the coral house reefs that surround the islands.

The sea life is incredible; expect to see an abundance of tropical fish, reef sharks, stingrays, and if you’re lucky, even sea turtles. All of this is within swimming distance of your resort.

However, most  Maldives travel guides will encourage you to experience at least one tour off the island. Why not go dolphin watching or deep-sea snorkeling to enjoy more of what the Maldives has to offer? 

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34. Aitutaki Cook Islands

When you first arrive in Aitutaki in the Cook Islands, you’d be forgiven for thinking you were in paradise. With long stretches of soft, white sand, a turquoise lagoon, and palm trees overhead, Aitutaki looks like a postcard come to life. Aitutaki is a perfect couple's bucket list destination and a favorite place for a tropical island honeymoon  and it’s easy to see why.

With only a fraction of the tourists that go to Rarotonga, it’s easy to find a secluded spot on the island. Stay in a villa or at one of the resorts and take long strolls along the beach, submerge yourself in the warm water, sip cocktails next to the lagoon, and take some time to just relax and forget about the rest of the world.

Romantic Things to Do on Aitutaki

The highlight of any trip to Aitutaki, though, is the lagoon. Hire a boat or join a lagoon cruise to visit some of the inhabited islands in the lagoon. They are breathtakingly beautiful and are a gorgeous setting for a picnic lunch. Snorkel with the tropical fishes (and turtles if you’re lucky), see tropical birds and flowers, and simply savor the peace. 

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35. Bali Indonesia

Mention Bali, and most couples start drooling. It has been one of the most sought-after destinations for decades for good reason. It should be on everyone's travel bucket list for couples' dream list. 

Bali is the tropical island paradise dreams are made of. The biggest allure is probably how well the island caters to all ages, budgets, and travel styles. There truly is something in Bali for everyone. Whether you're looking for relaxing spa days, spending days on the beach, or perfecting your yoga positions, you will find that and so much more in Bali.

Romantic Things to Do in Bali

Younger couples or digital nomads will love Canggu on the east coast with its lively beach clubs, while surfers will want to head down south to laid-back but trendy Uluwatu. For rice paddies, excellent food, and cultural activities, Ubud in the island's centre is also where Julia Roberts found love in Eat Pray Love.

To get away from it all, head over to sleepy  Amed on the east coast for the best diving and snorkeling.

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36. Dumaguete Philippines

I retired to live in the Philippines for the last six years, but it never ceases to amaze me.  There is something particularly magical about the Philippines and its people.

The country's tropical climate, beautiful beaches, friendly locals, and low cost of living make the Philippines a top romantic vacation spot for couples.

For many couples, a visit to the Philippines is a couple's bucket list experience they will cherish forever. 

Dumaguete is the perfect place to start a romantic vacation to the Philippines. Located on the central Philippine island of Negros Occidental, Dumaguete is at the crossroads of the whole country. With a population under 150,000 people, this university town has a charming small-town feel that is a far cry from the megalopolis of Manila. Yet, Dumaguete is only 90 minutes by air from Manila and has all the modern conveniences to make visiting this island paradise a breeze.

Romantic Things to do in the Philippines

Dumaguete is the ideal jumping-off point for visiting some of the best attractions in the Philippines. Couples can snorkel together and chase sea turtles on the shallow beaches of Apo island or scuba dive to view the beautiful giant whale sharks feeding in the waters off of Oslob.

For those couples with a more relaxing vacation in mind, there are several top beach resorts, where couples can relax with spas, private massages, and chill out with frozen drinks and watch the famous Philippine sunsets.

Whether you are visiting or living in the Philippines, the country delivers pure magic.

37. Bohol Philippines

Home to the iconic Chocolate Hills and the world’s smallest primates, the island province of   Bohol in the Philippines   is one of the most sought-after destinations.

From pristine beaches and fun water activities to a relaxing river cruise and dreamy fireflies night tour, Bohol never fails to stun its visitors. That is also why of the many islands in the Philippines, Bohol is one of the top romantic places that has to be on any couple’s bucket list destinations.

Romantic Things to Do in Bohol Philippines

Couples can enjoy and be serenaded during their Loboc River cruise while savoring a Filipino buffet. It's also a chance for them to witness the world's smallest primates up-close and personal in their natural habitat.

Watching sunset by the beach is another romantic thing to do and the best spot for it is Panglao Island . Couples can even have a candlelight dinner on any of Panglao Island's beaches and make the shared moment last longer.

They can also head off-shore and be amazed with dolphins not on a dolphin show but in the wild! Snorkeling with enormous sea turtles and island hopping are other unmissable activities couples can do together.

These are just some of the beautiful things you can experience in Bohol because there's a lot more. Surely, Bohol will never fail to give couples unforgettable memories together. It should be included on your bucket list trips for couples' dream list. 

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38. El Nido Philippines

If you're looking for the best romantic spots in Asia, you should consider El Nido. This beautiful coastal town can be found in the province of Palawan in the Philippines — and it's perfect for your couples bucket list!

Romantic Things to Do in El Nido

39. bowral australia.

Once famous as the birthplace of an Australian sporting legend, today Bowral is better known as a perfect getaway destination for couples. Located in the   New South Wales Southern Highlands   about 90 minutes from Sydney, Bowral has an air of relaxed refinement.

Make sure you stay at one of the country estates in the area. Once stately manors for Sydney’s well-to-do, many have been transformed into beautiful period accommodation. Berida Hotel and Manor House are a good place to start. They’ll set the mood for your time in Bowral which will be spent strolling between cafes, galleries, and quirky boutiques.

Romantic Things to Do in Bowral Australia 

Bowral has a thriving café scene. Harry’s on Green Lane is one of the best; its high ceilings, bookcases, and artwork create a magic atmosphere. Dirty Janes combines coffee with antiques and is another must-see spot. The township is also dotted with shops full of local produce and art. The Milk Factory gallery is a fun place to look around.

In Spring, Bowral’s gardens burst into color with tulips and cherry trees. It is the perfect time to explore the area’s many curated parks. And, if wine is your thing, Bowral is the perfect base to explore the Southern Highlands Trail.

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40. Queenstown New Zealand

Queenstown in itself is a stunning couples bucket list destination, known as the adventure capital of New Zealand and packed with unreal, natural landscapes.  Of course, Queenstown is a must-visit for anyone, but for couples, there’s no better place.

The town is located near the bottom of New Zealand’s South Island and is one of the most beautiful places in the country.  You can expect to find a wide range of incredible things to do in Queenstown .  

Romantic and Adventurous Things to do in Queenstown

Adventurous couples can tackle some of the more extreme activities together, bonding over jet boating, rock climbing, skydiving, bungy jumping, and more.  Or, consider getting more in touch with nature by trialing some of the amazing hikes in the region.  Personally, I love talking my husband’s ears off on long hikes.

Wine Tastings 

For wining and dining, the region is world-famous for its wineries making it a great place for a wine tasting excursion.  Despite Queenstown’s rugged beauty, it’s still a significant town with access to countless high-end and romantic restaurants.

To top it all off, Queenstown is home to a range of romantic accommodation options suitable to all budgets, whether your significant other and yourself prefer to stay in the lakefront YHA hostel or the gorgeous Rees Hotel, you’re guaranteed to have a memorable time.

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41. Sohra In Meghalaya

Sohra, also known as Cherrapunji, is a town in the East Khasi Hills district of Meghalaya – a state in the northeast of India.

Meghalaya is known as the abode of clouds. Sohra receives the 2 nd highest amount of rainfall in the world only next to Mawsynram (which is also in Meghalaya). Home to the matrilineal Khasi ethnic group, Sohra comprises of numerous living root bridges, waterfalls, and caves worth exploring.

A tranquil town surrounded by hills and blessed by rain, Sohra indeed has the most romantic weather.

Romantic Things to Do in Sohra

Visiting it during monsoon teleports you to a world blessed by clouds amidst the background of gushing waterfalls. A walk with your soulmate through the quiet misty roads of Sohra, glancing at the distant falls, holding an umbrella, and listening to the sounds of the tiny stream nearby are the reasons, why I love Sohra more.

As a couple, you would love to swim and dive into the transparent blue natural pools of Nongriat, hike to the Double Decker Living Root Bridge, explore the Mawsmai and Arwah Caves, take a long walk to the Seven Sisters Falls from Sohra town.

Sohra is a great couples bucket list destination! 

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42. Goa India

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Affectionately known as the “Chocolate Islands” thanks to the cacao plantations that once thrived here, the tiny nation of Sao Tome and Principe lies off the coast of west Africa in the Gulf of Guinea. The lush rainforests and secluded tropical beaches make it a great place for honeymoons and romantic holidays.

Romantic Things to Do in Sao Tome and Principe

There are enough  fun things to do in Sao Tome and Principe  to keep you busy for weeks, but most people choose to spend a few days on each island. Enjoy exploring the remote beaches of Sao Tome and watch turtles nesting and hatching, then go hiking through the national park or try a spot of scuba diving from the volcanic shores.

Then head over to Principe on a short flight and immerse yourselves in the UNESCO Biosphere Reserve. Boat trips around the island are a popular jaunt, with snorkeling in hidden bays and picnics on deserted beaches both up for grabs. You can have a go at fishing or enjoy whale watching tours in season.

Don’t leave without visiting some of the old plantations, which have fallen into ruin and make very atmospheric places to discover. Some have been renovated and are now boutique hotels. This is the perfect couples travel bucket list location.

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46. Kenya Africa

One of the best places to add to your couples bucket list is an African safari. Seeing the Great Wildebeest Migration in Kenya is a jaw-dropping experience and unlike anything else on the planet.

Millions of wildebeest and zebra trek from Tanzania to Kenya along the Masai River and is one of the seven natural wonders of the world.

Kenya has a wide variety of ecosystems, making it one of the best places to see the big 5 safari animals (lion, leopard, elephant, water buffalo, and rhinoceros). The Masai Mara is home to millions of animals across thousands of species, which is why almost every Kenyan safari visits this park.

Romantic Things to Do in Kenya

One of the most romantic experiences to have in Kenya is to take a   hot air balloon ride over the Masai Mara . You can literally get a birds-eye view of the incredible animals who call Kenya home. 

From graceful giraffes to intimidating crocodiles, an African safari will amaze you on every drive. A safari in Kenya should be on every couple's bucket list.

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Travel Bucket List for Couples

Hopefully, you now have a ton of couple bucket list ideas to help you plan a romantic getaway.  There are so many great options throughout the world! 

My favorite couples trips have been in Oahu , Italy , and Cancun . Which of these 46 bucket list ideas for couples excites you the most? Let us know in the comments!

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France would be such a dreamy getaway! We’ve done a bit in Rocky Mountain NP and it is SO gorgeous!

Yes! So many amazing places!

Great list! I really would love for my husband and I to get to Croatia. And everywhere else you mentioned!

There are so many amazing places!

Wow this is a full list! Awesome! I love Sedona. It’s so serene and always a treat to visit. I hope to make it to Big Sur as I still haven’t been but I love that area. Thanks for the list! Once my hubby and I can get away without the kids, these will be great to keep in mind!

There are some amazing options for sure!

You killed it with this post! It’s like you took my bucket list out do my head and put it before my eyes! Love this! Sharing to my travel agency page to inspire others!

These are such amazing destinations! So many of them are on my travel list.

Even thought it’s on the couple bucket list, I was supposed to go to Neuschwanstein with my daughter last year. It’ll be so nice when we finally get there.

We went years ago and it was awesome!

Wow! This post is loaded with great places to put on a couples bucket list! Some are already on my list… just for a family vacay rather than a couples trip.

Yes, for sure! Some would make good family vacations for sure!

I’ve always wanted to visit the coast of California! I’ve never thought of making it a romantic getaway though! Thanks for the ideas!

California is so beautiful!

Several of these are already on our bucket list. We were in Fredericksburg, Texas in February and visited Enchanted Rock. The pink granite was awesome.

That sounds fun!

Wow, what a complete list! I’ve always wanted to go to Venice.

Venice is beautiful!

I absolutely love this list. there are so many gems that I haven’t heard of!

There are so many amazing destinations!

Wonderful bucket list for couples. So many fun, romantic places to visit!

There are so many amazing choices!

I love these ideas for romantic getaways! I’ve been to some on the list like Niagra Falls, Spain, and Sedona. Hoping to go to Germany someday.

So many great choices, it makes me want to go!

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45 Travel Ideas for Couples: The Ultimate Bucket List

Updated on August 28, 2020 • Originally Published December 30, 2019

Couples who travel together, stay together. And that’s not just a saying, but also a proven fact. This article from Lonely Planet explains how travel can increase your bond with your partner. That’s why couples need to find time to vacation regularly. Below are 45 travel ideas to add to your couples’ bucket list .

Whether you use this list to spark an idea for your honeymoon, a weekend getaway, a year-end trip, or anything in between, these wanderlust-worthy locations and ideas are perfect ideas to add to your list. The ideas below range from specific locations to countries to activities, which means that any of these ideas can be adapted easily to a couple at any stage of their relationship. So, get scrolling and don’t forget to let me know what is on your couples’ bucket list in the comments!

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Honeymoon and Anniversary Celebration Trips

• 1. Paris – The lights, the city, the food and wine, the Eiffel Tower, the culture. The list goes on and on as to why Paris is a perfect romantic destination. David and I went here as part of our honeymoon, and our favorite part was getting a drink on the Seine and watching the Eiffel tower sparkle at night!
• 2. Rome – Spend your days doing romantic activities like drinking wine, eating plenty of food and taking in the Italian culture. Also – don’t forget to throw a coin in the Trevi fountain before you leave, as legend says that anyone who tosses one in is destined to come back to Rome.
• 3. Punta Cana – One of the most popular honeymoon destinations in the world, Punta Cana is filled with many romantic resorts. Spend your days drinking cocktails by the ocean or exploring the sights around the Dominican Republic.
• 4. Scotland – Walk the cobblestone streets, explore ancient castles and drink plenty of Scotch. While this may not be a beachy vacation, it’s bound to be one full of adventure, history and cozy pubs where you can cuddle up.
• 5. Australia – Go to the land down under where you can find it all – from beaches to vineyards to history. Make this trip one to remember and find a romantic once-in-a-lifetime activity to do, like hiring a hot air balloon to take you over Melbourne.

Trips You Should Splurge On

• 6. Bora Bora – This is on the top of my bucket list! The colors of the water seem unreal, and the scenery seems absolutely gorgeous. Splurge and rent an overwater bungalow. You can spend the day together watching the waters go by from your own private balcony.
• 7. Hawaii – Splurge on your visit to the 50 th state by staying at a classic Hawaiian resort or spend your time hopping between the different islands. Additionally, make this trip even more romantic by having a candlelit dinner on the beach one night.
• 8. Dubai – Dubai is a city known for being a popular vacation destination for millionaires. Join the opulent lifestyle and splurge on this vacation. My suggestion? Stay in the world-famous Burj Khalifa and have a romantic dinner at the top, which is the world’s highest restaurant.
• 9. British Virgin Islands – The British Virgin Islands remain one of the most popular places for celebrities to vacation, which means that this a great place to have a private romantic trip. Splurge on a private resort and take a picturesque snorkeling trip.
• 10. An extended vacation – No matter your destination, splurge by traveling for at least two weeks. You’ll find that letting yourself relax by forgetting about real-world worries over a prolonged vacation will bring you two closer together than when you left.

International Itineraries

• 11. Take in the sights of London – Having been to London twice, I highly recommend that all couples take the time to visit. It’s a city that can fit any budget and has a plethora of things to do. And luckily, London is also full of romantic activities: from dining together at an authentic pub, to taking in a West End show, the opportunities to get closer to your partner are endless.
• 12. Visit the Great Wall in China – Visit one of the seven wonders of the world. Take a trip to one of the biggest tourist destinations in the west and then spend the rest of your trip taking in China. Luckily, Beijing is also full of other romantic activities, such as a romantic dinner or a resort-style hotel.
• 13. Eat Sushi in Japan – This is second on my bucket list! One of my favorite for a couples’ bucket list is to take in the sights of Japan while eating as much sushi as your heart desires. You can continue to strengthen your relationship by visiting the love shrine in Kyoto, where you can confirm your relationship at the temple.
• 14. Sail Down the Canals in Venice – What says, “love” more than a gondola ride for two down the canals of Venice? Make your boat trip extra romantic by hiring your gondolier around sunset. Spend your ride taking in the city at its most beautiful time of the day.
• 15. Oktoberfest in Munich – While this may not be the most romantic trip on the list, it’s definitely a must-do! Having been to the Weisn twice now, I highly recommend this trip. It’s a fun festival that’s only made better when you have your partner by your side, drinking just as many liters of beer as you!

Trips to Take over the Holidays

• 16. Christmas Markets in Europe – Almost every notable town in Europe has a Christmas market around the holidays. Make it a romantic trip by hopping around and deciding which market is the best! Don’t know where to start? Take a look at this guide to the best European Christmas markets from Helene in Between !
• 17. Quebec, Canada – Quebec completely changes at Christmas to a city that is full of holiday cheer. From Christmas markets to food tours to pop-up bars, there are plenty of holiday activities to do within the city. Make it extra romantic by taking memorable couples’ photos in this snow-laden town.
• 18. Skiing in Aspen – Nothing is more romantic than spending a day on the slopes. Even if skiing isn’t your deal, you can spend your après-ski time taking in the breathtaking views while having a glass of champagne with your partner in one of the many romantic restaurants.
• 19. New Year’s Eve in New York City – Countdown to midnight at the New Year’s capital of the world. Watch the ball in person at Times Square. Or if you don’t want to stand in the cold for the ball drop itself, many of the restaurants in Times Square also offer all-inclusive deals that allow you to be close to the action without the cold.
• 20. A resort in the Caribbean – Spend your Christmas vacation in the tropics! Pick one of many resorts in the Caribbean and spend your days sipping drinks by the water. Make your trip extra romantic by spending a day at the spa, just the two of you.

Food & Wine Experiences

• 21. Tapas in Spain – Tapas, an appetizer or snack, are a big part of Spanish culture. Tapas can range from cold selections (like olives and cheese) to hot (like Spanish omelets or fried potatoes). Spend a trip trying a wide variety of tapas by heading to a tourist-friendly town like Barcelona and then hopping from bar to bar, eating as many tapas as your heart and stomach desire.
• 22. Wine Tasting in California – Spend a week trying the best wine America has to offer. Book one of the many California wine resorts and spend a week drinking as much wine as your heart desires (if it were me, I’d be channeling the movie Wine Country the entire time). Make your trip extra romantic by taking the time to have a picnic at one of the many vineyards. Bring some cheese and crackers and enjoy the scenery over your lunch!
• 23. Raclette in Switzerland – Take a fondue dinner to a different level by trying out a raclette in Switzerland. The dish starts off by heating a side of cheese over a fire and then scraping it over something hearty like meat and potatoes. You can then dip accouterments in the cheese, such as bread. Raclette is usually served as part of a long dinner, taking many hours. This meal gives you a great chance to have a nice romantic meal with your partner.
• 24. Drink Coffee in Seattle – Any coffee lover knows that the mecca of coffee lies in Seattle. Spend a day hopping around the city, trying the best of every brew and deciding which one is your favorite. (Hint: Make your Seattle trip a weekend one – you don’t need more than one day in Seattle).
• 25. Eat Pasta in Italy – You haven’t had pasta until you’ve had pasta in Italy. It’s a dish that lives up to the hype, as fresh pasta is one of the best dishes in the world. And that’s why it’s a perfect addition to your vacation ideas for couples’ bucket list. My suggestion? Try cacio e pepe in Rome – it’s a dish that’s could be called Roman Mac and Cheese (but better). Make your dinner extra romantic by sitting at a table located on the street and accompanied by a bottle of wine.

Once-in-a-Lifetime Trips

• 26. Northern Lights in Iceland – There’s nothing more romantic on my vacation ideas for couples’ bucket list than spending a once-in-a-lifetime night cuddling in bed and watching the northern lights above via a glass ceiling hotel. It’s a unique experience that falls as one of the top items on many bucket lists. After that, make this trip extra romantic by taking the time to soak in an Iceland hot spring!
• 27. See Alaskan Glaciers – The experience of standing next to a glacier that is more than 100 years old. A once-in-a-lifetime opportunity includes taking in our 49 th state and the glaciers that cover it. One of the best ways to do this is by taking an Alaskan cruis e. On the cruise, there will be more glaciers than you ever thought you’d have a chance to see!
• 28. Safari in Africa – What says once-in-a-lifetime more than taking a trip to see the animals of Africa in their real-life habitat? Take this trip to take in the natural beauty of Africa. The hospitality experienced on a safari trip is so romantic that the British royals have been known to partake in it from time-to-time. Will & Kate even got engaged on a safari ! After that, make your travels extra romantic by sleeping under the stars. Nothing could be better to check off your couples’ bucket list than spending a night al fresco on another continent!
• 29. Sail Down the Amazon in South America – Take a cruise down the famous river. Small ships are known for their romantic atmosphere. And these cruises are great for spotting rare wildlife and viewing extraordinary scenery. This trip is once-in-a-lifetime because it allows you to take in this seldom seen part of the world. Extend this romantic vacation by renting an open-air bungalow before or after going down the Amazon!
• 30. Santorini – One glance at the Aegean Sea, and you’ll understand why staying in Santorini is a once-in-a-lifetime chance. A romantic trip equals exploring the island and definitely includes spending some time laying on the beach. In addition, make the trip even more romantic by staying in a hotel in a windmill or taking a Greek cooking class.

Recurring Trips to Take Every Year

• 31. A cruise – I can’t speak more highly of any yearly trip than a cruise. In fact, we are so in love with cruising that my husband and I got both got engaged on a cruise and then married on one. If that’s not a testament to something you should do every year, then I don’t know what is. Make your cruise extra romantic
• 32. Wine (or beer) tasting somewhere – Find a region of the country that makes amazing wine or beer. And then spend a weekend in that region every year. You’ll be amazed at the different wine or beer that a winery or brewery can produce year-to-year. Buy a bottle of one of their vintages and sample it again every year. Make it extra romantic by finding a choice bed and breakfast and book it every year.
• 33. Beach vacation – Every couple, and really every family, needs “their” beach. The beach they go back to year after year, making memories with their loved ones. A great idea for a couples’ bucket is to find a beach that you enjoy and then
• 34. Amusement Park – Find your family’s amusement park and head there year after year. Whether it is Disney World or a local park, make it a yearly tradition to go back to that amusement park every year. Most amusement parks have different events based on the time of the year. So, change up your visit based on the different times of the year. And you can turn any amusement park visit into a romantic trip by grabbing a few beers (or a few rounds of cotton candy if the park doesn’t serve beers) and watching the riders get off the craziest roller coaster in the park.
• 35. Camping – There are many romantic camping destinations around the country. Whether you go to the same one, or whether you change it up every year, taking the time to go camping will be a great yearly trip for you and your partner. Additionally, make it even more romantic by establishing a tradition you can do every year like sleeping under the stars or cooking the same meal.  

Trips Across the United States

• 36. Grand Canyon – If you’re like me, you balk when you think that a bunch of rocks could be romantic. However, the Grand Canyon is anything but a pile of rocks. Once you take in the beautiful, literally purple-mountain majesty of the canyon, it will be an instant romantic spot for you and your partner. Make the trip even more romantic by booking a room with a view and taking in the majesty within the privacy of your own room.
• 37. Niagara Falls – One of the biggest honeymoon destinations in the country, the mayor of Niagara Falls even gives out certificates to couples who come to visit here after their weddings every year. In addition to taking the near-about required Niagara cruise, make sure to explore the town to check out why this is such a romantic place – there are many romantic destinations to travel to, including a sky view and romantic restaurant.
• 38. New Orleans – While you may think of New Orleans as a party city, it can actually be quite romantic. From street performers to amazing restaurants and museums, to fun activities like tours and cooking classes, the Big Easy has plenty of goings-on to make for a romantic trip. Make sure to take a carriage through the city at sunset, as you’ll get a great view and really see the city at its best.
• 39. Las Vegas – Vegas is more than slot machines! There are plenty of romantic opportunities in Sin City. From balloon rides to winery tastings to just spending time together by the pool, there can be nothing better than taking in Las Vegas with your partner. Make it extra romantic by spending a day at the spa and then ending it with a gondola ride at the Venetian.
• 40. Disney – Whether you choose to visit Disney Land or World, the perfect vacation idea for any couple is getting lost in a day at Disney. Whether you go with kids or go with just your partner, make sure to ride every ride and enjoy every meal. You make your trip extra romantic by booking a specialty dining restaurant or buying an extra-special fireworks experience for just the two of you.

Experiences Ideas for Couples

• 41. Snorkeling in the Caribbean – You haven’t experienced much until you have experienced viewing the blue water of the Caribbean via a snorkel mask. My Mom has always described the difference as looking above the water and finally getting the chance to look below it as life-changing. Whether you snorkel in the Caribbean or as part of a resort stay, either way, will be guaranteed to be an amazing experience.
• 42. White Water Rafting in Arizona – In one day while white water rafting, you’ll overcome challenging experiences while overlooking exquisite scenery. By taking a white-water trip down a river, you’ll get a chance to spend hours going down a river while taking in the sights. On most white-water rafting trips, you’ll have a guide that will take you down the river, making the trip not only less stressful but easy. When you’re done, turn a long day into a romantic one by grabbing a drink at a local pub.
• 43. Wine Tasting in France – There has been nothing more romantic that David and I have done as a couple than taking a wine tasting class. During the class, we had time to examine the different types of wine produced throughout France, while discussing our favorite wines and trying cheese and wine pairings. Because of this amazing experience with O Chateau in Paris , I highly recommend taking the time to try a wine tasting class – your experience will expand your palette and your wine tastes.
• 44. Cooking Class in Tuscany – Taking the time to learn from a cooking class allows for a couple to really get a chance to understand the cuisine of the country. Italian cuisine is one that has been passed down for centuries – by taking a cooking class, it allows you to get a chance to learn the traditions that lend to the cuisine. Usually, cooking classes allow you to taste your own food, just the two of you, so make sure that the wine is included and enjoy the time marveling in the food you have made.
• 45. Road Trip Across the United States – Whether you drive across the whole country or just a few states, taking time to take in the United States via a road trip is a memory to remember. You can make the trip extra special by making sure to drive through areas that are important to you. And where you can find romance in the trip? It lies in the trip you can connect with each other, and doing experiences that you love along the way.

Do You Have Any Other Ideas for a Couples’ Bucket List?

I hope these ideas helped you narrow down your vacation ideas for couples’ bucket list. If you have any other questions or ideas about other items to add to your couples’ bucket list, make sure to leave them in the comments below !

Want to see some more of the trips we have taken? Take a look at my Instagram stories, and you can see minute-by-minute information from each of our trips.

Have you been on a couple’s trip? Was it on your bucket list? Where did you go and what did you do? What would you change? What’s on your vacation ideas for couples’ bucket list? Make sure to comment below – I want to hear from you!

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February 2, 2020 at 1:37 am

I have definitely bookmarked this post! So many great ideas and a few of my favorites 😉

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Crafting the Perfect First Trip for New Couples

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Travelling with your significant other for the first time can be an exciting, yet daunting experience. It’s a journey that not only explores new destinations but also delves into the depths of your relationship. This guide aims to equip you with essential tips and considerations to make your first couple’s trip an unforgettable adventure.

Choosing the Perfect Destination

Before picking a destination, it’s crucial to understand each other’s preferences. Are you adventure seekers, culture enthusiasts, or beach loungers? A successful trip begins with a destination that caters to the interests of both partners. Discussing this openly ensures that your trip is a harmonious blend of both your desires.

Budgeting is a key factor in travel planning. Be upfront about your financial limits and agree on a comfortable budget. Also, consider the length of your trip. Whether it’s a weekend getaway or a two-week excursion, the duration can significantly influence your destination choice.

Understanding each other’s travel styles involves more than just picking a type of vacation. It’s about delving deeper into what makes each of you tick. Does a history-filled city tour excite you, or are you more inclined towards a serene mountain retreat? Maybe one enjoys the hustle and bustle of a city, while the other prefers the tranquility of nature. Finding a destination that strikes a balance can be a fulfilling exercise in understanding and appreciating each other’s nuances.

Preparing for the Journey

While spontaneity has its charms, planning is your ally in couple’s travel. Researching your destination, pre-booking accommodations, and understanding local transportation can prevent unforeseen stress. However, remember to leave some room for impromptu adventures!

Air travel can often be stressful, especially when it comes to parking. To avoid last-minute rushes, it’s advisable to arrange parking near the airport ahead of time. For those flying from Orlando, consider using Rightway Parking to find convenient parking options near Orlando Airport. This ensures a smooth start to your trip, allowing you to focus on the excitement ahead.

While planning, it’s beneficial to create a detailed itinerary. This should include not just your flights and accommodations but also a list of attractions you wish to visit, restaurant options, and any events or festivals happening during your stay. This level of planning helps in maximizing your time and ensures you don’t miss out on experiences important to both of you.

Embracing Flexibility and Patience

When traveling as a couple, compromise becomes an essential skill. You might not always agree on every activity or restaurant choice, and that’s okay. Learning to give and take ensures that both partners feel heard and valued, making the trip enjoyable for both.

Travel is unpredictable. Flights get delayed, reservations get lost, and weather can change plans. Embracing a flexible attitude and exercising patience during these times can strengthen your bond as a couple. Remember, it’s not just about the destination, but also about how you navigate the journey together.

Communication is Key

Clear communication before and during the trip is vital. Discuss your expectations, fears, and hopes about the trip. This not only helps in planning but also in understanding each other’s perspectives, leading to a more harmonious experience. It’s important to discuss and agree upon how much downtime you want during your trip. While one might prefer a packed itinerary, the other might value relaxation and leisure time. Balancing these expectations ensures that the trip is relaxing and enjoyable for both, without feeling rushed or dull.

Disagreements might arise, but how you handle them matters. Approach conflicts with the intent to understand and resolve rather than to win . Remember, you’re partners in this adventure, and effective communication is your tool to navigate through any rough patches.

Making Memories

While living in the moment is important, capturing memories is also valuable. Take photos, keep a travel journal, or collect souvenirs. These mementos will be cherished reminders of your first trip together.

Consider starting travel traditions as a couple. It could be trying a new food in every place, collecting a specific souvenir, or even a ritual you do in every new city. These traditions add a unique and personal touch to your travels, creating lasting memories.

Balancing Individual and Shared Interests

While the essence of a couple’s trip is togetherness, it’s healthy to acknowledge and respect individual interests. Perhaps one enjoys museums while the other prefers outdoor activities. Allocating time for individual pursuits not only respects personal preferences but also brings fresh energy and stories to share.

On the flip side, planning activities that both enjoy strengthens your bond. Be it a romantic dinner, a scenic hike, or a cultural event, these shared experiences become the highlights of your trip and a source of joy in your relationship.

Health and Safety Considerations

Traveling introduces you to new environments, and it’s important to be prepared for health contingencies. Carry a basic first aid kit, any necessary medications, and research local healthcare facilities, especially if traveling internationally.

Research the safety norms of your destination. Be aware of any travel advisories, understand local customs, and have a plan for emergencies. Ensuring safety allows both of you to relax and enjoy the trip without undue worry.

Savoring Local Experiences

One of the joys of travel is experiencing life as locals do. Try local cuisines, engage in traditional activities, and if possible, interact with local residents. These experiences enrich your understanding of the place and add depth to your travel experience.

As travelers, it’s important to respect and preserve the places we visit . Engage in responsible tourism practices like supporting local businesses, being environmentally conscious, and respecting local customs and heritage.

Wrapping Up

As your trip comes to a close, take time to reflect on your experiences. Discuss what you loved, what you learned, and how the trip affected your relationship. This reflection is not only about cherishing memories but also about understanding how travel shapes your bond.

End your trip by starting to dream about the next one. Discuss destinations you’d like to explore together in the future. This not only gives you something to look forward to but also keeps the spirit of adventure alive in your relationship.

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18 travel traditions you need to start now

Travel traditions are a great way to create lasting memories. They can be small things, perhaps something quirky you do every trip you go on. Or something bigger, such as that annual visit to your favourite place every year. Whatever the scale, they’re guaranteed to add a little extra fun to your travel world.

We’ve provided some inspo below if you don’t have any of your own traditions just yet, or are looking to add to your list:

• Start every holiday with a champagne. Because, why not?
• COLLECT! Keychains, magnets, beach towels – they all help to remember the good times from your trip.
• Take the same photo in every place you visit.
• Write down your highlight of every city you visit on a postcard while you’re there and in the moment and send it to yourself.
• Eat at a McDonald’s in every country.
• Make a new playlist with songs themed to your trip.
• Start your holiday by buying a new book you wouldn’t usually pick at the airport or shops.
• Add a hilarious and envy-inducing message on your out-of-office pre-trip.
• In the build up to your trip, watch a movie that related back to your itinerary. Seattle = Sleepless in Seattle. Tuscany = Under The Tuscan Sun. You get my drift.
• Buy an article of clothing in every country, so each time you wear it, it reminds you of your holiday.
• Have a holiday countdown app on your phone. Probably don’t be that person who shares a holiday countdown on Facebook 😉
• Travel somewhere new for your birthday each year.
• Embrace a favourite spot as your annual holiday destination.
• Try your hand at cooking up a meal inspired by the destination you’re heading to and soak up that pre-trip excitement.
• Have a boys/girls only trip every year.
• Continue any traditions you had as a family when you were a kid and pass them onto your own kids. Who doesn’t love a bit of nostalgia.
• Learn a few key words and phrases in the language of your destination. And start dropping them into conversation or text messages pre-trip to throw people 😉
• I’m going to add a personal one in here, because I can. My friendship group have started a tradition to holiday in one of our birth places every year. We’ve been to NZ (with matching beanies), the Gold Coast , and last year we went to Europe and did a sailing trip around Croatia ! Funnily enough, each trip one of the couples has gotten engaged! This year we’re going to Tassie  (where two of us are from), then next will be the Seychelles ! This has been an amazing travel tradition. Sharing it with my closest friends makes it even more meaningful 🙂 .

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Traveling as a Couple 101: How to Travel as a Couple (2024)

Have you DREAMED of couples travel but aren’t sure exactly where to start? 

Let me guess: you want the loved up romance, days spend lounging with drinks in hand, and steamy couple massages on exotic beaches, right?

Welllll, while traveling with your partner can have some of those deliciously dreamy days, the reality is a whole lot messier than cute Insta pics. 

When my ex and I travelled as a couple, I ended up ending literally every night in tears whilst 8000+ miles away from home.

…not exactly IG worthy if you ask me. 

And even now that I’m traveling with the love of my life, there’s still the 12 hour bus rides. The getting stuck in a dank room waiting for the worst storm of the year to pass. Ah yes, and the food poisoning at 15,400 ft…

Despite all that, I’m about to give you a full blown article on why you should travel as a couple !

Am I crazy?! Perhaps 😉

But traveling as a couple will bring you closer together and make those sluggish travel burnout days just a little easier to manage. With the right person, it will always beat solo travel in my eyes.

So without further ado, here’s how to get the most out of traveling as a couple … without killing each other!

Why Travel as a Couple?

How to get the most out of travelling as a couple, what to do when traveling as a couple gets rough, let’s end with a bang 😉, final thoughts on traveling as a couple.

Because how else can you make *romantic* love in the world’s most beautiful places? Ok, ok, the perks of traveling as a couple go a lot further than just bedroom fun… But let’s be real, it is essential to mention!

Traveling as a couple will test AND strengthen your relationship like no other, especially when it comes to backpacking, van life, and camping.

But on the other hand, traveling with my partner has led to some of the most amazing moments of my life, hands down. From climbing to a 15,400 ft alpine lake to taking on a 1000 km motorbike road trip; trust me when I say that shit is sweeet when done with the right person. 

There are also financial benefits to traveling as a couple. For example, splitting private rooms will likely be cheaper than hostel dorms beds. And while solo female travel is empowering as hell and usually very safe, traveling with your partner is undeniably easier.

As long as your partner isn’t a dickweed, you get emotional support, a logistics manager, AND a cutie with a bootie.

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Benefits of Traveling With Your Significant Other

Besides being able to bang like rabbits without fear of STDs or frightening “hooking up on the road” debacles, you can have the best love and sex on the road experiences.

No but really, traveling as a couple has PLENTY of legit benefits.

This is especially true if you’ll be dabbling in offbeat travel , where having someone around makes many things a whole lot easier.

I could go on for days about the benefits of being a traveling couple. But, I think these are the 3 main ones:

1. You get to share life-changing moments with someone you love.

Man, if this isn’t your main motivation for backpacking as a couple, you might need to re-think your relationship. Just sayin’. 

But on a real note, what makes traveling with someone you love so special is being able to have life-changing experiences together. Multiday treks that push you to your limit , camping under millions of stars, getting just a little too loose after a bit of drug tourism…

No one will be able to appreciate or understand these adventures better than someone who was there in the thick of them with you!

2. You get to save a little coin .

Traveling as a couple will for sure help you out in the budget travel department. Regardless of your arrangement with your partner, finding your travel buddy makes it a whole lot cheaper. 

You can chill out in comfy private rooms on the low, share meals, the costs of drivers, tours, and other epic travel experiences. 

3. There’s safety in numbers .

Staying safe while traveling is easier as a couple. There’s strength in numbers, for one. And for two – no matter how much I don’t want this to be true – traveling with at least one guy makes for safer travels.

Plus, nothing beats having someone to hold your hair back after some type of water poisoning or a night of too much local moonshine!

Backpacking Solo VS. Backpacking as a Couple

Solo budget backpacking and budget backpacking as a couple are two completely different experiences. I’ve done both: there are definitely pros and cons. 

But in the end, traveling with someone I love has been fulfilling in ways that solo travel lacks. As empowered as I’ve felt traipsing through cities solo, heading on a motorbike trip through a remote region of Pakistan with my boyfriend certainly had more cheesy “I’ll remember this forever” moments.

To be able to share a passion for travel with a partner, make sure your passion is matched. I once tried traveling with someone who, after 4 countries together, realised he didn’t even like traveling. You can imagine all the fun that led to while spending months on the road together.

Rule #1 of traveling as a couple: No travel destination will fix an already failed relationship.

But if y’all have some real love going on, get ready for the adventure of a lifetime .

Not all types of couples’ travel are the same. Meaning, you’ll want to really know what you’re getting into before heading out on your trip. That way you can get the most out of the adventure of a lifetime together!

Backpacking as a Couple

Ahh, backpacking the world as a couple. From my experience, it is a travel style that is blissful – if done right. Food poisoning, culture shock, and haggling in new cities are but some of what you can expect to experience on a long-term adventure.

Then there’s also exploring the markets of a new city and showing your partner all the kooky things you find! There are the sunrises made that much sweeter by sharing them. Backpacking as a couple will provide both of you with some of the most epic moments of your lives.

I’ve seen what goes right and what goes wrong when you’re backpacking as a couple. I dated the toxic guy, and then later, fallen head over heels for the right man. I’ve travelled solo, too. So you can say I’ve had a full spectrum of backpacking as a couple experiences!

Now time to spill the tea you’re here for! Where do I go and how do I prepare to travel the world with the person I love?

Planning a Couples Trip

First up: where to go?

ASIA, ASIA, ASIA. Full stop.

There is nowhere else on this planet that makes backpacking as worthwhile as Southeast and South Asia.

Of course, there are some other prime backpacking destinations out there. But none really compare to what you can find in Thailand, Laos, Cambodia, Vietnam, India, and Pakistan.

Friendly locals, rich cultures, and banging street food exist in every one of these countries – in abundance! I mean, I still think about this bowl of marinated octopus I had from a street food stall in Thailand for less than $2.

Tasty eats aside, let’s get into accommodation. Backpacking in popular destinations will likely mean time spent in hostels. But what is a hostel , and why are they good for traveling couples?

They’re only a little piece of magic, that is! Hostels are backpackers’ Mecca and you shouldn’t go backpacking as a couple without staying in them.

They’re where you and your boo can meet other cool people and travel couples. Party until the sun rises. Most importantly, you can be your true selves .

But while many hostels are trendy as hell these days, at some point y’all will want to escape into nature. When you are ready to leave the comfort of hostels behind, it’s time to look at camping as a couple!

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Camping as a Couple

I can’t stress this enough: it is important it is to invest in quality gear. When you’ve packed quality adventure gear together, you have a better experience.

Camping for couples is something you’ll likely experience as a backpacker. But is, of course, its own type of travel too. Along with getting to rise and sleep with nature, cheap places to travel for couples don’t get much cheaper than this.

While I assume veteran campers know this, newbies need to understand that camping isn’t exactly a sexy scene. True camping also means doing your business outside, and showers aren’t really a thing unless you happen to camp near a river of some sort. 

Needless to say, camping as a couple isn’t exactly romantic. Well, it is feral and wild, and that’s a special kind of romance.

Camping Equipment for Couples

Aside from the lack of showers, getting it on in a tent isn’t exactly the most comfortable. But you can definitely make it work in a spacious 3 person tent . 😉

While I’m sure you’ll enjoy every moment spent secluded with your partner on snowy basecamps and lakeside scenes, my best advice is to start slow .

I’m talking a one-night trip kind of slow .

But now let’s assume you’ve both popped your camping cherry. You want to take your adventures under the stars to another level. Three words: comfy sleeping pad .

I didn’t think I would be able to enjoy camping until I found an amazing sleeping mattress that feels like a bed.

Another key for a happy twilight amongst the trees? Bring good food!

This is especially important for long hikes. I recently got some intense sunstroke symptoms while crossing a glacier due to a lack of camping nutrition.

Whoops! I won’t be making that mistake again.

And with the number of portable travel stoves available these days, nothing is impossible, even at 14,000 feet.

But to really survive camping as a couple, you have got to accept that the unexpected is BOUND to happen. Sometimes you get caught in a lightning storm and are forced into an expensive hotel. You could get hit with food poisoning, or perhaps just a shit ton of mosquitos.

It happens. Not every couple’s camping trip (or any camping trip for that matter) is going to be perfect, and that’s ok! It’s about the journey, after all.

What’s a hardcore couples’ camping trip REALLY like?

Hear what  Indi  shares about her 8-week couples camping and vanlife adventure:

Back before The Great Breakup, my ex and I shared some truly special times.

We decided to go for a trip together and blend a little vanlife with a lot of multiday hikes across the South Island of New Zealand. My ex would laugh at me bundled in 4 jumpers, 2 beanies, and a buff, ipso facto, everything I needed to survive our morning coffee in New Zealand’s winter!

And when we were hiking for days on end out in the austere backcountry, the best thing was having someone to laugh with when I fell on my butt into an almost-frozen lake!

The potentially shitty times became endlessly comical and so insignificant compared to the great times when you’re sharing life with someone. No, it wasn’t all laughing at each other falling down snow slopes and having cute morning coffees.

We got bogged and the van broke down several times. We got stuck in a tiny shelter on the top of a mountains as a storm passed over us. We spent all day every day together for  8 weeks straight.

Of course, we bickered a little. But I wouldn’t trade that adventure in for all the badass solo trips in the world.

Despite the way our relationship has ended up, nothing can take away sharing the best of New Zealand with someone I cared for deeply.

Vanlife as a Couple

No type of travel REALLY forces you to get to know your significant other quite like living the van life does.

Backpacking is hard. But spending 24/7 with your partner in an often cramped van takes things to a whole new level. 

…especially in the US where public facilities aren’t as van-life friendly as in Europe or Australia. 

Couples’ van life also means ultimate freedom and the ability to fully design your own home on wheels. And if you’re planning to build your van yourselves, you and your lover will be able to develop your cooperation and problem-solving skills before you hit the road. 

Despite its challenges, and surreal moments and landscapes, it will (hopefully) only help y’all grow together and as individuals.

Couple Travel Tips to Survive Vanlife

Vanlife is a working progress, but here are my top tips to help the road be a little smoother.

• Have a solid design. I’m not saying you should go out and buy a sprinter van, but you need to make sure your van is ready for the road. Breaking down is stressful, EXPENSIVE, and leads to unnecessary tension. Of course, you can’t prevent all mechanical mishaps, but starting off on solid footing is always a good move.
• Communicate! This is a general tip too but it’s being mentioned twice because it’s that important. Especially when sharing a van, you need to talk things out. Tensions burst easily in confined space!
• Stay organized. A messy living situation can drive relationship tensions to a breaking point. A small, unorganized van is not going to bode well. If you and your partner have wildly different opinions on cleanliness, this should definitely be discussed before the vehicle is even picked up.
• Get out of the van! The whole point of vanlife is to explore the world is it not? Spend your days outside soaking in nature and that vitamin D. You want the van to feel like a respite and not a metal prison.

Hitchhiking as a Couple

Traveling by hitchhiking is one of the coolest types of couples travel you can go for. It will undoubtedly lead to some wild memories!

Sometimes it’s 6+ hours waiting for a lift, finding yourself in the car with a wild driver, or being forced on a bus by authorities. And sometimes it’s sharing a cup of chai with a family who become your dear friends.

It’s all just part of the experience – one that is definitely worth having. Especially in a beautiful, far-flung land.

Here’s how you can survive (and love!) hitchhiking as a couple:

• Be patient . Don’t expect a ride within a few minutes. Although it happens, it’s not the norm.
• Start early . This is ESPECIALLY important in remote regions that don’t have a lot of transport to begin with. Since you’ll need room for two, finding a ride will be slightly more difficult.
• Trust your instincts . Even when traveling as a couple, you’ll still want to steer clear of seedy vibes.
• Listen to your partner . If they’re not feeling it, be understanding. Hitchhiking ain’t always easy, and it can take some getting used to.

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Digital Nomad Life and Working Jobs as a Couple

Living the digital nomad life is a dream in many ways. And doing it with your significant other? Even better.

Of course, like with all other types of couples travel, the foundation of your relationship before you hit the road is even more important than your finances.

…which, btw, might be a bit trying at times as you make your way into online entrepreneurship. 

But on the bright side, having your person there to support you and motivate you is unmatched.

Working online isn’t the only type of job that traveling couples can get, though. Teaching English abroad is an easy way for couples to travel and make money abroad together. 

Everywhere from Thailand to Oman has options for teaching English, and for a pretty penny too!

Hostels in various parts of the world (notably the iconic Southeast Asia) are also great places to find couple travel jobs. Many are keen to hire foreigners in exchange for accommodation, meals, and sometimes a little cash. 

Classic volunteer organizations like WWOOF offer farming work to traveling couples, where you can work in everything from sharecropping to direct animal care.

Workaway is another top option for couples’ travel jobs in general and has been a trusted name in the industry for years. They also have a wider variety of jobs available than WWOOF.

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Backpacking and traveling as a couple isn’t always easy. And even for couples in solid, loving relationships, there absolutely WILL be days where you’re pretty far from “having fun.”

Whether y’all are a long-term pair, LGBTQ+ travelers , or even if y’all married, rough moments are inevitable. But at the end of the day, it’s the unreal meals shared, a nice hit of hash from the top of a glorious viewpoint. It’s those other souls you and your partner meet along the way that will stick with you forever.

Now let’s get into some must-knows about traveling the world as a couple.

How to Deal With Fights on the Road

Fighting on the road is NOT easy. But it’s especially rough when fighting morphs into abuse. It happens, and it happens (unfortunately) often.

And those are fights you shouldn’t ignore . Do something: be strong, like I wish I could have been sooner.

But, not all fights are the be-all end-all. Some are typical petty, driven by lack of sleep, too many bottles of beer on a Thai island, or far too many hours on a non-AC train in India.

After you discern which type of fight you’re dealing with, then you can decide what to do next. Take some time to chill out and pause, and hopefully, y’all can get back to baseline. If it was just a disagreement, my best advice is to talk and apologize.

But if a systematic pattern of belittling occurs, or if the fighting becomes less about the shitty situation and more about picking out each others’ flaws, this is nasty.

If you’re being emotionally or mentally abused, or if things get physical: LEAVE . Reach out for help with domestic abuse from professionals, friends, or family.

If you’re only with someone because you’re afraid you can’t travel alone, let me assure you that you CAN. I thought I would never be able to travel to my favorite countries alone, which was part of the reason I stayed in an unhealthy relationship.

I tried to ignore the deeper problems between me and my ex. But you can’t out-travel a bad relationship .

Traveling as a couple is supposed to be about love. And if you’re doing more fighting than loving, you probably shouldn’t be traveling as a couple.

I finally took my own advice. I left the relationship and did what I thought was impossible: solo travel.

How to Deal With a Break-Up While on the Road 

Breaking up while abroad is never fun. Sometimes it happens on the road, sometimes it happens at home and then you’re thrust into the world of solo travel. 

For a long time, I did not think I could travel alone and it was part of the reason (among many others) that I stayed in a toxic relationship. 

But guess what?

After I decided I could and would travel alone, I literally came to travel in Pakistan solo. It is now my favorite country in the world.

Spoiler alert: it ended up being the best decision I have EVER made.

So, what to do after a break up abroad?

Get into what YOU love.

If that’s traveling, keep at it. You don’t need to go home just because a relationship went south. Not when there are 7+ billion other people to meet.  

But if things are presently not working out, i.e. if you’re arguing every day, if you’re experiencing emotional abuse etc. don’t stay for the sake of travel.

Travel solo, or go home to re-group. Love the beach? Maybe go find some beaches while backpacking in Bali or something.

On a serious note, remember there IS someone else out there. You WILL find someone to travel with again, if that’s your concern. Things always seem to improve when you leave toxic people behind.

Top Tips for Couples Travelling Together

• Compromise: This, this AND this. Compromising is the single most important practice while traveling as a couple. Take into account what you both prefer, and make sure your backpacking itinerary does too.
• Be kind: Traveling as a couple, especially long term travel, can be rough. Move on from fights easily (unless there’s some cheating or abuse or something- then you need to GTFO), because at the end of the day you want the best for each other.
• Start off strong: Especially when long term travel is concerned, make sure your relationship is on stable ground before taking off. Even the most beautiful places in the world won’t fix a failed relationship.
• Communicate: It sounds basic but it’s the truth. As with successful relationships in general, successful travel relationships work because of communication. Angry about something your partner did? Need a break? Talk to them! Holding things in serves nobody and does exactly nothing to solve the problem.
• Be patient: Remember that y’all are in a new country, might be experiencing culture shock, home sickness, over-stimulation or a combination of the bunch. And even if you’re chillin’ in a new place, your partner might not be.
• Trust your gut: If you feel like things aren’t going well, and I mean really not going well, know that you can leave. It doesn’t matter how long the trip was supposed to be or what you had already booked. Red flags are there for a reason.
• Get insurance! Sounds dorky but hear me out!

Why Wandering Couples Should ALWAYS Have Travel Insurance! 

Yeah, traveling as a couple means you always have someone to take care of you on less-than-fun days on the road. But sometimes you need a bit more than emotional support.

Medical shiz in foreign countries can get expensive quick, and you deff don’t want to have to worry about finances when your health is at stake.

Also, in the worst-case scenario that you and your boo call it quits on the road, you DEFINITELY want to be insured as a solo traveler. This is why you should ALWAYS consider getting travel insurance before any trip. 

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I couldn’t help but mention the sexy times! Because what’s traveling as a couple without some crazy sex in hostels stories?

Banging like rabbits, rolling the night away on MDMA on a mountainous lakeside, confessing your deepest feelings under fire-streaked skies… Yea, it’s all possible!

As far as drugs go, know that there will be drugs on the road. If you’re experimenting for the first time or you are trying a new drug, start slow.

Don’t take things too far too quickly. Shit can get crazy quickly – especially in popular backpacking destinations.

And as far as sex goes, let me remind you to get a PRIVATE ROOM. It’s just basic etiquette after all, amirite?

Unless you and your partner are happily platonic, sex is obviously going to be a part of traveling as a couple. And honestly, it should be if you want to be happy in your relationship and your trip.

Just remember to close the door, you dirty bastards! 😉

Yass, now you know how to travel as a couple and not kill each other! Yay!

Traveling as a couple is different than roaming with a travel buddy because, duh, LOVE. 

It truly is the most intense force in this universe. When you combine it with some of the world’s most beautiful places, you’re in for one hell of a ride.

The most important thing to remember is that to be in love in a foreign country, you need to first be in love at home . A rocky relationship will only capsize once the challenges of road life are thrown at it. 

But, assuming the love is there and so is the desire for travel, be kind. Take time for understanding, supportiveness and PATIENCE. 

Travel is important, but even more so is human connection and true love. Don’t let petty fights and exhausting travel days dull your drive. Know what it means to be a backpacker before heading out on your trip, and always make sure a whole lot of love is shared each and every day.

Because isn’t the best part of traveling as a couple being able to share awe-inspiring moments with the one you love?

I sure think so 🙂

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Samantha Shea

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Best romantic getaways in the u.s. for 2024.

Sometimes it's necessary to take a break from the stresses of real life and spend quality time with the person you love. And what better way to do that than to travel? To help you and your sweetheart plan the ideal romantic retreat, whether it's for an anniversary or just because, U.S. News considered ambiance, privacy and access to couple-friendly activities to rank the best romantic getaways in the USA. Use this list to pick your next one-on-one vacation, and vote for your favorite locales below. Looking to stay even closer to home? Check out these romantic weekend getaways by state .

Kaua'i

Napa valley, charleston, sc, big sky, mt, amelia island, adirondacks, martha's vineyard, jackson hole.

Kaua'i offers many distinct ways for both thrill-seeking and sun-worshipping couples to up the romance factor. You and your sweetheart can lounge on secluded beaches , relax in a private luxury villa or go on a kayaking adventure along the picture-perfect Napali Coast. For even more opportunities to marvel at nature, check out Kaua'i's scenic state parks like Koke'e and Waimea Canyon. Once you've tackled the Hawaiian island's trails hand in hand, consider booking a private helicopter tour for a bird's-eye view you and your better half will never forget.

Few things are more romantic than sharing a remote island with your beau. Lanai's exclusivity can make it feel like the two of you are alone with the Hawaiian island breeze. Head to a luxury hotel or resort to indulge in high-end cuisine and soak up some sun by the pool before exploring the tiny island's landscape side by side. For a memorable hike that requires little effort, follow the short trail from the Four Seasons Resort Lanai to the Pu'upehe overlook. Also known as "Sweetheart Rock," this landmark offers stunning views of Hulopo'e Bay, especially at sunset.

Brimming with rolling vineyards , cozy wine caverns, chic restaurants and top-notch hotels, this wine lover's paradise 60 miles north of San Francisco is the ultimate romantic getaway. Wine enthusiasts can sip Napa's award-winning reds at intimate venues like O'Brien Estate and Jarvis Estate or while savoring gourmet cuisine on the Napa Valley Wine Train. When couples need a break from being wined and dined, they can explore the scenic Napa River via kayak, take to the skies on a hot air balloon ride, or visit the town of Calistoga in northern Napa Valley for its spas and hot springs.

Another ideal retreat for wine connoisseurs , Sonoma is known to be more laid back than its neighbor, Napa, and boasts more than 425 wineries. However, strolling through vineyard vines isn't the only must-do activity for twosomes. Outdoor lovers will want to explore regional parks such as Taylor Mountain (for its trails) and North Sonoma Mountain (to enjoy a picnic surrounded by the peaks of Santa Rosa and the Sonoma Valley). Plenty of Sonoma's hotels offer spa treatments, but what could be more memorable than a massage in a 22-foot wine barrel? Book side-by-side treatments at Magical Massage for a one-of-a-kind experience.

A low-key getaway, Charleston, South Carolina, is filled with pastel-hued historic homes, art galleries and tasty Lowcountry cuisine (perfect for foodie couples). To dial up the romance, take in the sights from a horse-drawn carriage or sign up for a sunset harbor cruise just for two. For a quiet shoreside escape free from crowds, head to one of the nearby beaches like Sullivan's Island. Accommodations range from beachfront resorts to charming bed-and-breakfasts but keep in mind you'll likely have to pay a pretty penny for a stay in the historic district.

It's easy to proclaim your love when you're suspended atop red rocks and looking out upon miles of colorful Arizona landscape. After working up a sweat hiking Sedona's sandstone buttes, bring those romantic vibes indoors for a couples massage at one of the city's world-renowned wellness retreats . Or, if you and your amour prefer relaxing with a glass of vino, save time for a self-guided tour of the Verde Valley Wine Trail, which boasts 15 venues ranging from small tasting rooms to vast wineries sprawling along the banks of Oak Creek. At night, hold your loved one close and gaze at the star-filled sky.

Travel to Big Sur for its windswept coastline and rugged mystique. This peaceful destination carved out of the California coast offers a couple of luxurious hotels, but nature is the real star in Big Sur. Outdoor enthusiasts can hike the area's redwood-lined trails and admire picturesque Pfeiffer Beach before setting up a tent and roughing it beneath the stars. For an atmospheric picnic, head to Sand Dollar Beach, where couples can admire the scenery sans the crowds. For a more upscale outing, take a day trip to Carmel-by-the-Sea for its art galleries and fairy tale cottages.

Let Big Sky's vast terrain, fresh air and rustic romance carry you and your loved one away from the ins and outs of everyday life. Every winter, couples flock to this Montana destination for its top-notch ski resort (complete with a heated chairlift), though the offseason has its charms, too (think: fly fishing on scenic rivers, hiking under an endless blue sky or taking a road trip to Yellowstone National Park.) For a curated Montana experience, spring for an all-inclusive ranch, where you'll find private cabins, homegrown cuisine and personalized service.

What could be more romantic than a sunrise beachfront horseback ride for two? Or a private sunset cruise aboard a 40-foot catamaran? You and your love can experience this and more on Amelia Island, one of Florida's Atlantic coast barrier islands. Hop on bikes and explore the scenic Amelia Island Trail, or pedal to downtown Fernandina Beach for its Victorian-style architecture, antique shops and galleries. After a day spent sightseeing, pamper weary muscles with a couples massage at one of the luxury resorts that call the island home.

This tiny Massachusetts island exudes New England charm. Stroll arm in arm with your sweetheart down cobblestone streets, unwind on white sand beaches and snap selfies in front of iconic lighthouses, such as Brant Point Lighthouse and Great Point Lighthouse. Then, grab a lobster roll to share from one of the island's premier seafood restaurants, and revel in the extraordinary Atlantic Ocean views from the Sconset Bluff Walk. When you're ready to retire for the night, you'll have your pick of quaint Nantucket inns.

Whether you time your trip for summer boating, fall leaf peeping or snow season, upstate New York makes for an intimate setting. Depending on when you visit, you can bond with your beloved on a sleigh ride, a paddling trip or a scenic hike, where you'll be treated to awe-inspiring views of the Adirondacks' forests, lakes and mountains. When you're adventured out, bop between some of New York's most iconic small towns, including Saranac Lake and Lake Placid, for local dining and shopping. What's more, you can choose from accommodations ranging from luxe lodges packed with amenities to secluded wooden cabins for two.

Savannah, Georgia, is tailor-made for a weekend getaway. Spanish moss hangs over sidewalks that lead past hundreds of historic homes. The lively River Street area features a bevy of shopping, dining and nightlife options, while nearby islands provide a relaxing respite. Meanwhile, Forsyth Park provides the ultimate romantic backdrop for memorable couples photos, and if you're feeling brave, you can hold each other tight during a ghost tour at the hauntingly beautiful Bonaventure Cemetery. For charming digs in the heart of the city, hang your hat at one of Savannah's charming bed-and-breakfast accommodations, or rent a snug carriage house.

If your ideal romantic escape entails a lazy agenda, shingle-covered beach houses and quaint towns, Martha's Vineyard is just the place. On this Massachusetts island, you can relax on quiet beaches, sample decadent fare at upscale restaurants and explore the historic Edgartown Lighthouse, which offers incredible views of the harbor and neighboring Chappaquiddick Island. On a warm, sunny day, venture to Oak Bluffs, where you'll find charming gingerbread cottages at The Campground. For the ultimate romantic retreat, book a stay at one of the island's top hotels, some of which offer complimentary bike rentals, beach chairs and continental breakfast to guests.

Reconnect with your sweetie during a getaway to Jackson Hole. This piece of Wyoming paradise is ideal for all kinds of outdoor pursuits, including hiking and skiing. Should you need to soothe your aching muscles after an active day, go for a dip in the Granite Hot Springs, Astoria Hot Springs or your high-end resort's outdoor hot tub. Whether your dream romantic vacation includes horseback riding through the majestic Grand Teton National Park, sipping wine by a crackling fireplace or unwinding at a world-class spa, Jackson Hole is the perfect place for you and your other half.

For lovebirds who enjoy skiing and cuddling up by a fireplace, Aspen is the perfect place for a romantic getaway. Spend your days sharing ski lifts in the snow-capped mountains before partaking in the highly touted après ski scene. If you arrive during the warmer months, take advantage of superb hiking and scenic gondola rides. Then, retreat to one of the many hotels and resorts that offer glitzy accommodations for two – not to mention some must-visit spas . If you're not ready to turn in just yet, Aspen's nightlife options include plenty of live music venues, clubs and cocktail lounges.

With 40 miles of protected seashore, this region of Massachusetts offers plenty of space for that long walk on the beach. And the slow pace of Cape Cod means you don't have to focus on the hustle and bustle of daily life – you can spend quality time together swimming, biking and eating fresh seafood instead. Cape Cod is also home to a handful of breweries and wineries, so you can toast to your special someone during a tasting. Splurge on one of the Cape's five-star accommodations for spectacular ocean views and sumptuous amenities like soaking tubs for two, in-room fireplaces and private balconies.

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33 Memorable Travel Traditions You Need to Start Today

Want to make your next trip even more special start some of these 33 travel traditions and create unforgettable memories..

There are many reasons why people take vacations. For some, it’s a chance to relax and get away from their everyday lives. For others, it’s an opportunity to explore new places and cultures.

No matter what your motivation may be, there are ways to make your vacation even more special.

One way to do this is by creating travel traditions or simple rituals that you perform every time you travel to turn your trip into something truly memorable and unique.

After traveling to 20 countries, I have started a few memorable travel traditions and now I can share them with you!

Let’s jump in!

Travel Traditions Before You Go

1. Set up a countdown calendar before you go.

To get started on your travel traditions, start by creating a countdown calendar before you go on vacation is a great way to get excited about your trip. It can also help you stay organized and make sure that you don’t forget anything important.

There are many ways to create a countdown calendar. If you’re tech-savvy, you can use a digital calendar or app. If you prefer a more analog approach, you can use a physical calendar or even make your own.

2. Learn how to say a few common phrases for each country.

When you’re traveling to a new country, it’s always helpful to know how to say a few common phrases. This can make it easier to communicate with locals and get information about where you’re going.

In most countries, there are online resources that can help you learn the basics. You can also find phrasebooks in many books or phone apps too.

To make it a fun travel tradition, you can find all the ways to say “hello” or “goodbye,” see if you can find tongue twisters to try, or see if there are slang phrases you might want to learn!

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3. Pack all the same snacks for your airplane ride.

There are many practical benefits to packing the same snacks for your airplane ride. For one, it can help you avoid any surprises when you’re getting ready to board your flight.

It also means that you won’t have to worry about not liking the airplane food options if you are given them.

Apart from the practical, you’ll have created a travel tradition to set your mind at ease when going on long-haul flights as you have something familiar to keep you grounded. (See what I did there?)

4. Download and play the same games for your ride.

Playing the same games on your trip can help you pass the time more quickly and easily when thinking about creating a travel tradition for your ride. It’s also nice to have a plethora of your favorite games to choose from if you need to rotate to a new game after getting bored.

Some of my favorites are Sudoku, Cube Block, Township, Candy Crush, and Best Fiends. I’ve also upgraded to a Nintendo Switch now, so I absolutely love designing my island on Animal Crossing, too!

5. Pick up a book about the city you are visiting.

Reading a book about the city you are visiting is a great way to learn more about its history and culture or even just a fun fictional story set in your destination. It can also help you get excited about your trip and make sure that you don’t miss any important landmarks or attractions.

6. Watch a movie or documentary about the destination you are headed to.

Watching a documentary about the destination you are headed to is another amazing way to see the history and culture before you go. This might give you ideas to start planning your trip and get talking about some of the “can’t miss” sites.

If you choose to watch a movie set in your destination, do a Google search to see a list of some well-known movies.

Examples of this would be Sleepless in Seattle if you’re headed to Seattle, An Affair to Remember for New York… you get my drift.

7. Create a playlist for each destination.

Creating a playlist for each destination can help you get into the vacation spirit while you’re still at home. It can also help you get excited about the different aspects of your trip.

For example, if you’re going to visit a new city, you might want to make a playlist of upbeat songs that reflect the city’s atmosphere.

If you’re going on a relaxing beach vacation, include some slower songs that will help you unwind and soak in the views.

8. Kiss the plane every time you get on.

There are many different ways to show your excitement about a vacation. Some people might jump up and down, some might give a little squeal, and others might kiss the plane.

Yes, you read that right. Every time you get on an airplane to go on vacation, give it a kiss. Now you don’t need to place your lips against metal, but kiss your fingers and tap the plane.

For luck. Or good vibes, whichever you prefer. Now you have a new travel tradition!

Travel Traditions When You’re Visiting

9. make a point to try a specific food in each city you visit..

Keeping with travel traditions, you might think of some of your favorite foods in your hometown and see how it’s done around the world.

Wherever you choose to visit, see if you can find that food or dish and give it a try. Compare and see if you can find the “best of” dish.

For me, I make it a point to try ice cream in all the places I visit. It started off in Italy where I would try the same pistachio-flavored gelato at all the stands in all the different cities we visited, and boom!

Every time I go to a new place, I now try the pistachio flavor, if they have it, or just get some “hipster” flavor like blueberry cardamom wherever I go.

For you, this could be avocado toast, a donut shop, oysters, boba tea (that’s also another one of mine), or main meals like lasagna or steak.

10. Eat McDonald’s in every city you visit.

It’s no secret that McDonald’s is a global fast-food chain. And that means that it’s also no secret you can find one in pretty much every city you visit.

But that doesn’t mean you should just eat there because it’s easy. Eat there because it’s a fun travel tradition!

Plus, when you travel, it’s always interesting to see how other cultures have adopted the franchise and made it their own.

For example, in Japan, you can get Miyazaki Speciality with Chicken Tatsuta. And in China, they have a pineapple pie you can’t get anywhere else!

11. Collect items! This could be anything from keychains to postcards.

Become a collector as you start to create your travel traditions. Not only do you have a physical reminder of your trip, but it can also be fun to look back on all the different places you’ve visited.

I have friends who collect magnets, sand, rocks, and more!

For me, I chose to collect postcards because they’re small, thin, and fit easily inside my laptop or journal so I don’t have to worry about losing them. I then write the date of my trip and add it to my postcard book when I get home.

12. Take a picture of the same pose in each city you visit.

When you’re on vacation, it’s always fun to take pictures in front of iconic locations or in interesting poses. But an even better way to start a travel tradition is taking a picture of the same pose in each city you visit.

This could be as simple as a picture of your back looking at an iconic monument, crossing your legs a certain way, or holding your fingers in the peace sign.

One of my friends is a yoga enthusiast and teacher. Everywhere she goes, she makes a yoga pose and has her picture taken.

13. Buy a piece of clothing from each city you visit.

When you’re on vacation, it’s always fun to buy a souvenir but to create a travel tradition, buy a piece of clothing from each city you visit.

This could be as simple as a T-shirt, hat, or pair of socks. But it could also be something more unique like a dress, kimono, or even a wedding gown!

The point is, it’s a great way to remember your trip and you can wear those items as reminders of all the different places you’ve been. I personally have a very unique pair of underwear from Bali. (Should I have shared that on the internet?)

14. Write a postcard and send it to yourself.

An awesome way to remember your trip and create a travel tradition is by sending a postcard to yourself.

Write a postcard from the airport before you take off or from your hotel room or even as you’re sitting on the beach thinking about all the awesome things you’re doing!

Plus, it’s a great way to reflect on your trip and connect with yourself. You can even write three things you learned about yourself during that time period.

And when you get back home, open up that postcard and read through all the notes from each place you visited! It’s a unique way to capture those memories!

15. Book a cruise or water activity in each location.

A great way to explore the water and have a new travel tradition is by booking a cruise or water activity in each location. It’s also fun to say that you’ve taken a cruise on that river or dipped your toe in the sea.

Your water activity could be anything from a river cruise down the Douro River in Portugal to snorkeling with schools of fish in Maui . I personally have done river cruises and water rafting activities on my trips!

Not only will this give you a great way to see the area, but you’ll also create memories and traditions to look back on for years to come.

16. Plan at least 1 hike for every destination you visit.

Sometimes you might want to get out of the city and enjoy some nature. To do that, intentionally plan a hike or outdoor walk wherever you go. Not only does it provide a way for you to see the area, but it’s also a great way to get some exercise and enjoy the outdoors.

Afterward, you can talk about the hike you just summited or have a collection of hikes you’ve done in the past. I’ve hiked Tiger Leaping Gorge in China, Did the Yeongsil Hike on Jeju Island , summited a 14er in Colorado , and so much more! Now it’s just a travel tradition I keep!

17. Send an email to your family or co-workers.

When you’re on vacation, it’s always nice to take a break from work and relax. But that doesn’t mean you can’t stay connected to your friends and family.

In fact, I recommend sending an email to your family or co-workers every day letting them know what you’re up to.

This could be as simple as a hand-in-the-air shot in front of the Eiffel Tower or a goofy face made next to the Leaning Tower of Pisa. Whatever your travel tradition, make sure you have some fun with it!

18. Take a cooking class for each country you visit.

Cooking classes are a great way to learn about the local cuisine and culture. And what better way to do that than by taking a cooking class in every country you visit?

You’ll learn how to make some amazing dishes and get to know the locals and learn about their culture. I’ve taken cooking classes in Thailand , Vietnam , and more!

19. Buy a Starbucks mug from every city.

Starbucks is a global coffee company with stores in almost every city around the world. One travel tradition you can start is to buy a Starbucks mug from every city, country, or state.

Not only will you have a great collection of mugs to show off to your friends, but you’ll also have a physical reminder of all the amazing places you’ve been.

What’s even cooler is that the designs for each city have local icons, sayings, and cultural tidbits that you wouldn’t be able to get anywhere else!

20. Try at least one of the “crazy” local delicacies.

To truly understand the culture and get a taste of the country, you’ll need to be brave and try some of the local or well-known delicacies and in turn, you might just start a new travel tradition.

Some delicacies just seem crazy and unreal to us, but the locals eat them and even love them! Personally, I’ve tried scorpion in China, egg yolk coffee in Vietnam , and balut in the Philippines!

21. Go on a food tour of each city you go to.

When you go to a new place, it’s always a great idea to try the local food. And the best way to do that is by going on a food tour of each city you visit.

There are guides who know the area well and may even take you to some hidden local gems that you may have never known about in your research.

One of my favorite food tours was in Hanoi when I visited with my friends – we had so much fun and laughter trying all the dishes with our guide! I also enjoyed the food tour my husband and I did in Lisbon !

22. Go on a free walking tour.

When you’re in a new city, a travel tradition to create and one of the best ways to see all the sights is by going on a walking tour. And the great thing about walking tours is that they’re free!

There are tons of companies that offer walking tours, but my favorite is Free Tours by Foot . They have guides in almost every city and all you have to do is tip them at the end of the tour.

23. Keep a travel journal.

One of my favorite travel traditions is to keep a travel journal . It’s a great way to document all your adventures, thoughts, and memories from your trip. When you start talking about the trip, you can look back to remember and reminisce.

There are so many different ways to keep a travel journal, but my preferred method is to take a notebook, bullet journal style, and write and draw about my trip.

I also like to include things like ticket stubs, maps, receipts, and other mementos from my trip.

24. Play a fun game over the course of your trip.

Playing a game over the course of a trip is a fun travel tradition and an easy way to make sure you have some fun while you’re away from home. If it’s a good game, you might even see some of the more off-the-beaten-path places in the city.

Some of my favorite travel games include scavenger hunts, a tame game of the Amazing Race, and even a city-wide game of hide-and-seek!

Travel Traditions After You Return

25. create a photo album..

Creating a photo album helps you relive your trip and share your experiences with friends and family. And it’s a great way to show off all your amazing photos from your trip.

There are so many different ways to create a photo album, but I’ve gotten in the habit of creating a digital album.

I personally use Facebook albums so I can create collaborations with my friends. We then like to create a witty title like “The Great Llama Hunt” and add our own pictures!

If you prefer a physical scrapbook, Hobby Lobby and Michael’s has amazing options for books, fancy stickers, and so much more too!

26. Keep a small bill or coin from your trip.

When returning home, a travel tradition I’ve started is to keep a small bill or coin from every country I visit.

I currently keep them all in a bag, but I do enjoy going through them from time to time and seeing how each country has different coins and bills.

My favorite, of course, is from China where every bill is a different color and size so you never have to confuse bills if you’re just pulling them straight from your wallet!

27. Make your own souvenirs.

If you’re looking for something a little more personal, a travel tradition of mine is to make my own souvenirs. There are so many different ways to do this, but my favorite is to create shadow boxes.

If I collect things like sand dollars, acorns, or some other nature-related item, I’ll put them together in a shadow box and hang them up. I also like taking my photos and creating a photo gallery of all the places I’ve been to.

28. Recreate a recipe from your destination.

One of the best ways to remember your trip is by recreating a recipe from the destination you visited. This is especially helpful if you’ve taken a cooking class because they’ll usually send you home with the recipes.

When you get home and remake a dish you learned, you’ll have taken the flavors home with you and created a new travel tradition.

Travel Traditions to Keep the Inspiration

29. plan a trip to a beloved destination..

When you return home, you might be feeling a bit of the travel blues, where you miss all the fun and new things you’ve just done. But you have to get back to normal life.

To combat this, you can start planning your next trip to a destination you love!

My in-laws, for example, head to Maui every summer, and they love sitting by the beach, enjoying the flavors of the island, and getting some amazing sun in, too!

30. Plan a birthday trip every year.

There’s no better way to celebrate a birthday than by doing it abroad. And what could be more special than celebrating your birthday every year in a new and amazing destination?

This can be an annual travel tradition you can start with your family, partner, or friends! If you’re a solo traveler, you can go even bigger and not have to worry about other people’s opinions!

31. Keep a map of all of the places you’ve visited.

One of the best ways to keep track of your adventures is by keeping a map that marks all of the places you’ve visited.

This is a great way to have a physical representation of all the places you’ve been and also serves as a great conversation starter with other travelers.

You can get creative with your map and use different colors or symbols to mark the places you’ve been.

Personally, I use the Been App to keep track of all my adventures. It tells me what percent of the world I’ve seen as well as keeps count for me.

32. Have a travel vision board.

For inspiration, a travel vision board is a perfect way to keep all of your travel dreams in one place. This can be a physical board where you collect pictures, magazine clippings, or just ideas of where you want to go.

You can also create a digital vision board on Pinterest or another social media platform. This is a great way to keep your travel traditions alive once you return home and are waiting for the next adventure!

33. Keep an adventure fund.

One way to make sure you’re always able to go on vacation is by having an adventure fund. This is a savings account you dedicate specifically to your travels.

You can gamify your adventure fund as a fun way to build up your savings for travel so you can afford to go on your dream vacation to start all the wonderful travel traditions again in a new place!

Final Thoughts: Creating Memorable Travel Traditions

Make your vacations even more special and memorable by creating travel traditions. My favorites are finding ice cream and creating photo albums together and I enjoy introducing them to whoever I’m traveling with.

What are some of your favorite travel traditions? Need more travel inspiration? Check out these posts!

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My Favorite Travel Tips + Resources

Here is a quick glance at all my go-to travel tips and resources that I use to plan every trip! For more information, check out my travel resources page .

• Booking flights: I use Google Flights to check all routes and find the best flights. Then I compare Skyscanner (for the lowest prices) before I book.
• For hotels, I go through Booking.com or book directly with Marriott (for points + rewards).
• When I travel internationally, I’ll book through Hostelworld for very budget-friendly stays.
• For vacation rentals, use Vrbo or Marriott Homes & Villas .
• Expedia also has some great bundles for hotels, flights, and car rentals altogether.
• Car Rentals: I love renting cars through Discover Cars . They have been consistent and provide the best customer service.
• Trains in Asia: Trip.com has the best options!
• Trains in Europe: Trainline or Omio .
• Visa Application: For a hassle-free process, apply for your visa from iVisa .
• Travel Credit Card: I book all my travel (flights, hotels, car rentals) through Chase Sapphire .
• Vaccines and Medications: Check the CDC website for updates on necessary vaccines to enter a country, including updates on Covid-19 and recommended places to visit. I recommend getting all the vaccines you need before you go!
• Tours + Experiences: I absolutely love my tours! Everything from eerie walking ghost tours to food tours, I’ll usually book something every trip either through Viator or GetYourGuide .
• Entertainment: Looking for entertainment like sporting events, theater shows, or concerts? Book with Ticket Squeeze !
• Tech : Keep your internet browsing safe, secure, and fast with ExpressVPN
• Language Learning: The best place to learn a new language is through Babbel as you travel to countries you don’t know the language.
• What to Pack: I almost always travel by backpack . For products I like, check out my packing guide page for all the things I take with me on different trips.

Pafoua is the author and creator of Her Wanderful World. Pafoua writes from her numerous excursions about all things travel, from fun itineraries to creating memorable experiences on the road. When she’s not traveling, Pafoua loves a fun board game night with her friends or is snuggled up reading a good book. You can find her on Instagram @herwanderfulworld.

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13 Love Traditions from around the World

Brace yourself. The diamonds are coming.

December 21, 2015 by lesleymurphy 2 Comments

December marks the most popular month to get engaged, and soon enough all of our news feeds will be flooded with sparkles, smiles and save-the-dates. Perhaps it’s all the togetherness that convinces those future spouses to get down on one knee. Maybe they want to literally “ring” in the New Year. Either way, love is most definitely in the air this month, and an excuse to celebrate its many facets is welcomed. Whether you’re dancing to “Single Ladies”, celebrating an anniversary or planning your special day, let’s take a look at the different love traditions from around the world.

Hong Kong: Lantern Festival

On the last day of Chinese New Year celebrations, couples spend time together on what’s informally known as ‘Chinese Valentine’s Day’, celebrated on the 15th day of the lunar calendar. While its origins are disputed, most believe that matchmaking was once an important aspect. Today the Lantern Festival marks the end of the Chinese New Year, but it’s still embraced as a day of love as many couples light red lanterns before letting them drift into the sky.

Brazil: Dia dos Namorados

Also known as Lover’s Day, this Brazilian holiday is celebrated the same way as Valentine’s Day, just on a different date. It’s supposedly observed on June 12 since it falls on the eve of St. Anthony’s Day, the patron saint of marriage. Other theories suggest that it’s celebrated in June so as not to overlap with Carnival – although that didn’t stop couples from celebrating the event when it overlapped with last year’s World Cup. I was there, and trust me, love was in the air!

Sweden: Rings for All

When there’s no one you’d rather spend your life with, couples commemorate their love with rings. The traditional Swedish custom is to purchase gold bands as engagement rings for both women and men, only to buy a diamond ring for the bride on the wedding day. Now we’re seeing more and more Swedish women receiving a diamond engagement ring while the man gets a gold engagement band. Another fun wedding tradition in Sweden goes that if the bride leave the room for any reason during dinner, all the women line up to kiss the groom as he sits there all by his lonesome, and vice versa. Nobody should ever be alone on their wedding day!

Finland: Friend’s Day

Every love story is different. Some couples fall in love at first sight; other couples start as friends as their romance develops over time. Friend’s Day, or Ystävänpäivä in Finnish, is also observed on February 14, but with a twist. Back in the ’80s the country decided to change the nature of the holiday to be more inclusive, and so Friend’s Day was born. It’s still customary to give cards, candy, and flowers – let the warm fuzzies commence!

Paris, France: Love Locks

The Pont des Arts bridge is known for couples attaching brass locks to proclaim their love to one another…until June 1st of this year, that is. Love locks arrived in Paris in 2008, and after hundreds of thousands of couples “locked” their love for one another, they’d throw away the key into the Seine River. Those keys are now considered litter, and the bridge can no longer withstand the weight. The amorous custom continues in places such as Italy, London, Budapest, Berlin, the Brooklyn Bridge, and the Charles Bridge in Prague.

Worldwide (mostly): New Years Kiss

The tradition to share a smooch at midnight has been around for some time, allegedly rooted in German and English folklore. Kiss someone at midnight and you’ll have luck in love throughout the following year. While steeped in years of tradition, the NYE kiss seems to have become more of an arbitrary act that no longer holds any real significance, other than being a simple show of love, an expression of well wishes, or just a fun thing to do with your partner (or the random person lucky enough to be standing next to you when the countdown begins).

Wales: Love Spoons

Giving a whole new meaning to the term ‘spooning,” this cute Welsh tradition requires the groom to present his lover with a meticulously carved wooden spoon, a gesture that he will always feed and provide for her. If the affections are not mutual, the spoon is returned, but if the spooning is successful, the sweetheart must wear it around her neck for a number of days. Love spoons are given for many special occasions such as weddings, birthdays, anniversaries, births, engagements, christenings, house warming and Valentines Day.

Africa: Henna Tattoos

Henna designs are adorned to bride’s hands and feet before her wedding ceremony. They signify the bride’s beauty, womanhood and worth, so she boasts the most elaborate designs. For thousands of years, the art of henna (called mehndi in Hindi & Urdu) has been practiced in India, Pakistan, Africa, and the Middle East.

Mexico: Money Dance

The Money Dance commences in Mexico when male guests pay to dance with the bride. Payments may be put into a special bag or pinned to the bride or groom’s jacket. The money is then expected to be used by the newlyweds for their honeymoon or new home together.

India: Dance Off

Being in love is an amazing thing. In New Delhi, it means being able to watch your friends shake it off at your wedding. If you made the cut and were formally asked into the wedding party, you better get to learning some bollywood dances as it’s tradition for the couple’s friends to perform at the wedding!

China: Wardrobe Changes

In China, brides typically walk down the aisle in a slim-fitting, embroidered dress, also known as a qipao. For the reception, they change into a more Cinderella-esque dress with Western flare. The bridal fashion show doesn’t end there! To cap the night, Chinese brides often make a final change into a cocktail dress during the reception. Some brides even go a step further with a fourth dress – now that’s a work out.

Italy: Vow Renewals

Vow renewals apparently emerged in Italy, although it has become popular in the U.S. since around the 1950’s. Designed for couples to recommit their promises to one another, vow renewals can be celebrated many different ways. For some, it’s a chance to celebrate the wedding a couple never had. Others may have surpassed a difficult point in their relationship. Some duos may be celebrating a milestone anniversary. Many people go all out, planning a big party for friends and family as they exchange new rings with one another.

USA: Diamonds Are Forever

The traditional 60th wedding anniversary gift in the U.S. are diamonds. If you’ve made it last this long, you deserve more than one in my book! Why not two? The new Ever Us ring incorporates two diamonds side by side, symbolizing the fact that two people are simultaneously each other’s best friend and true love. I believe the most successful long-term relationships are a strong combination of both. Let’s just hope the younger generations can mirror the baby-boomers’ values!

Reader Interactions

December 22, 2015 at 2:04 pm

Love spoons, SO adorable!

December 22, 2015 at 4:51 pm

Agreed! I’m also loving Friend’s Day in Finland 😉

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I was on a boat in the middle of the Indian Ocean, about to taste real life in the Maldives .

A crew of fishermen from Sun Siyam Iru Veli , located in the Dhaalu Atoll, set up the fishing lines. We were anchored off the shores of the nearby local island Bandidhoo, where people fish tuna for money and smaller reef fish for their tables. 

The task seemed simple enough: bait attached to a hook tied to the end of a fishing line, which I was to hold by hand. As the line dropped to the reef, I was to wait for the feel of a fish nibbling on the bait. Then I’d just pull the line by hand, and voilà: a catch. No poles or spears required. 

Long-line fishing is a generations-old tradition in the Maldives, a way of life for its people. Living in an island nation where not much grows, Maldivians sustain themselves off of fish and coconuts. Not only is it an ancient practice, but long-line fishing is sustainable, taking just a few fish at a time with minimal damage to coral reefs or bycatch. 

I quickly learned that I was not a natural long-line fisher. For the next hour, I mistook the moving current for a gullible fish when I was actually the gullible one. Other times, the fish was stealthy enough to take the bait without me feeling anything at all. 

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Instead, I watched the fishermen work their magic. The line danced in their hands, flying up and down. Sensitive to the slightest movement going on 65 feet underwater, they knew the exact moment to start pulling the line up and win the battle against the fish. 

As the sun set over the water, we caught a total of nine fish, including emperor fish, batfish and humpback snapper. 

Although the rest of the fish went to the fishermen to enjoy at home, one snapper would make a reappearance the following day. For lunch, I enjoyed the red snapper, grilled to perfection and sliced raw into sashimi. 

While the Maldives is renowned as a romantic, luxurious destination where people can enjoy the sunshine, soft white sand and gentle lapping turquoise waters, it’s also packed with history and culture. While everyone should spend some time relaxing at the beach , the atoll nation offers way more for travelers to do – and learn more about life in the Maldives. 

Like most things in the Maldives, most activities are unfortunately pricey, especially since booking through a resort is pretty much your only option.

Long-line fishing is just the beginning. Here are eight other activities in the Maldives beyond simply lounging on the beach.

Go fish, Maldivian-style

Sunset fishing was hands-down my favorite excursion in the Maldives. Watching the fishermen in action was exhilarating, even though I couldn’t get the long line fishing down myself. Partaking in the ancient fishing tradition was a peek into real Maldivian life – and against the most gorgeous of backdrops: the sun setting over the ocean. To pick which fish to eat the next day and how it would be prepared made the experience extra rewarding.  

Check out the marine life

The Maldives is rich in marine biodiversity. Guests can snorkel and dive with whale sharks in southern waters and alongside manta rays in the north. At Sun Siyam Iru Veli, I went on an afternoon snorkeling tour, a 20-minute boat ride from the resort, and swam along the reef, an uninhabited island. Dropping about 100 feet, the reef was overflowing with marine life. I spotted a plethora of tropical reef fish along with three Hawksbill turtles – the most common type in the Maldives – and a white-tip reef shark. 

Even on resort grounds, travelers have plenty of opportunities to easily witness marine life – I spotted a pod of dolphins swim past me on my sunset fishing excursion and baby reef sharks around the shoreline by my villa at Sun Siyam Iru Veli in the mornings. 

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Explore the ocean … at night

Most resorts in the Maldives also have a house reef, where colorful clownfish and triggerfish swim around anemones and soft coral. At Sun Siyam Iru Fushi , guests can request a nighttime snorkeling activity, where they dive in after the sun sets to see the reef in another light, literally. 

The gear was simple. I slipped an orange filter over my snorkel mask, secured with a band, to eliminate the fluorescence caused by my blue light flashlight. This light source would make all the difference, as the soft coral and anemones absorbed the blue light, casting neon greens and reds back. The bright red anemones swayed in the dark and soft coral glowed, showcasing intricate brain-like textures and patterns not noticeable in daylight. 

Help restore some coral

Coral reefs play a critical role in the very existence of the Maldives; without them, the islands would be damaged by strong waves. Maldivians also rely on the fish from reefs for their livelihoods. Guests can participate in coral restoration alongside on-staff marine biologists at multiple Sun Siyam Resorts with coral planting. In this activity, I fastened coral fragments to a metal frame that’s later placed in the ocean to hopefully regrow and thrive. 

Visit a local island 

Sun Siyam Resorts offers travelers the chance to get off the resort island and witness everyday life for Maldivians. Guests can sign up for a local island tour, which takes them to a local fishing village to meet community members and see the school and local shops. I went on a local farm tour, where I got to see how some of the produce, such as papaya, that’s served in the resorts are grown. 

Watersports galore

In the Maldives, the ocean is the main attraction. Siyam World Maldives way offers more than the typical jet skis, paddleboards and kayaks. Guests of all ages can clamber around on the Indian Ocean’s biggest floating waterpark, made up of inflatable obstacles. There are also electric surfboards, kite surfing, banana boats and underwater jetpacks. I rented a seabob, a diving scooter that let me glide up and down underwater like a dolphin at up to 13 miles per hour. It was a strange sensation, but definitely took snorkeling to the next level. 

Visit an uninhabited private island

Over 83% of the Maldives’ 1,192 islands are uninhabited, allowing travelers to bask in unspoiled tropical landscapes. At Sun Siyam Iru Fushi, I was able to enjoy untouched nature and be the only present human there. Sun Siyam Iru Fushi and its sister resort, Siyam World, also share a small private island where only palm trees exist (and a restroom facility, so don’t worry about that). Guests can book the private island for picnics and photoshoots, which willand it’ll be exclusively theirs for the entire time. During the picnic, staff set up a tent for respite from the afternoon sun and served lunch and even champagne. No roughing it here.

Learn more about Maldivian culture

Every Friday night at Sun Siyam Iru Fushi, Maldivian staff share a piece of their culture with guests through traditional song and dance – of course, guests are invited to learn the dance, too. In Boduberu , dancers move energetically to the beat of coconut drums and folk singing. The dancing style is said to have come from African sailors who reached the Maldives many centuries ago, and is typically performed at special occasions and celebrations. The resort also offers cooking classes, where guests can learn how to make traditional Maldivian dishes, and free workshops such as making your own coconut oil, a staple product for cooking in the country. 

Kathleen Wong is a travel reporter for USA TODAY based in Hawaii. You can reach her at [email protected] .

21 BEST Travel Gifts for Couples [2024 Gift Guide]

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Short on time? Our picks for the best travel gifts for couples are the National Geographic Destinations Book , Couple’s Travel Journal , and Custom Etsy Artwork .

The best travel gifts for couples to use before, during, or after their next adventure.

Did you know that traveling helps couples stay together longer?

I’m not saying this rhetorically. The findings of a 2013 U.S. Travel Association concluded, “Couples who travel together have healthier, happier relationships compared to those who do not.” 

As the study explains, traveling helps build and maintain relationships. This is true in friendships but especially in romantic partnerships. 

If you’re reading this article, I probably don’t need to sell you on why you should travel. 

You’re already thinking of your favorite traveling couple or a giftee who loves travel, and I’m here to help out with some travel gift ideas. 

These travel gifts for couples are unique, personalized, thoughtful, and go far beyond the same old, run-of-the-mill travel-sized games you can pick up at a souvenir shop.

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National Geographic Destinations Book

Looking for gift ideas for couples and travel lovers to help them discover and plan life-changing trips?

Journeys of a Lifetime by National Geographic has more than 500 recommendations for amazing adventures and memorable experiences. 

From romantic destinations to thrilling journeys, this book has it all. 

This book would make a great wedding gift for a traveling couple. Imagine receiving this book at your wedding and spending time flipping through it with your partner, pointing out all the places you’d like to go.

(Psst: in search of great gift ideas for traveling couples that love food? National Geographic has a book similar to this centered around food experience).

Customizable Scratch-Off Map

I love when I get the chance to visit a different country. Partly, that’s because I can’t wait to get home and use my scratch-off world map!

Scratch-off maps make great gifts for couples who enjoy exploring the world together.

I love this specific option from Etsy because of the hand-drawn watercolor detailing. You can personalize it with your own wording (and font) across the bottom. 

I don’t think you can go wrong with this fun travel gift idea!

Looking for travel gift ideas for couples that both partners can use?

This sling bag is unisex, making it suitable for either partner to carry. 

Here’s why it’s useful: while exploring a new place, traveling couples usually shop together… which means they bring new items home. 

Even if you’re not shopping, you’ll need a space for items like water bottles, extra chargers, etc. 

This bag is just the right size to hold the things you carry or accumulate throughout your day, but is still easy to wear and hand off to each other.

Hanging Toiletry Bag

Although some people say that practical travel gifts can be tedious, I don’t find that true. For example, I think this hanging toiletry bag is a great gift. 

Couples share hotel rooms, and therefore, they share bathrooms.

Anyone who has shared a hotel bathroom knows how easily the sink space can fill up with toiletries… so keep items separate in a shared bathroom on the next trip with a hanging toiletry bag. 

This Elviros toiletry bag is an excellent choice because the (artificial) leather is water-resistant. The simple color options are suitable for anyone!

Passport Holders

Passport holders are always a good idea!

This is the perfect travel gift idea for couples who like to match. After all, any travel-loving couple will probably be best friends with each other…. and their passports.

I prefer this holder from Etsy because it’s a travel-themed gift that allows personalization by choice of color and name. 

Help them keep their passport secure and identifiable by gifting them this set. 

Just remember this listing is for one individual passport, so to form a set, you’ll have to purchase two.

Luggage Tags

How sweet would matching luggage tags for travel couples be?

This Etsy listing is for custom beautiful leather luggage tags. The tagline at the bottom reads “Traveling together since __ [Insert Year],” which makes them great gifts for couples because they honor an anniversary. 

Little details like this sound perfect for a travel couples’ gift. 

We all know a person who needs new luggage. If your giftee is one of those people, a lovely carry-on luggage like this Samsonite Omni is a great travel gift idea.  

When it comes to luggage, I’m on team hardshell. I just love how durable this luggage style is. I always lean towards choosing a dark color, so that I’ll worry less about the outside getting nicked or dirty.

P.S. This style comes in additional sizes if you want something other than a standard carry-on. 

Check out more suitcase options in our in-depth guide to hardshell luggage .

Luggage Scale

This handy little tool is one of the best gifts you can get your travel couple to save money.

Let me explain–

I purchased this luggage scale when I began to travel internationally, and I can’t stress enough how much I love it. 

I never have to worry about unplanned fees at the airport– one less thing to stress about when heading to different travel destinations.  

While this is a fun little gift, it’s also the perfect complement to any other luggage-related gifts listed above. 

Travel Pillow

The last thing anyone wants is a grumpy travel partner. A long travel day is conducive to… precisely that. 

That’s why a great gift idea for couples can be something seemingly mundane– like a travel pillow. 

Travel pillows come in handy on long flights. Sure, they improve your chances of sleeping, but they’re also great for overall comfort when you watch movies or read books. 

Encourage your travel-loving couple to try one out on their next flight! 

Packing Cubes

Packing cubes are great for keeping clothes organized. They can be the perfect couples travel gift for an adventurous couple.

I’m talking about a pair that enjoys camping trips and backpacking or who may be sharing a suitcase. 

Think Tank Photo cubes are one of our favorites to recommend because of their high-quality materials and see-through covers. 

The transparent outer shell helps you easily identify whose cube is whose– an excellent feature for couples. 

You can find more information about them (and other styles!) in our article that ‘unpacks’ whether packing cubes are worth it !

Cork Globe with Pushpins

As I mentioned, I think a perfect gift idea for travel couples is any sort of mark-off map.

Scratch-off maps are popular, but consider a globe if you feel like doing something a little more off-the-beaten-path!

The concept is the same: you mark each location you’ve traveled to with the included push pins.

Whenever I notice an item like this in someone’s home, I’m always drawn to check it out. 

I love how this travel gift idea is a piece of home decor and a conversation starter. You can truly get to know people by discussing travel stories.

Blanket 

It can be hard to know which travel gifts to pick for a honeymoon or a romantic trip.

I think an oversized beach towel or blanket is one of the best gifts for couples headed anywhere they’ll be spending time outdoors.

I always find myself using mine on trips, whether I’m headed to the beach or a city park.

This choice from Amazon is portable and large enough for two. The size helps keep couples close together and interacting in the same shared space instead of separated by singular towels. 

This memory box is a travel gift idea for couples to use once they’re home…but those gifts can be just as useful! 

I collect everything when I travel. Ticket stubs for transportation or museums, tour brochures– you name it, I keep it.

These items will end up in my scrapbooks…buuut it usually takes me some time to make that happen. 

In the interim, they live in a memory box like this. 

I’m especially fond of any memory boxes with an atlas print because it reminds me that what’s inside is from all over the world. 

Custom Travel Photo Drawing

If you’re looking for unique travel gifts for couples, get something truly unique: a custom Etsy artwork commission.

This seller creates digital watercolors using the photo you choose to include with your order. 

My best friend did this for her boyfriend after a memorable ski trip. She commissioned an artist to paint the mountain they had enjoyed skiing down the most. 

Now, it’s a decoration for their home that also has so much meaning behind it!

Custom Jigsaw Puzzle

Another unique travel gift idea is this custom jigsaw puzzle, a travel gift for the couple that has everything. 

Whether you’re looking for a gift idea for a couple you’re friends with, or you’re shopping for your significant other, I’m sure it won’t be hard to find some amazing photos from the couples’ travel adventures.

Pick your favorite image, and send it in with your Etsy order. The seller will create this beautiful wooden jigsaw puzzle. 

This gift will always be special because it’s intimately personalized to the travel couple who took the picture. 

Travel Buddy Tshirts

This set of travel buddy t-shirts is a fun gift idea.

You could wear these while traveling or just as pajama shirts in the hotel room. I’d lean towards the latter and enjoy it just as much. 

Or what about designating these travel gifts for couples as plane ride outfits? We all know how a long flight can make you feel…why not have a fun and comfy t-shirt to make it all that much better? 

Personalized Travel Ornament

Looking for travel gift ideas for the holidays? 

This personalized travel ornament makes another unique travel gift choice. 

This birch plywood engraved ornament is a fun gift for a couple that’s had a busy year. Simply list the destinations the Etsy seller should include, and they’ll create an etched ornament. 

Though the listing is pictured with four destinations, you can add additional signposts if your favorite travel couple has been extra busy with trips this year.

Personalized keepsakes make for unique gifts because they will be tailored entirely to the traveling couple you purchase them for.

Scrapbooks are another excellent gift idea for couples who love recording their travel memories.

Plus, if both partners enjoy contributing, this gift could encourage some real quality time together. 

This cherry and maple wood scrapbook has a beautiful atlas etching on the front, complete with the wording “The Adventures of Me + You.”

You can tweak the book to your liking with the choice of hardware colors, binding colors, and paper type. 

Sometimes, the best travel gifts can be ones you use after you return home.  

Couple’s Travel Journal

What do you get for a couple that travels a lot? 

A designated place to record their (many) travel memories!

This journal is a great gift idea because you can bring it on the trip or leave it at home. I’m biased towards recording things in the moment– this journal isn’t too heavy or large, so it’s possible to bring it with you.

At the same time, days can get busy and full when traveling. They also have the option to leave this at home and spend quality time recounting their trip together upon their return.

I love the versatility that this gift offers. 

Ticket Shadow Box

It’s possible to get travel-themed gifts for couples that blend in with their home nicely. 

This shadow box frame has an opening at the top, which allows you to fill it with items like ticket stubs or beer caps.

I love that whenever you look at this box, it’s an instant reminder of adventure. 

I think this ticket shadow box is the perfect gift for couples looking for a way to decorate their home.

Airbnb Gift card

Let’s talk getaway gifts for couples: whether you want to help fund a weekend getaway or a romantic getaway for a honeymoon, consider helping with the accommodation cost. 

There are so many creative and fun AirBnbs that are getaways in their own right. For example, my friend and her boyfriend had a blast staying in a cozy A-Frame cottage with a lofted bed and deck with a hot tub. 

If you find a specific AirBnb you like enough, then you can center your entire vacation around it!

Depending on your budget, a choice like this can easily become a luxury travel gift for a couple.

If you like these gift ideas but feel like trying a new rental platform, check out our article about our list of Airbnb alternatives .

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Monroe Dziersk

Monroe Dziersk was born and raised in Chicago, Illinois. She was quickly drawn to the Southeastern coast of the United States after discovering a world outside of Midwest winters. While attending Elon University, she studied abroad in Florence, Italy. A switch was flipped, and she quickly fell in love with European culture and lifestyle.

She has now traveled to more than 20 countries and hopes to continue the tally while testing out new and unique travel gear along the way. You can often find her accompanied by a good book and her calico cat.

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'Conan O'Brien Must Go' is side-splitting evidence of life beyond late night TV

Eric Deggans

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Conan O'Brien dresses as a Viking in Norway.

To be honest, when I first heard Conan O'Brien was ending his TV talk show in 2021, I assumed news that he might turn to variety shows and online programs to continue his career was some combination of face-saving and wishful thinking.

But after watching the four episodes of his new Max series Conan O'Brien Must Go , it's now obvious — even to a thickheaded critic like me — that leaving late night TV really was liberating for O'Brien. He's leveraged his unique sensibility into several different podcasts, a deal with Sirius XM , specials featuring other stand-up comics and now this travel series for Max — which resembles jokey specials he did for cable channel TBS back in the day.

And as the late night TV genre crumbles under sagging viewership and the decline of traditional media, O'Brien's renaissance also provides an example for the future — where fertile comedy minds and talented performers can spread their work over a much larger canvas.

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O'Brien already made a splash recently with his brilliantly maniacal appearance on the interview-while-eating-hot-wings show Hot Ones , slobbering over hot sauces while claiming, as he was checked over by a fake doctor, that "I'm fine! I'm perfectly f*****g fine!"

This is the place where O'Brien shines — he's called it "this strange phantom intersection between smart and stupid" — and it's on full, freakish, super silly display in every episode of Conan O'Brien Must Go .

The conceit of the show is pretty simple. O'Brien heads overseas to visit average folks in Norway, Argentina, Thailand and Ireland who had once Zoomed in to speak with him on the podcast Conan O'Brien Needs a Fan . Sometimes the visits seem like a surprise — he catches one aspiring Norwegian rapper in shorts and Crocs after popping up on his doorstep — and others seem a bit more planned, including his visit to a radio show with about four listeners in Buenos Aires.

Each episode begins with a solemn monologue which sounds like it is delivered by the film world's most eccentric voice, German filmmaker and actor Werner Herzog (he's not credited in the show and when asked, a publicist at Max shared a quote from O'Brien: "I can neither confirm nor deny the voice in question.")

The torturous accent by "Herzog" makes every line sound absurdly hilarious, describing O'Brien as "the defiler ... with dull, tiny eyes ... the eyes of a crudely painted doll ... he scavenges in distant lands, uninvited, fueled by a bottomless hunger for recognition and the occasional selfie."

Now that's smart. And oh so stupid.

A funhouse mirror version of a travel show

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O'Brien performs onstage with a fan in Norway

Fans of O'Brien's Conan Without Borders specials on TBS already know what his style is when he tackles a travel show — throwing himself into outrageous reactions and situations while working his quirky brand of improvised conversations with hapless bystanders.

In the Max series Conan O'Brien Must Go , that includes O'Brien offering screechy vocals onstage during a performance of a Norwegian emo/rap band. Or asking provocative questions of a couple therapist/sex expert. Or getting beat up in a "fight" with a 10-year-old boy in a bar.

It's all an excuse for O'Brien to unleash his energetic wit, taste for silly absurdity and skill at drawing laughs from sympathetic — if often befuddled — strangers. Whether you enjoy this special will depend on how you feel about O'Brien's style, which can feel a bit like the world's best class clown doing everything possible to make you crack a smile.

(Rent a family in Norway so they can say goodbye when he gets on a SeaCraft? Check. Get local artists to paint a mural of O'Brien, a soccer star and The Pope on the side of a building in Argentina? Double check.)

'Conan O'Brien Needs A Friend' Is A Joke Name For A Podcast — Sort Of

But what amazes in a larger sense is how O'Brien has turned his sensibility into a comedy brand to fuel work on many different platforms. And, at age 60, with more than 30 years as a comedy star, he's been released from the shackles of any genre to shine wherever he chooses — whether it's an episode of Hot Ones or a streaming service which sometimes looks like a collision between True Detective and 90 Day Fiancé .

Leaving late night TV as late night left him

I'm old enough that I started covering TV not long after O'Brien made his first move from the shadows of life as a comedy writer – he worked on Saturday Night Live and The Simpsons — to succeed David Letterman in 1993 as host of NBC's show Late Night (now hosted by Seth Meyers). Back then, NBC gave O'Brien years to figure out the show, honing his smartly serious comedy in a way that would inspire then-teenage fans like Seth Rogen and Bill Hader .

O'Brien left NBC after a disastrous deal where the network tried to make him host of its venerated late night program The Tonight Show and also keep its former host Jay Leno at the network. He moved to a late night show on TBS in 2010, but even then, there was a sense that his creativity was a bit hemmed in by the format.

After 28 Quirky Years, Conan O'Brien Is Leaving Late Night

By the time he left his TBS show Conan for good, it seemed O'Brien was already caught in a trend which would hobble other late night shows — as young viewers consumed his content online and ratings on cable dropped.

Now, with a podcast and digital media company worth many millions and growing status as a TV comedy legend still willing to do almost anything for a laugh, O'Brien is proving there is a successful life beyond late night.

Particularly, if you have the talent to play the fool while leaving little doubt you're also the smartest person in the room.

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A Look Back at Kate Middleton and Prince William’s Wedding – Including How They Broke Royal Tradition!

From their eight-tier wedding cake to Kate's two designer gowns, the future Prince and Princess of Wales' 2011 royal wedding is unforgettable

Nicole Briese is a contributing writer at PEOPLE. She has been working at PEOPLE since 2022. Her work has previously appeared in Us Weekly, Brides and MTV News.

Kate Middleton and Prince William made history on April 29, 2011, when they tied the knot in front of 1,900 guests at Westminster Abbey in London.

Thousands of people flooded the streets to celebrate the event, with several million more watching from home. “There was a swell of smiles and laughter when the cheers came from outside,” attendee Kate Wright told PEOPLE of the affair. “The congregation almost wanted to join in the cheering.”

While the couple favored eloquent and modest details for their big day, like Kate’s understated bouquet, other elements were done at full royal scale, like the eight-tier wedding cake that required removing a door in Buckingham Palace. Real trees and nearly 30,000 flowers were also brought into Westminster Abbey to give it an English country feel.

“We’re supposed to have a small family affair,” William joked to the crowd ahead of his nuptials.

Following the 11 a.m. ceremony, the Abbey’s bell rang for three hours — a practice reserved for special occasions.

The couple held two receptions, one of which was hosted by Queen Elizabeth at Buckingham Palace. Their second was a more intimate gathering thrown by King Charles and lasted well until 3 a.m. where the newlyweds celebrated with 300 of their closest family members and friends, including David and Victoria Beckham and Elton John .

“William and Kate were in the middle, giving it their all,” one guest told PEOPLE. “They really went for it. They were in the full party spirit and stayed until the last minute.”

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The pair, who met at the University of St. Andrews in Scotland in 2001, had long discussed the event. “We were planning it for at least a year, if not longer,” William told journalist Tom Bradby during their engagement interview. “It was just finding the right time.”

Their careful preparation also gave Princess Kate the opportunity to fully experience life as a royal before becoming one. “I wanted to give her a chance to see in and to back out if she needed to before it all got too much,” William said.

From their time-honored traditions to their A-list entertainment, here’s everything to know about Prince William and Kate Middleton’s wedding.

Kate’s engagement ring once belonged to Princess Diana

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Prince William famously proposed to his future bride in Kenya in 2010 with his late mother’s 12-carat sapphire and diamond ring after carrying it around for three weeks.

“I literally would not let it go,” he told Bradby. “I knew, this thing, if it disappeared I would be in a lot of trouble. ... This was my way of keeping [my mother] sort of close to it all.”

The future King Charles first used the ring to propose to Princess Diana after she chose it from jeweler Garrard's catalog in 1981.

"It’s very, very special," Kate told Bradby.

Fifteen other royal couples have married at their wedding venue

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Prince William and Kate exchanged vows at London’s Westminster Abbey. Originally founded in 960 A.D. for worship, coronations and royal burials, the Abbey first served as a wedding venue to King Henry I and Princess Matilda of Scotland in 1100.

Since then, 15 other royal couples — including Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip — have tied the knot at the church.

Kate’s wedding dress broke royal records

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Kate’s English Cluny lace and French Chantilly lace wedding gown was designed by Sarah Burton for Alexander McQueen. The long-sleeved dress also had a small piece of blue fabric sewn inside (her “something blue”), a 9-foot-long train and padded hips, which were designed to look like an opening flower.

When the dress was put on display for the public after the wedding, it broke royal visitation records: More than 600,000 people came to see its intricacies, which included four plant motifs on the skirt to represent England, Scotland, Wales and Ireland. The details were hand-appliquéd using an old Carrickmacross lace-making technique  — the bride’s “something old."

Kate's accessories covered the “something borrowed” and “something new” adages, including the Cartier Halo Tiara lent to her by the Queen. She also wore Robinson Pelham earrings , which were a gift from her parents, and featured an oak leaf with a pear-shaped diamond inspired by the Middletons’ new coat of arms.

William didn’t watch Kate walk down the aisle

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Though Kate was a vision in her bespoke gown, William, who was waiting at the altar, never turned around to watch the future Princess of Wales make her way down the aisle.

As Kate processed down the aisle with her father, Michael Middleton , the prince remained facing forward for the entirety of her roughly four-minute march to keep in line with British wedding traditions, which typically see the groom and his best man looking straight ahead until the bride arrives at the altar.

William's brother, Prince Harry — who served as the best man — did sneak a peek at Kate as she headed to the altar and whispered to his brother, "Wait until you see her."

They honored several royal wedding traditions

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Prince William and Kate’s nuptials were traditional in several ways. Though William opted to forgo a wedding band, Kate’s was made with Welsh gold. According to Clogau Gold , the same type of Welsh gold was used to make wedding bands for the Queen Mother in 1923, Queen Elizabeth in 1947, Princess Anne in 1973, Princess Diana in 1981 and Meghan Markle in 2018.

Kate also followed tradition by leaving her bouquet at the Grave of the Unknown Warrior , which serves as a tribute to those who died in World War I. The ritual was started by the Queen Mother in honor of her brother Fergus Bowes-Lyon, who was killed during the Battle of Loos in 1915.

Following their nuptials, the newlyweds rode in the then-109-year-old State Landau carriage — the same one that transported Charles and Diana on their wedding day — and shared a kiss on the balcony of Buckingham Palace, following in the footsteps of William's parents and Prince Andrew and Sarah Ferguson .

They broke some traditions, too

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While many royal brides, including Queen Elizabeth, have said they would “obey” their husbands in their vows, Kate took a cue from her late mother-in-law and omitted that part in her vows, helping to start a new tradition. In 2018, Meghan Markle also omitted the word in her vows to Prince Harry .

Kate also forged a new path by having her sister, Pippa Middleton , as her maid of honor — a role that usually doesn’t exist in British royal weddings. Traditionally, only children typically make up the royal bridal party.

As for her transportation, Kate arrived at Westminster Abbey in a 1978 Rolls-Royce Phantom VI instead of a horse-drawn carriage.

Kate did her own makeup

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Princess Kate went without a professional makeup artist on her big day. Instead, the royal bride opted to take lessons from makeup artist Arabella Preston at her private flat in London.

“Kate’s comfortable and confident in doing it herself,” wedding planner Mark Niemierko told PEOPLE in 2011.

Kate’s bouquet featured a nod to the groom

The future Princess of Wales' bouquet by Shane Connolly was made to be modest. According to the palace , the arrangement was made entirely of British flowers, including lily of the valley for happiness; hyacinth for constancy of love; ivy for fidelity; myrtle for marriage; and, in a nod to her groom, sweet William for gallantry.

The myrtle stems came from a bush grown from Queen Victoria ’s wedding bouquet in 1845 and Queen Elizabeth’s in 1947.

The aisle was lined with real trees

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William and Kate’s artistic director of flowers, Shane Connolly, transformed the Abbey’s aisle into an “avenue of trees” with live field maples to symbolize reserve and humility and two hornbeams to represent resilience and strong love.

He topped it off with 30,000 white, green and cream flowers that were chosen to evoke an English country style, according to the BBC . "The aim is the Abbey looks unpretentious and simple and natural and that it reflects the fact that Catherine is a country girl at heart and that the couple are the best of British,” Connolly told the outlet.

The Daily Mail reported in October 2022 that six of the trees were replanted at the royal family’s 192-acre Llwynywermod estate in Carmarthenshire, Wales.

The bridal party made a splash

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The royal bridal party consisted of four bridesmaids: Lady Louise Windsor , daughter of Prince Edward and Sophie , the Duke and Duchess of Edinburgh; Grace van Cutsem, daughter of William’s friend Hugh van Cutsem; Lady Margarita Armstrong-Jones , daughter of the Earl of Snowdon ; and Eliza Lopes , granddaughter of Queen Camilla . Three-year-old Grace stole the show when she covered her ears to drown out the roaring crowd on the palace balcony.

They were accompanied by two page boys: William Lowther-Pinkerton, son of William’s former secretary Jamie Lowther-Pinkerton , and Tom Pettifer, the son of William and Harry’s former nanny Tiggy Legge-Bourke .

Staff had to remove a door to bring in the wedding cake

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Prince William and Kate certainly didn’t skimp on their wedding cake. The pair had two confections to indulge in: CNN reported that William requested a chocolate biscuit cake in addition to their eight-tier, 3-foot-tall fruitcake.

The fruitcake was so large that a door had to be removed to fit it into the palace’s Picture Gallery. "I can remember her saying, 'I hear that you've been dismantling my house,' ” pastry chef Fiona Cairns recalled of the Queen in the ITV documentary The Day Will and Kate Got Married . "And I said to her, 'Well, we had to take a door down from the room below for the trolley to go through with the cake.' But it was all put back so in the end, it was fine.”

Made from 17 smaller cakes, the masterpiece was intricately detailed with piping and garland. It was decorated with 900 sugar-paste flowers, which took Cairns and her team five weeks to create. The confection also featured the same lace pattern from Kate’s dress.

The couple later served pieces of the cake at each of their three children's christenings.

Ellie Goulding performed at the reception

The bride and groom shared their first dance to Elton John's “Your Song,” performed by Ellie Goulding .

"I was so nervous that my hands were shaking," Goulding told Vogue Australia of her performance.

William and Kate, who also danced to the Beatles ’ “She Loves You” at their reception, were later treated to a second serenade from Goulding, who reportedly sang “Starry Eyed” for the pair.

Kate wore a second dress

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For the reception, Kate changed out of her lace gown and into a white satin dress, also designed by Burton, with a strapless neckline and diamante around her waist. She topped it off with a fuzzy white stole.

Prince Harry and King Charles both gave speeches

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Prince Harry wrote in his 2023 memoir, Spare , that he improvised much of his speech, during which he said that he loved Kate and called her “the sister he never had." He also expressed that she was perfect for his big brother, told stories about his time growing up with William and referenced their late mother, whom he said would have enjoyed watching his brother and Kate’s love blossom.

Charles also had a loving message for the bride and groom. London Chamber Orchestra music director Christopher Warren-Green recalled to PEOPLE: “Charles spoke so warmly about his small boy. He said it only seemed the day before yesterday when he was building [houses] out of chairs in the living room.”

As for Kate, Warren-Green said Charles acknowledged “how grateful he was to have such a lovely daughter now, and spoke about how much he knew she loved [William] and would support him.”

I got remarried, and I'm raising 3 boys in a blended family. Kid-free travel helps us bond as a couple.

• Sara Lyle and her husband both  went through divorces and now have  shared custody of three sons with their exes.
• They let off parental stress by getting away without the kids — a tactic recommended by experts as well.
• Kid-free travel allows them to reconnect as a couple and counteract the demands of blending a family.

Last Christmas, my youngest son got me a "Wonder Mom" coffee mug from his school's holiday fair. It's red and blue with yellow stars and makes me smile whenever I see it in the cupboard. While I appreciate the sweet gesture, the gift didn't come with any superpowers. If it did, they would come in handy on school days. Allow me to explain.

My husband and I are raising a blended family with three boys — 8, 13, and 15 — who each go to a different school with slightly different start times. We have one car, so ensuring they arrive before the last bell rings requires Swiss time-keeping precision.

To beat the clock, I get up at 6:30 a.m. and head downstairs to cook breakfast for the five of us while my husband takes care of waking up the kids. Most mornings, I make a few variations of breakfast because we have a mix of picky eaters and food allergies to accommodate, and I want to make sure they have something healthy-ish in their stomachs before leaving. There are medications and vitamins to remember, school IDs and water bottles to pack, and the dog needs to be fed, too.

Once the boys are off, my husband leaves for work, and I get started on my to-dos from the home office. After school, there are pickups, extracurricular activities, dinner, and bedtimes to juggle. My husband and I finally take off for the night around 9:30 p.m., assuming there isn't any last-minute laundry to do.

Parental burnout is on the rise

We aren't the only ones with a schedule like this — to say nothing of dealing with work, financial and other pressures — which is why it makes sense that parental burnout is so high .

A 2023 study by the American Psychological Association found that parents of children under 18 reported a significant increase in stress levels compared to pre-pandemic times. To be exact, 33% of parents now rate their stress between 8 and 10 on a 10-point scale, a 9% increase since 2019.

The APA also looked at the impact of parental burnout and recommended various strategies to "enhance resilience in parenting" such as going on vacations without the children or simply taking "microbreaks" throughout the day. This can be as simple as listening to a guided meditation in the car after running an errand.

While the microbreaks idea was a new one that I might try, my husband and I were already well-acquainted with the relationship-strengthening remedy of getting away sans kids. It makes me a better mom, too. Here's what I mean.

A balance of family vacations and solo getaways

Since my husband and I blended our households last year, we've been intentional about doing activities and outings with all three of the boys to create family memories and build some lifelong bonds.

So far, we've gone on some fun ones, including a long weekend in Colorado Springs for our wedding with the boys last summer. This fall, we're looking forward to a Caribbean cruise for a nephew's wedding.

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However, between orchestrating the travel logistics to refereeing flare-ups along the way, it can feel like we need a vacation from our family vacation when we get home.

Then, there are the realities of reentry: unpacking everything you packed before, washing the dirty clothes, putting away the laundry and luggage, and catching up on all the other stuff you missed while you were away. For us, multiply that by five.

Getting away as a couple ? It's a comparative breeze. Even just staying for a Friday or Saturday night in nearby Denver allows us to reconnect and recharge, making us better able to handle the ups and downs of modern-day parenting.

We weren't together, pre-kids

My husband and I were never a couple before having kids; we were with other partners. Now, because we share custody with our exes , there are times we are without all three of our sons. Missing them can be tough, but we cherish the opportunities we have to be as "cringe-y" as we want — a term used by our youngest regarding too much PDA — and have some non-parental fun.

Spring break this year was a blast, for example. We spent half the time soaking up the Florida sunshine, seeing family and friends in our shared hometown. Then, we hopped over to New Orleans to enjoy the French Quarter revelries and basically eat our way around town — minus any dietary restrictions from the kids.

Last fall was another adventure, hitting the streets of my old stomping grounds in New York City for five days. Stay up late, wake up late, rinse, and repeat. They don't call it the city that never sleeps for nothing.

Sure, there are heart-twinging moments when we think about the boys — what they might enjoy or find overwhelming about where we're visiting — but we wouldn't trade our kid-free trips for anything.

We learn about ourselves

One of my favorite things about travel, in general, is coming back a whole new person. Getting out of your comfort zone can transform the way you think or see the world. I have experienced this phenomenon in varying degrees at different times in my life, from the summer in high school when I stayed with a friend's family in France to the seven years my son and I lived in Singapore and had the chance to travel around Southeast Asia .

There are so many places my husband and I want to visit together, and we're eager to cross them off our now-shared bucket list.

Speaking of the list, we realize we probably have fewer years ahead of us than behind us, and we aren't waiting for retirement to enjoy the here and now. It's also wonderful to know I can explore the world with my favorite person at my side, holding my hand.

Traveling without our kids is not about abandoning ship, it's about refilling our cups. Child-free vacations might not be an option for everyone, but even a staycation can do wonders.

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Meghan Markle and Prince Harry Will Travel to Nigeria to Support the Invictus Games

By Erin Vanderhoof

In May, Prince Harry and Meghan Markle will embark on some major travel in support of the Invictus Games, the biennial sporting event for wounded veterans that Harry helped to found in 2014. On Monday, the Invictus Games Foundation announced that Harry will head to the UK to attend a service of thanksgiving in honor of the organization’s 10th anniversary at St Paul’s Cathedral. Later in May, Meghan will join him for a trip to Nigeria by request of the country’s government. The trip will be the couple’s first official international tour since leaving their royal roles in 2020.

On May 8, the Invictus Games ceremony will be led by St Paul’s dean, the Very Reverend Andrew Tremlett, and actor Damian Lewis will read the Invictus poem, which gave the games their name. According to the Daily Mail , Harry is likely to stay in a hotel, as he has on his last few visits to the country. During previous visits to the UK, his wife and children, Lili and Archie, have not joined due to his ongoing concern over his security arrangements in the country.

Later in the month, Harry and Meghan will travel to Nigeria to meet with service members and participate in other cultural activities. In a statement, the country’s acting director of defense information, Tukur Gusau, explained the purpose of the couple’s trip. “The Defense Headquarters has expressed its honor and delight for the acceptance of the Duke of Sussex, Prince Harry, and his wife, the Duchess of Sussex, Meghan, to visit Nigerian in May 2024,” it read . “The visit is to consolidate Nigeria's strong hold at the game and the possibility of hosting the event in later years.”

Nigeria sent its first delegation of wounded veterans to last year’s Games in Düsseldorf , and competitors for the country came home with a gold medal in powerlifting and a bronze in table tennis. During the games, they were joined by the country’s defense minister, Alhaji Mohammed Abubakar Badaru. According to Gusau, the minister expressed that he would be interested in hosting a future edition of the Games in the country.

In Harry’s comments during the opening ceremony, he referenced the new additions, adding he thought his wife would support Nigeria during the games. “Now, I'm not saying we play favorites in our home,” he said . “But since my wife discovered that she's of Nigerian descent, it's likely to get a little bit competitive this year.” In a 2022 episode of her podcast Archetypes, Meghan told Nigerian-American comedian Ziwe Fumudoh that a DNA test had revealed that she was 43% Nigerian.

The 2025 Invictus Games are set to take place in Vancouver and Whistler, Canada next February and will feature the addition of winter sports for the first time. Earlier this year , Meghan and Harry traveled to the region to visit with competitors preparing for next year’s games at a training camp.

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Meghan Markle and Prince Harry will soon travel to Nigeria

Meghan Markle is diving further into her Nigerian heritage in her upcoming trip with Prince Harry.

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The next stop on the Duke and Duchess of Sussex’s world travels will reportedly be Nigeria. 

Meghan Markle and Prince Harry are scheduled to visit the country in May, following an invitation from the Nigerian Chief of Defense Staff. While visiting the African country, the couple will participate in native cultural activities and meet with various service members. 

The invitation to visit was reportedly sparked by Harry’s Invictus Games , a sporting event he designed after discovering how “sports could help wounded servicemen and women in their recovery — physically, psychologically and socially.” Considered to be one of the prince’s few remaining ties to the royal family, the games hosted 500 athletes across 21 nations last year in Germany, where Nigeria was cheered on by the duchess herself . Though the 2025 Invictus Games are scheduled to take place in Canada, Nigeria is expressing its interest in hosting a future event. 

“The visit is to consolidate Nigeria’s stronghold at the game and the possibility of hosting the event in later years,” said Brigadier General Tukur Gusau, Nigeria’s acting director of defense information in a statement, per People magazine . 

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During last year’s event, the couple grew a special affinity for the Nigerian team . In 2022, after learning that she is 43% Nigerian by taking a genealogy test, Markle revealed her newfound heritage on her award-winning podcast “Archetypes.”

“I’m going to start to dig deeper into all this because anybody that I’ve told, especially Nigerian women, are like, ‘What!’” she shared on the show. 

In light of this discovery, Markle and her husband reportedly spent time with Nigeria’s team at the 2023 Invictus Games, during which the Duchess of Sussex received a new nickname. Like her royal title, her Nigerian name, “Amira Ngozi Lolo,” holds a royal meaning, with “Amira” meaning warrior princess from a legend, “Ngozi” meaning blessed and Lolo meaning “royal wife.” 

“Now, I’m not saying we play favorites in our home, but since my wife discovered she’s of Nigerian descent, it’s likely to get a little bit more competitive this year,” Prince Harry said in his 2023 opening speech, teasing about which team the Duchess would be rooting for. 

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‘I didn’t expect anything to change’: what makes long-term de facto couples decide to marry?

Why tie the knot with someone you have lived with for years – and what happens next? Three women share their stories

O n the surface, marriage might not appear relevant to many Australians today. Indeed, most women and half of men say that’s so . De facto couples enjoy the same legal rights as their wedded counterparts, one in seven Australians are in a de facto relationship, and a new survey showed a 15% drop in marriage rates among young Australians between 2001 and 2021 . Yet sometimes even long-term de facto couples are choosing to marry, even after decades (and multiple children) together.

Why? And more pertinently: after such a long time, does it change anything?

According to Dr Jessica Kean, a researcher in gender and intimate relationships at the University of Sydney, marriage is still an institution that is a “dense site of storytelling and meaning-making” about relationships, and those meanings are different for different people.

“There are still sectors of society who see marriage as the only true sign of commitment, so some people may want to marry in order to gain status or recognition in the eyes of others,” she says.

Those considering marriage, she says, should consider and talk about what marriage means to them and “what stories” they might be telling of themselves and their communities by taking part in this institution.

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“Some queer de facto couples who have historically been excluded from marriage, [might marry if it’s] something they always wanted,” she says. “Ultimately the impact of marriage will depend on what it means to the people getting married, and to their communities.”

While most marriages are preceded by cohabitation, it is common to live in a de facto relationship without any intention of marrying; indeed, after a decade together most de facto couples would be considered to be either opposed to – or uninterested in – tying the knot.

So what of those who do wed after a little (or a lot) longer? Below, three women share their reasons for marriage after more than a decade with their partners.

‘ It’s made zero difference to us’

Seana Smith’s mother always warned Seana against marriage. The warning stuck but, after 20 years and four kids with her de facto partner, Paul, the duo had to marry while planning a move to Saudi Arabia:

I met my husband, Paul, when I was 31 and we got pregnant very quickly. By the time we met one another’s parents I was already expecting, so we just decided not to get married. I don’t think either of us had any romantic notions, and my family situation wasn’t a good recommendation for marriage … Mum used to beg us to never have a wedding and that kind of stuck.

We had quite a practical approach and just felt like we had too much going on. At the time my lawyer friend encouraged us to make wills to make sure we had the same rights as married couples.

We had four children and I always expected that one day one of them would come home and ask “Are we bastards?” but surprisingly that never happened. I never wore a wedding ring and I don’t think they noticed.

Paul worked overseas a lot so we wore wedding rings when we lived in Karachi but, when he was thinking of moving to Saudi Arabia and we had to apply for a visa, we knew we had to get married. De facto would not have cut the mustard there.

We got married in Collaroy overlooking the sea, with two friends as witnesses, and then had a wedding breakfast at a local cafe. It was a lovely way to get married. I love other people’s weddings but the thought of organising one was too much for me.

[When we got home afterwards] my daughter, who was 12 at the time, was upset because she really wanted to be there but our sons didn’t care.

We didn’t end up moving to Saudi Arabia, so I feel like I was conned into getting married. Saying the words to each other with really old friends there was a lovely thing to do but it’s made zero difference to us.

When you’re older and see other people dying, you realise marriage is not about a wedding, it’s just about taking care of the other person because love is an action.

‘ I felt it would be harder to give up’

A short-lived marriage in her early 20s left Diane* feeling as though she had followed expectations and not her gut. But though she was wary she married Rick* after nine years and two kids because she was keen to “cement” their commitment to one another:

I had been married for a year at 23, after a five-year relationship. I had doubts and felt trapped in a relationship that I shouldn’t have let progress to marriage but there was so much momentum and [expectations around] social norms that I just followed suit.

Rick and I were living together within six months of our relationship and talked about marriage on and off, [particularly] when our friends were getting married after two or three years. I [made it] clear that it wasn’t something I wanted to do. It almost felt like if we hadn’t done it in those early years there was less of a reason for it.

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We had a child in 2018 and shortly after fell pregnant again. That was a very challenging time for our relationship [navigating gender roles around work and child-rearing]. I did come to realise that marriage was probably important to him. And in thinking of it that way and not worrying about what others thought about another marriage, it started to become more important to me.

We decided to get engaged in between [the two children] as a way to emotionally lock in the relationship. There were moments that we both questioned whether getting married was the right thing to do, even having moments of questioning the relationship all together.

We had been engaged for about two years when his sister passed away unexpectedly. Family seemed to be more important to us after that; you worry about who else you might lose.

I was nervous of not making the right choice again, and the spectacle of a [wedding]. [But] it felt like a chance to re-cement our relationship, to lock it in [for] the future after a difficult few years.

I didn’t expect anything to change but I did feel like it would be harder to give up on the relationship. I hoped the fleeting comments during an argument about walking away would cease, and they have.

We have now been married nearly three years. I have more of a sense that we are more supportive of [one another] and working as a team together. He agrees that our relationship has improved. But whether that’s related to marriage or just life circumstances is hard to know.

‘There was probably an element of tradition in our decision’

Kristy Sibanda and her husband, Lindani, lived together for 10 years before tying the knot, because it was only through marriage that their relationship was afforded “formal recognition” in Lindani’s Ndebele culture.

Lindani and I were only 19 when we met so we knew that we wouldn’t get married for some time. We wanted to finish university, set ourselves up in our careers, mature and have a level of financial security before [we had] a wedding.

Despite the fact that being de facto in Australia now holds the same legal weight as marriage, the rights that come with [a de facto relationship] in Australia [are] not legally recognised in Zimbabwe. For us this could significantly impact the passing on of assets in a deceased estate.

Formal recognition of a relationship in my husband’s Ndebele culture requires marriage, which involves a number of cultural practices. This includes notifying both sides of the family … typically an aunt on the woman’s side and an uncle on the man’s side … [to] ascertain whether the families will get along. [Then] there’s the lobola process (“bride price”) which is designed to be a show of respect and gratitude, and an indication of the commitment and seriousness of the union. Further, the two representatives of each family who were initially notified are essentially charged with assisting the relevant couple in their marriage if there are ever any issues that need to be resolved. It is somewhat of a safeguard, like counselling, to ensure your marriage has the best chance of survival.

If these traditional practices do not occur, and a formal marriage does not take place, whether it be traditional or civil, then the relationship is not recognised as being legitimate.

I think there was probably still an element of tradition in our decision to marry: we wanted to declare our commitment to one another in front of family and friends and have it formally recognised. Marriage does not guarantee a lifelong partnership [but] I think that as a society we still tend to hold on to the notion that marriage ‘holds more weight’.

We also wanted to be married before having children. [While] I am no longer practising, I was raised Catholic, and I think up until recently I had a subconscious sense of obligation to “not have children out of wedlock”.

Neither of us were nervous about tying the knot. I think we had lived together long enough to know each other extremely well, and to know how we worked together as a couple. We did not anticipate our day-to-day relationship changing significantly as a result of getting married [but] I think it has simply evolved over time, as every relationship does.

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